Marianne, a female doctor from Tsinghua University, is a typical "child of someone else's family", smart and motivated. Entering a prestigious university should have achieved something academically and a bright future, however, 6 years later, Marianne, who graduated with a doctorate, did not become the university teacher that others expected, but became an astrologer.
Many people don't understand: a high-achieving student who graduated from Tsinghua University is too ridiculous to be a fortune teller, how can he be worthy of his parents' efforts and the school's training?
As everyone knows, after Marianne entered Tsinghua University, she was under too much pressure, and she was once confused, even severely depressed, and once unable to step out of the dormitory, having suicidal thoughts, no one can imagine these difficult moments she experienced!
Fortunately, she adjusted herself in time and became a professional astrologer after a few years, with a monthly income of more than 30,000. No longer care about the doubts and speculations around you, do what is best for you, and live according to your own wishes.
After reading Marianne's story, do parents also fall into deep thought: what kind of life do they want their children to live in the future?
Not all children can adapt to strong pressure, fierce competition, and those who can't adapt may suffer from mental illness and fall into pain and can't extricate themselves, Marianne is fortunate that she can adjust her mentality in time and start again.
I saw a heart-wrenching scene on the Internet: A little boy in Ningbo, because he couldn't read extracurricular reading, actually slapped himself twice. The child's father was shocked and guilty after seeing it through the surveillance, and perhaps his own education method had brought pressure to the child.
A mother posted a video: her daughter is sick, with a fever-reducing sticker on her head to complete her homework, writing for a while, it is really uncomfortable, crying and asking her mother: Mom, can I rest for ten minutes before writing?
The pressure that parents bring to their children, as well as the pressure that children themselves put on themselves, may be like a mountain that overwhelms children.
Parents should not only look at their children's grades, but also see their children's pressure and collapse, care and understand them in time, and relax appropriately, the sky will not fall.
Entering a prestigious school is definitely not the only purpose of education.
In the process of learning Xi, children can experience the joy of knowledge, find true love, and understand how to look at success and failure...... It's all about having these experiences.
Come on to be a qualified parent and encourage all parents!