Text: The King of History
Editor|The King of History
●○Preface○●
There is a question that plagues young people, what exactly does work bring?
Is it money, is it desire, or is it the fulfillment of a dream that I have fantasized about so many times in my heart?
Ask yourself, boy, is this really the future you want?
Some people are full of ambition and look forward to their ambitions after graduation, and some people are full of joy and are ready to live up to their choice......
However, many college students have really stepped into the work, and the whole person has changed, and his eyes have become dull, and the once high-spirited young man has become a middle-aged uncle with a big belly.
When I saw the sharing of netizens in the comment area, I completely understood that it was not work that changed us, but another kind of growth.
●○Time will not spare anyone○●
"The years are merciless, and the knife of life has changed our appearance."
The youthful college student becomes a world-weary worker, and he only needs to go to work in one step. Some netizens posted a comparison of photos of themselves who had just graduated and worked for two years on the Internet, and the whole person's mental state plummeted.
Some people once said that this is just the difference between beauty and non-beauty, why is it involved in work?
This is not a fundamental problem, but a change in mental state, which can be seen from the photos shared by netizens, and the fatigue of the whole person cannot be pretended.
Some people used to spend a lot of time retouching pictures for the sake of beauty, but now some people can appear naked in the camera, no longer pleasing themselves, but "compromises" to work.
Saw this comment on the Internet: "Don't be discouraged young man, the pain is just beginning".
With thousands of likes for just one comment, it's clear that many people empathize with this comment. Perhaps, as played in martial arts dramas, after experiencing the "sinister heart" in the rivers and lakes, people's hearts will change, and the innocence of the past will no longer exist.
In order to escape this pain, many people completely separate work and life, and the strength of the interpretation of what is called "you ignore me when you go to work, and you can't climb high after work".
The real work is the three points and one line, the company, the restaurant, the home, there are people or even only between the company and the home, fixed-point work, not fixed off-duty, everyone is desperate to do their own work, and it has become a luxury to take the time to look at the sunset by the window.
How many people have headaches when they mention going to work, and they think about quitting every day, but their bodies sit honestly at their workstations. Thinking of a trip that I said I would go, I looked at the work itinerary, and I could only watch others live freely and happily on my mobile phone, but I could only comment emptyly.
Some netizens said something like "going to work makes people ugly". Indeed, during work, not only the girl is reluctant to put on makeup, but even the boy's head and face have no time to take care of it, and they work hard all day long, and there is no energy in their eyes at all.
Students seem to be baptized by work, and some students ridicule that going to work is a "time accelerator", and no college student can escape the accelerated pace of growth, but the truth is often told in the form of jokes.
Before the girl in the picture worked, she could be called a beauty in both image and temperament, and even had a feeling of "Hong Kong-style retro", but once she put on her work clothes on the assembly line, the beauty became an aunt in seconds.
Those who know know are a person, and those who don't know will say, "Auntie, who are you?"
We all know that medical students lose their hair the most, and they burn oil day and night, but they have learned a lot of knowledge, and when they wash their hair, their hair also loses a lot.
There are many medical students who are full of sunshine before work, hoping that they can save lives in the future, but after working for a few years, they can't see the light in their eyes, and all that is left is haggard and powerless.
●○Going to work is not scary, and mentality is the most important○●
I believe that every student is full of passion before work, full of expectations for their future prospects, and thinks that they will be able to sit in the office and drink coffee like those senior white-collar workers in film and television dramas, earning more than 10,000 yuan a day.
But fantasy is beautiful, reality is cruel, the coffee of the "high-class elite" is for tasting and appreciation, and our coffee is born for "life", the work of fantasy is to wear exquisite suits, but the reality is sloppy clothes.
It is true that work has brought some vicissitudes to people, but students must not be disappointed in themselves, and timely regulation is the most important thing.
From the photos shared by my classmates, I did see the power of the "time accelerator", but if even the spirit is frustrated by work, then the future will be inseparable from "decadence".
"Work abuses me thousands of times, I treat work like my first love", since students can't change the status quo of "having to go to work", why not find a way to relax appropriately and adjust their mentality. Of course, it's best if you can find a job you love.
Any job is subject to pressure from all sides and a variety of emotional catharsis.
We must believe that no one will always be in a low period, and we need a big heart to treat life, and to treat life with a positive and sunny attitude is the right solution to life.
Therefore, during the work, don't worry too much, just do your own job, and maintain a stable attitude in the face of self-inadequacy and criticism from others.
There is no perfect job in the world, treat work like love, and only by constantly experiencing run-in and challenges, step by step self-guidance and adjustment can we persevere.
Work has never been the whole of our life, the best way to regulate emotions is undoubtedly to divert attention, cultivate their hobbies, when the work pressure is high, focus on the things you like, the pressure can be better vented.
Learning to say "no" is a big step forward in your life, and a proper rejection will not only make you happy, but it will also prevent more problems from happening.
Although there is only a wall between the school and the society, but it weakens the relationship between people, this situation is not easy to find in school, when you are in the society, you will find that the relationship between people is far less innocent than the feelings between classmates.
●○Gap between going to school and going to work○●
In school, the teacher may be the person who most students have access to the highest social status, but in society, you will meet all kinds of people, and whether you can meet people from the higher class depends on your own ability.
Just like Dong Yonghui, he is a teacher at school and can laugh and laugh with students.
But when he stepped into the society, in order to have a stable career, he walked into the live broadcast room, if he didn't have the ability to export chapters, would he be greeted by "exclusion" instead of promotion and salary increase.
The significance of the university is more to provide students with a space for transition with society, in this era of involution of graduation positions, every student wants to integrate into society as quickly as possible, but the gap is a headache for countless people.
Although there is discipline at school, there is also time to relax, and during the winter and summer vacations, there will be like-minded partners to play together.
But once you go to work, there are only a handful of partners around you who can get together, everyone is busy, and going to work is like a black hole, firmly controlling you and constantly sucking your spirit. But going to work is unavoidable, after all, your salary is closely related to your survival.
Many students graduate feeling lost, not knowing where they should go and where the future lies.
This is a problem that ordinary people often face, looking at other people's circle of friends posting photos of travel, feeling the freedom of wealth brought by entrepreneurship, and as a "small town answerer", he can only silently return to the town to follow the rules.
Over time, you will slowly understand that other people's lives are not enviable. Your life is not living in the eyes of others, you will find your own direction, and then the light in your eyes will flicker again.
It's a realistic society, and some people are born above most. Before you work, you have the support of your parents and the protection of the school, so you will have some deviations in your perception of society.
But in the society, if your parents do not have students at the top, then only you can become your biggest supporter, and the gap between the society and the school will always remind you that students are no longer your umbrella, and you have entered a new track.
●○Epilogue○●
"Graduation is the formal attire, and the school is just a novice village. ”
Although the employment of college students has a huge contrast to their appearance, from many aspects, the challenges and difficulties in work are not beating themselves. Those experiences will be the talk of your future.
Everything is for growth, facing the heavy responsibilities of the family, the persecution of survival, maturity is a compulsory course for everyone.
I hope that every student can find a job of their choice, get rid of the curse of "time acceleration", and truly realize their self-worth.
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