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On December 18, 2023, a horrific murder occurred on the street.
26-year-old actress Xu Jialing was stabbed 8 times and died on the spot.
1 day ago, she went on a sweet date with her boyfriend to discuss the details of the wedding.
One day later, she was killed by a 44-year-old unidentified man.
The murder has provoked people to think about the boundaries of social interaction, about celebrities and fans, about suitors and pursuers.
In fact, Xu Jialing's tragedy has long been foreshadowed.
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The woman with short hair and a pretty face in the photo is Xu Jialing.
As a Chinese resident singer, she is very popular in Malaysia, with a sweet singing voice and a lot of affinity, and she has covered Lin Junjie's "Song Not for Anyone", which became famous.
If it weren't for this bloody disaster, her smile would appear at the wedding scene next time.
Not long ago, she and her boyfriend officially announced the happy event.
According to media reports, the 44-year-old suspect has been pursuing Xu Jialing for 2 years and has been shunned and refused.
Maybe the wedding date is approaching, I hope to be open and honest, and I also hope to get the understanding and blessing of the other party, so in the face of another invitation, Xu Jialing relented for a while.
On the day of the murder, the two had lunch together, but when they left the restaurant to pick up the car, the suspect suddenly attacked and stabbed the woman eight times, causing her death.
It is understood that there were other witnesses at the scene, but because of the distance and the lack of understanding of the relationship between the two, in case it was just a young couple arguing and pushing, they did not intervene.
Until the residents who witnessed the whole incident felt that the situation was serious, so they reported the crime.
What's even more outrageous is that after the man committed the murder, he also carried the body into the car and brought it home.
Until the murderer was caught, the woman was still "safe" in the car. An ambulance arrived at the scene, and the paramedics confirmed that Xu Jialing had died.
A fresh life is gone.
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Looking at social platforms, many netizens expressed regret.
Xu Jialing's relationship has always been full of twists and turns - divorced from her ex-husband and raised her daughter alone, and her relationship with her boyfriend is stable, and she is about to get married...
The boyfriend said that the day before the accident, they took wedding photos, but they didn't expect to be separated forever.
Before the photo is printed, the portrait becomes black and white, and anyone who changes it will collapse.
"I cried until there were no tears".
In the comment area, some people were yin and yang, saying that the death of the female star had an inside story:
"It's not going to be fishing as a single and then eating two meals, right?"
"If you spend someone else's money, you have to pay it back with your life. ”
"Another spare tire rage..."
These discussions around the dead are disrespectful and vicious, but they do correspond to social realities. After all, no one wants to be enthusiastic and used as a withdrawal tool.
It is rumored on the Internet that the suspect is the "big brother on the list", and for the sake of the favor of the Pomeranians, he borrowed money everywhere, and he was overwhelmed. Someone played the trump card of "love" and thought that the suspect was infatuated and pitiful-
It is said that the man drove home and found that Xu Jialing was out of breath, and was heartbroken and tried to harm herself at one point...
So, what is the origin of this man who hates because of love?
The results were beyond everyone's expectations.
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Three hours after the incident, the killer was arrested.
In the face of the investigation, he is like a chameleon constantly changing his identity: one will say that he is Xu Jialing's underground lover, and the other will say that he is the owner of the store, trying to use false information to confuse the public.
In fact, he was a fruit seller.
No wonder after the incident, insiders said that the murderer was not a fan at all-
There is no heavy investment like Japanese and Korean otaku, there is no purchase of a full set of peripheral support, and it is not a rich star-chasing bridge section that sends watches and cars...
In the face of all kinds of stigma from the outside world, Xu Jialing's family and boyfriend came forward to clarify.
The younger brother said, "My sister never asked for anything, don't button her hat indiscriminately", and the boyfriend said, "They don't have a personal relationship, it's just a work relationship." ”
In their narratives, clear stories of the killer and the victim emerge.
The man is a guest at the restaurant and bar, and the woman is the resident singer at the restaurant. The guests knew the singer, and the two nodded to each other, which was originally just a common thing.
There was no contact during this period, and later the restaurant and bar closed, and the woman no longer sang. At this time, the male fan showed great enthusiasm, saying that he was a small boss, opened a local store, and hired her to sing, so the two gradually got acquainted.
Obviously talking about business, the man pursues the woman, although the woman never agrees, the man fantasizes that he is a real boyfriend.
2 years later, the woman met a new fate, started a sweet love, and was ready to get married.
Perhaps stimulated by the marriage news, the man reacted psychologically and behaved unwisely.
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In the eyes of neighbors, the suspect is such a person:
"Fat, glasses, medium build, living with my brother, rarely interacting with people, very low sense of presence, no one knows this person. ”
is different from the murderer imagined by many people, and at first glance it looks like a big traitor. He is so ordinary, ordinary enough to be ignored, yet so arrogant.
Maybe in his eyes, Xu Jialing is a shining star, but in Xu Jialing's world, he is just an ordinary grain of sand.
If he can't get it, he will destroy it, how reasonable.
It is worth noting that the fatal wound of the deceased was a straight cut to the heart.
It's not a bruise, it's not a mistake, it's a blow after repeated aiming.
If such feelings, whether good or evil, are called love, then all the confessions of "I love you" in the world are enough to make people tremble with fear.
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Xu Jialing's tragedy is not the first, and it may not be the last.
Jung Yoon-ho, a member of the South Korean boy group "TVXQ", drank a drink given by fans, which added a strong adhesive, causing him to vomit blood after drinking, send him to first aid, and escape death.
For a long time, he suffered from fear disorder and did not dare to make contact with people.
The Japanese girl group "AKB48" held a handshake party, and two female artists were attacked by a male fan with a 50-centimeter-long saw, resulting in a broken finger and shocking scars.
The murderer said that because he felt that idols made a lot of money, but the love to give back to fans was scarce, he wanted to hack them to death. The two female artists once fell into a psychological shadow and withdrew from the circle to ensure safety.
A member of a girl group once posted a selfie, deduced her home address from the street scene of her pupil reflection from her pupils, and secretly sneaked into the residence and molested her.
This kind of excesses can be said to be impossible to prevent.
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Some people concluded that celebrities still don't "step down from the altar".
The best distance between idols and fans is the distance between the stage and the audience. It can not only protect the aura, but also prevent some people from going crazy for love and making abnormal behaviors.
Even the fairy sister who has no scandals has been hugged by a fanatical man when she met with fans, causing her to fall; Xue Zhiqian walked the red carpet and was actually kissed by a mysterious woman who suddenly appeared...
It is true that everyone has the right to pursue what they love, but it is necessary to adhere to the principle of moderation and not blindly stalk.
Even if you chase stars, you should have a rational and respectful attitude, adopt a reasonable and compliant way, and collect the works of stars, not this person.
Otherwise, the next legal coffee is "waiting for a vacancy".
In daily life, it is also necessary to be vigilant in interacting with people.
If Xu Jialing keeps an eye and does not meet with this male fan in private, she will avoid face-to-face contact with the "deep friendship that cannot be reciprocated"...
Perhaps, she will wear a white veil to the wedding, instead of being wrapped in a black cloth and silent at the funeral.