Hi all, I'm the headline editor. Today, let's talk about a topic: what do husbands and wives want to do most after a long absence? To this end, I interviewed three women and asked us to hear what they had to say.
Xiaofang, 32 years old, housewife
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"My husband and I have been married for five years and he travels a lot because of his work. Every time he comes back, I'm so happy. Actually, what I want to do most is to cook him a delicious meal. He loved the braised pork I made, and every time he came home, I would make it for him. I think eating together as a family is the happiest thing. ”
Lily, 41, is a company executive
"My husband and I were college classmates, and we got married after graduation. He has been working in the field and only goes home a few times a year. Every time he comes back, the thing I want to do most is go on a tour with him. We used to make a promise to travel to one place every year, but it didn't happen because we were busy with work or other reasons. When he came back this time, I specially asked for leave, and I was going to take him to Yunnan for a few days to relive the romance of the year. ”
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Xiaoqin, 29 years old, freelancer
"My husband and I are in a long-distance relationship and haven't seen each other for two years. Every time we video chat, we would talk about where we were going to hang out together when we met. When he came back this time, the thing I wanted to do most was to take him to the place I had always wanted to go to - Tibet. I want to see the scenery with him, feel the culture there, and have a good time together. ”
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From the answers of these three ladies, we can see that the things that couples want to do most after a long absence, are actually very simple: eat a meal together, travel together, and do the things they like together. These seemingly ordinary little things are actually a good way to enhance the relationship between husband and wife. Sometimes, when we are separated from our partner for a long time due to work or other reasons, it is easy to feel distanced. And this sense of distance is very difficult to eliminate once it is generated. Therefore, when the partner comes home, we should cherish this time, spend as much time as possible with each other, and do something meaningful to make the relationship stronger.
Of course, in addition to these simple things, there are other ways in which we can strengthen the bond between couples. For example: send a warm text message to your partner every day, call your partner once a week, send a small gift to your partner every month, etc. These seemingly insignificant little things are actually important details to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. Only when we manage this relationship with our hearts can we make it better and last.
Finally, I would like to say that the relationship between husband and wife needs to be maintained by both parties. Whether it's work or other reasons for how long we've been apart, we should cherish every opportunity to get together. Only when we accompany each other with our hearts and manage the relationship with our hearts can we make it better and last. I hope that every couple can cherish the time they spend with each other and create more beautiful memories together!