In 1960, Lu Liping was born in Beijing into a family of intellectuals. Her parents want their children to study well, but Lu Liping herself is particularly fascinated by the performing arts.
Whenever she comes home from school, she always likes to imitate the actors on TV, thinking that she can be one of them in the future.
In 1978, 18-year-old Lu Liping, like her brother Lu Xiaogang, began to have a crush on her brother's classmate Zhang Fengyi at Nortel. Zhang Fengyi came to Lu's house as a guest in the fourth grade, and Lu Liping was thrilled to see this sunny and cheerful senior for the first time.
Every time Zhang Fengyi came to play with Lu Xiaogang, Lu Liping would shyly peep at him, hoping that he would also notice him.
In order to get close to Zhang Fengyi, Lu Liping plucked up the courage to let her brother match the two together. However, Zhang Fengyi didn't realize Lu Liping's intentions, and thought that Lu Xiaogang was joking with him.
Lu Liping could only refocus her attention on her studies, secretly looking forward to one day being admitted to Nortel and meeting Zhang Fengyi again. Performing arts is her lifelong dream, and she knows that only by Xi studying hard can she become an excellent actress one day.
In 1987, 28-year-old Lu Liping finally got her wish to marry Zhang Fengyi, who she had had a crush on for a long time. remembers that on the wedding night, Lu Liping hugged Zhang Fengyi excitedly, as if to confirm that all this was not a dream.
In the early days of marriage, they were as loving and sweet as all newlyweds, and Lu Liping felt that she had found true love and her life was full of hope.
Soon, Lu Liping was full of good news and was pregnant with her first child. In order to let Zhang Fengyi concentrate on developing her acting career, she took the initiative to give up her job and become a housewife.
In 1988, her son Zhang Boyu was born, and Lu Liping was busy with the children while doing her best to support and encourage her husband's work. She hopes to witness the success of her career with her lover.
However, the good times did not last long, and the trivialities of married life and Zhang Fengyi got together less and more, and the incompatibility between the two personalities was gradually exposed. In 1991, Lu Liping filed for divorce and started a new life with 2-year-old Zhang Boyu.
After just 3 years of married life, although Lu Liping was in pain, she did not give up her heart to pursue true love. She believes that the second time, she will definitely find a real match.
In 1991, Lu Liping returned to the entertainment industry to develop her career after her divorce. She abandoned her dream of acting to get married and have children, and this time she wants to step into this industry in a new state.
With this determination, Lu Liping has participated in many film and television works one after another. She is no longer the girl who simply pursued love back then, but is dedicated to honing her acting skills.
With her outstanding interpretation of the role of "Ge Ling" in the TV series "The Story of the Editorial Department", Lu Liping successfully completed her gorgeous transformation from a movie queen to a powerful actor. She has touched countless audiences with her delicate and sincere acting skills, and the crying and noisy girl has grown into an actress who is swaying in the entertainment industry.
In 1993, Lu Liping became one of the top ten film and television stars in China that year, and her career reached its peak.
After reaching the peak of her career, Lu Liping was not discouraged, but transformed in time and opened a performing arts school. She hopes to pass on her acting experience and cultivate more outstanding young actors.
Although her career is going well, Lu Liping still looks forward to a warm home in her heart, which is her biggest dream in this life.
In 1999, 39-year-old Lu Liping chose to marry Tao Wei, a retired football player who was 6 years younger than her. Tao Wei is cheerful and optimistic, and is very kind and caring for her and her son.
When he first got married, Tao Wei would often take Zhang Boyu to run and exercise together, and urged him to maintain a good life Xi habits. Under Tao Wei's careful care, Zhang Boyu successfully lost weight and developed a healthy diet.
Lu Liping saw Tao Wei's careful care for her and her son, and her heart swelled with long-lost warmth. This time, she finally found her true soulmate, and her life was full of hope and joy.
In the days with Tao Wei, Lu Liping seemed to have returned to her girlhood and re-experienced the sweetness and romance of love.
However, the good times did not last long, and two years later, the personality contradictions of Lu Liping and Tao Wei gradually emerged. Countless little troubles in their common life have worn out their love. In 2001, Lu Liping filed for divorce again, ending this short marriage.
Although the failure of two marriages made her painful, she still believed that the third time, she would definitely be able to find a true match with her.
In 2002, 42-year-old Lu Liping got married for the third time and married the national first-class actor Sun Haiying. Compared with her previous two husbands, Sun Haiying gave her unprecedented touch.
Not only loves her deeply, Sun Haiying also treats her and Zhang Fengyi's son Zhang Boyu as her own child. Lu Liping is grateful to Sun Haiying for accepting this family and making her feel what happiness is like again.
In the days with Sun Haiying, Lu Liping seemed to be rejuvenated. She regained her enthusiasm for life and acting career, and she is no longer the simple woman who needed to be cared for.
With the support and encouragement of Sun Haiying, Lu Liping enthusiastically participated in the filming of many film and television works. At the same time, she also regained her role as a mother and grew up with Zhang Boyu.
Witnessing Zhang Boyu's growth from a chubby child to a teenager who pays attention to a healthy life, Lu Liping sincerely thanked Sun Haiying for her changes and influence. Many years later, Zhang Boyu also became an actor, and his career was thriving, which made Lu Liping extremely proud.
Through the wind and rain, she is mature and not decadent, and continues to shine. In the past 20 years, 62-year-old Lu Liping has enjoyed a hard-won career and family harvest.
In 2012, when Lu Liping was filming a new drama with Sun Haiying, she received a bad news that caught her off guard - her second husband, Tao Wei, Zhang Boyu's adoptive father, suddenly died suddenly in a hotel room at the age of 50.
Hearing the news, Lu Liping couldn't help crying, although they have been divorced for many years, the warm care that Tao Wei has brought to her and her son is still unforgettable. died suddenly at the age of 50, Lu Liping felt infinite regret for Tao Wei, life is really fragile and short-lived.
What makes Lu Liping's heart hurt even more is that Tao Wei's second child has just been born, and he has no chance to see the growth of this little life. Lu Liping cried silently at Tao Wei's funeral, not only for him, but also for the impermanence of life and the helplessness of the world.
Recalling the good times they had together, Lu Liping's heart couldn't calm down for a long time.
Lu Liping, who has experienced three marriages, has grown from a girl who simply yearns for love to a calm and calm woman. She no longer believes in the so-called true love at first sight, and understands that marriage requires both parties to get along and run in for a long time.
Lu Liping no longer blindly pursues the perfect other half, but cherishes the happy life she already has in front of her.
After experiencing the sweetness and pain of love, Lu Liping has learned to see a little, but she has also become more cherished in her current life. She will continue to shine in the entertainment industry, but she will also free up more time to spend with her family.
Lu Liping is no longer sad about the lost love, because in life, both possession and loss require courage and wisdom.
Now Lu Liping is already a wise and humorous woman. She can be indifferent, and she has learned to be content and happy. Use your own story to tell everyone that love needs to be managed by both parties, and life must live in the moment and cherish the people in front of you.
This is the wisdom of life that Lu Liping gained after experiencing wind and rain.