#头条创作挑战赛#
A person's "spiritual appearance" depends on the temperament that emanates from the inside out, and it cannot be disguised. This is called "born from the heart".
It will be rejuvenated over the years as a person grows up. And a person's best spiritual appearance is hidden in these 4 details.
Inner cultivation
01
There is a sentence in "True Faith": "People's cultivation is often reflected in inadvertent words and deeds." ”
People who are truly cultivated understand that no matter how familiar and close they are, they should not lose their sense of proportion.
Only by doing things in moderation and giving respect to each other can you give yourself dignity.
There is a saying in the Analects: "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you." ”
A person's upbringing engraved in his bones is to have others in his heart.
Cherish and be grateful for the efforts of others, do not take help for granted, and do not take tolerance as connivance.
No matter when and where, being able to put yourself in the shoes of others, empathize, and compare your heart with your heart is upbringing.
Upbringing is the "second face" of people.
Kindness from the bottom of my heart
02
Shakespeare said, "The outward appearance is a mirror of the inner world, and goodness makes a man beautiful." ”
There is an old Chinese saying that "each other is born from the heart, and if the heart is good, it is beautiful." ”
The quality of a person's face is not only an external expression, but also an inner refraction.
Be kind-hearted, gentle to others, and generous to others, even if you are ordinary in appearance, you will look pleasing to the eye.
If a person is ugly in his heart, has a perverse personality, and is as beautiful as a flower, it will also make people disgusted and uncomfortable.
In the final analysis, only the kindness of the heart can give birth to a truly touching sense of beauty.
Truly smart people are both internal and external, self-cultivation and self-cultivation.
"First-class makeup is the makeup of life. "Small beauty in action, great beauty in the heart, and kindness in the heart are the best beauty prescriptions.
No matter what age you are, as long as you are always kind, your ordinary appearance can also be polished and shining in the years.
The Xi of self-discipline
03
Russell once said: "A person's face is the appearance of a person's value, which not only hides your life, but also hides the life you are pursuing." ”
How a person's spirit looks is closely related to his own life Xi.
Historically, when Zeng Guofan first came to the capital, he was very idle every day, either eating and drinking with friends or going out to play.
Long-term late sleep and late wake up not only make the whole person lose energy, but also fall into a low state of mind.
However, after a serious illness, Zeng Guofan began to realize his problems, not only insisted on going to bed early and getting up early every day, but also focused more on reading and cultivating his temperament.
Self-disciplined Xi not only allows us to have a healthy body, but also rejuvenates our inner strength.
We cannot change the beauty and ugliness of our appearance, but we can sublimate our inner temperament through self-disciplined life Xi.
There is a saying on the Internet: "Our biggest mistake is to envy other people's lives while coping with ourselves in a bad way." ”
Therefore, if you want to change your image, the best way is to develop a self-disciplined Xi habits.
Only when self-discipline becomes a Xi can we drive ourselves to the peak and make life full of infinite possibilities.
Live a fun life
04
As the saying goes, "A good-looking skin is the same, and an interesting soul is one in a hundred." ”
Some people are beautiful on the outside, but they lack vitality and substance.
And some people use time to precipitate the heaviness of life, and use interesting souls to exude charming charm in the baptism of years.
Su Shi's life has been turbulent and upside down, but he can be full of pride and proud of life.
If there is no porridge and rice to satisfy the stomach, he will open up the wasteland to grow grain, if there is no wine to eat, he will brew it himself, and if there is no place to stay, he will build a snow hall.
Su Dongpo's interest not only stems from his talent, but also from his inner sunshine and open-mindedness.
Interesting, in fact, it is a high-class spiritual look.
Only a person who has a sense of life and life can become an interesting person.
After the vicissitudes of the world, let the years precipitate an interesting and transparent heart, so as to live a radiant and shining life.