There are two sons in the family, the eldest son has a particularly high emotional intelligence, tall and handsome, sunny and happy, and loves to play basketball and football.
But his IQ is not good, one day, he bragged to me: "My dear Mommy, thank you for giving birth to me so perfectly, tall figure, big eyes, white skin, your son and I are the "school grass" of the school."
I replied, "Have you ever seen the school's "school grass" grades being the "ducks" in the class? ”
Alas, I didn't take you to hit your son like this, take your time, take your time, I didn't panic, why are you panicking?
When my son was in elementary school, those pinyin letters were never straightened out, especially iu and ui, b and d, P and b, every time I cried in the class, every time the teacher called, let me educate my son well, just like that, the grades have always been the "duck" in the class, he is the second-to-last, no one dares to be the first-to-last.
Later, the junior high school was divided into districts, because I was a school district house, I went to a good junior high school, and because my uncle taught physics at that school, I got into a good class.
When I was about to take the high school entrance examination, the teacher called me and "invited" me to the school and told me: "Your son's grades are at the bottom of the class, so he will not be admitted to the high school entrance examination, and he can go directly to a vocational school? ”
I replied, "No, I still have to take the high school entrance examination." ”
The teacher pouted and said, "I can't get into high school anyway, so it's better to go to a vocational school early to register." ”
I thought to myself: Aren't you afraid that my son's poor grades in the high school entrance examination will hold you back in the class? You recommend going to a vocational school, I have long known that you recommend one with 500 yuan, and for the 500 yuan, you also fought hard, and called the parents of dozens of students in the class to do work. ”
I still licked my face and smiled and said, "Don't go, I'll wait until the high school entrance examination." ”
At this time, the teacher said angrily: "I know that your family is not short of money, and you can study at a high price, and his eldest uncle is in school, but so what? You squeeze in, but you still can't get out, let you go! Then he walked away in a rage.
When I got home, I sat on the sofa and sighed!
The husband said: "What's so angry, as long as the child is healthy and can't get into high school, he can get the money to study anyway, let's prepare the money, and wait for him to mix in a high school, what if the son is sensible? ”
And that's the only way, what can be done?" I replied.
At lunchtime, I asked my son, what do you think of the teacher letting you go to a vocational school without exams?
Unexpectedly, my son said: "I want to take the military academy, if I really can't get into the military academy, I will take the police academy, if the police school is different, I will go to study for an undergraduate and come out to take the civil service exam." ”
Hearing his words, my husband's jaw dropped in shock! I almost squirted out a mouthful of food, and I couldn't hold back my laughter and said, "My dear son, what we are discussing now is, can you be admitted to high school?"
The son said, "My uncle said that the high school curriculum has nothing to do with junior high school, as long as I can go to high school, I will work hard to study Xi, Mom! ”
Mom believes in you, you take the high school entrance examination well, at least let Mom get less money, go to high school, as long as you are willing to study hard to Xi, I will find someone to make up for you and make up for what you didn't understand before.
Later, when I took the high school entrance examination, I was 80 points short of the high school admission score, and the threshold for going to high school at that time was 20,000 yuan, and the difference was 100 yuan, so I took 28,000 yuan, and he went to high school.
After going to high school, the total score has been 200-300 points, and when he was about to enter the third year of high school, he was looking for his eldest uncle to repeat the grade for him, wanting to study one more sophomore year of high school, and also enter a good class.
Every day, I went to cook for my eldest uncle, clean the office, and make tea, but my eldest uncle couldn't stand his soft grinding and hard brewing, so he went to the hospital to find an acquaintance doctor to issue a certificate, so he was retained in the grade, and it was really a good class.
As long as I have a little free time, I will accompany him, drive the car through the streets and alleys every day, go to the teacher for guidance, and it is still one-on-one.
The harder he worked, the luckier he was, in the second semester of his sophomore year of high school, he scored 470 points, as if he saw hope, and after entering the third year of high school, he worked harder, and came back every night to endorse and memorize English words.
During the college entrance examination, he scored the highest score in history of 555 points, which happened to be the score line of the previous book, and the total score was 300 points, and he scored 281 points, which is really not easy! Only I know the hard work he has paid.
After going to college, I knew that my grades were at the bottom, and I put in double the effort than others, and I was in the middle and upper reaches of my class when I graduated from college.
After graduating from university, in order to take the civil service exam, I didn't go out for almost two months, didn't shave, didn't wash my face, and every day in addition to brushing questions, I was taking the exam on the computer, I was afraid that he would drive himself crazy, and then I went to the main city to find the best civil servant training institution for training.
After twenty days of training in the devil's test, the unit he wanted to go to recruit two, and he scored 0.5 points less than the first place in the written test and 9 points more than the third place.
During the interview, his uncle bought him a set of Youngor suits, which he wore handsome and compelling, and he was able to speak well, and he was the first in the interview, and finally entered the system he dreamed of.
So, dear friends, it doesn't matter if the child is not excellent, even if he is abandoned by the world, and we should never abandon him, accompany him, and wait for him to grow up and become sensible slowly.
One day, spring will bloom......