Ancient poetry is a collection of literature and art in the mainland, and the number of poems is like a galaxy in the sky, and few people can read all the poems once, let alone memorize them. In addition to the ancient poems that must be memorized in the compulsory education stage, everyone should not have much contact with other ancient poems. It is very easy to write poetry, in ancient times, even a child could open his mouth to make up a few lines of poetry, but it is difficult to write a good poem and make it a classic.
Not to mention Li Bai, Du Fu and other great writers, it is not easy for ordinary poets to have a few representative poems, even if it is the Qianlong Emperor of the Qing Dynasty, he loves to write poems, and even has to inscribe a few lines of poetry when he goes out to see the beautiful scenery in micro-clothes, but he has written more than 40,000 poems in his life, but none of them have been arranged in the ancient poems that primary and secondary school students must memorize, and most people have not even read one of his poems.
This is because his poems generally belong to "bad poems", only pursuing quantity, but ignoring quality, and the ministers around him not only do not point out the loopholes in the works, but praise them greatly, which greatly enhances Qianlong's "self-confidence", which makes him go further and further on the road of writing "bad poems".
Picture: Qianlong wrote a poem still
The number of mainland poems is so large that in order to save people's time and energy in reading, many people will extract the essence of the poems, that is, those famous sentences that are widely circulated.
In many cases, a single famous sentence can well reflect the theme of a poem and the poet's thoughts and feelings, and it is also easy to remember. However, due to memory bias, we occasionally forget the upper and lower sentences of these famous sentences, or put famous sentences from other ancient poems on the line, especially those sentences that are similar in form and wording.
For example, some people will write down the next sentence of "ask you how much sorrow you can have" as "don't have a taste in your heart", but in fact, it is "just like a river flowing eastward", and this phenomenon of "string fields" often appeared in our student days.
Today we are going to talk about a famous sentence case, which is also a typical "string field" famous sentence, that is, "since ancient times, amorous and empty hatred", if you want to ask what the next sentence is, I believe someone will answer "This hatred lasts forever", which is very wrong, because "this hatred is endless" comes from Bai Juyi's "Long Hate Song", and this sentence has nothing to do with half a dime, so what is the next sentence of this poem?
Image: Verse "Affectionate and Empty Hate Since Ancient Times"
1. Since ancient times, there has been a lot of affection and empty hatred, and this hatred is endless
This poem comes from Wei Xiuren's "Flower Moon Traces: The Fifteenth Poem" in the Qing Dynasty, and its next sentence is "Good dreams are the easiest to wake up". Everyone can misremember a poem, and it's normal for a poem to be misremembered by some people, but why do so many people misremember the poem?
In fact, the source of this mistake can be traced back to the TV series "Journey to the West" broadcast in Hong Kong in 1998, in which Zhu Bajie is the worst Zhu Bajie in all versions. He has experienced thousands of love tribulations, and in each life he has been trapped by love and died by love.
Picture: Cute stills of Zhu Bajie
One of them is sad and ridiculous, he molested his aunt not long after he was born, and was thrown to death. In one life, he studied hard day and night, and became the champion of the new department with the title of the gold list, and was about to go home to meet his wife, but found that his wife had already starved to death because she had not eaten, so what was the use of fame and fortune for him? So he resolutely committed suicide.
There is also a life where he violated human ethics and fell in love with his sister-in-law, and after the matter was exposed, the two were identified as dog men and women, and they drowned in a pig cage together. In one life, Zhu Bajie was reincarnated as a beggar who had nothing, but he fell in love with a pampered rich daughter, but he didn't expect him to pursue the daughter with all his might, and was finally driven away by a stick, and finally ended his life on a rainy night.
No wonder some people say that in this world, the love catastrophe is the most difficult to overcome, Zhu Bajie is also extraordinary, but he can't escape the endless love catastrophe, no wonder he will sigh "Since ancient times, there is no end to this hatred", because his love and hate can never find an end.
Picture: Zhu Bajie sighed stills
Second, amorous hatred has been empty since ancient times, and good dreams are the easiest to wake up
Let's take a look at the original work of this poem, the first couplet is "Affectionate and empty hatred since ancient times, good dreams are the easiest to wake up". It means that in this world, amorous people abound, they usually use too much affection, and the depth of love can not help themselves, and they can't love, and finally they will give birth to hatred.
The meaning of this poem is very easy to understand, I believe that many people have had the experience of "hating because of love" described in the poem, in fact, many people are amorous, and they are also willing to entrust their emotions to their trust and favorite people, if this feeling is responded, it is natural that there is a lover who will eventually become a family, if he does not get the reciprocal return, or even betrayed, then it is a matter of time before love becomes hate.
Picture: Stills of a lover finally becoming a family
Han Gaozu Liu Bang's wife Lu Hou is a typical example of "hate because of love", she was originally a gentle, virtuous, tolerant and kind woman, but in the end she was forced to be helpless, and became a ruthless queen mother with blood on her hands. Lu Pheasant's marriage to Liu Bang belonged to the next marriage, because Liu Bang was an old man with nothing at that time, while Lu Pheasant was the daughter of a rich family with a superior life. Lu Pheasant married Liu Bang, one is not for power, the other is not for money, the only possibility is for love.
For love, the simple and naïve Lu Pheasant unswervingly married the man who was poor and twenty years older than her, since the only thing Lu Pheasant asked for was love, then her requirement for the other half was naturally to love her only one in her life, and Lu Pheasant married Liu Bang when he was poor, which was enough to make Liu Bang grateful and love her for a lifetime.
However, Liu Bang is the most special one among the men in the world, when he became the founding emperor of the Han Dynasty, when he sat on the throne of the emperor that all men in the world yearn for, he naturally had to accept concubines.
Picture: Stills of Lu Pheasant marrying Liu Bang, who is poor and white
Love is inherently selfish, and neither man nor woman can accept that there is a place for someone else in the heart of the other half, unless there is no love between the two at all. Lu Pheasant loves Liu Bang deeply, but after she became a country, she bears the face of the royal family and the rise and fall of the Lu family.
Even if she sees a group of wives and concubines around her husband, she can't say anything, she can't change anything, she can only accept it silently and generously, otherwise she will be criticized by the world for not having a mother's mind in the world, and she will be disgusted by Liu Bang, but when she saw Liu Bang's heart getting farther and farther away from herself, and gradually approaching other women, she gradually became resentful.
This hatred stems from her love for Liu Bang, she hates Liu Bang for liking the new and hating the old, snubbing his wife, and she hates that Liu Bang can't be loyal to herself. However, she didn't want to face the cruel reality, so she transferred this hatred to the woman who was favored by Liu Bang, day after day, endlessly.
Slowly, she faded away from the innocence and youthfulness of her youth, and she didn't expect Liu Bang to give her complete love, as long as Liu Bang respected her and didn't do such outrageous things as abolishing the queen and abolishing the prince, she could continue to endure it.
Picture: Liu Bangxi is tired of the old stills
Unexpectedly, Liu Bang still made the decision to abolish the prince, which touched Lu Pheasant's bottom line, at that moment, she no longer had any beautiful illusions about Liu Bang, and her hatred reached the extreme. After Liu Bang's death, she operated on Liu Bang's favorite woman, that is, Mrs. Qi, Lu Pheasant gouged out her eyes, cut off all her limbs, cut off her tongue, injected copper into her ears to make her deaf, and finally put her in the toilet, so that she died in pain.
At this time, Lu Pheasant was almost mad, and she also killed Mrs. Qi's young son Ruyi, so that he had no possibility of succeeding to the throne. In this way, a gentle and kind woman completely turned into a cold-blooded female demon.
Image: Stills of Lu Pheasant becoming cold-blooded
It can be seen that the deeper the love, the deeper the hatred. When a person loves another person very much, he will devote a lot of time and energy to the other person, and try his best to be good to the other half. But if the other person's feedback does not meet your expectations, this kind of love will turn into equal or excessive hatred.
There is a law of conservation of energy in science, but we don't know that in people's emotional lives, there is also a law of conservation of emotions, that is, the emotions you output to a person, whether they love or hate, will always be reciprocated at some point in the future, and these emotions may also be more or less transformed.
In any case, it is never a good thing to hate because of love, and I still hope that all lovers in the world can be loyal to each other and never betray.