Fate: beautiful encounters, love at first sight
In the spring of 1986, Lang Ping, who had just retired from the army, was entrusted by a friend to visit the gymnasium. At only 32 years old, she was in the prime of life at this time, but she also fell into confusion after her sports career.
That day, she met Bai Fan, the administrator of the venue, by chance, and the two fell in love at first sight.
Bai Fan has a simple and honest personality, and is handsome and tall. He didn't even dare to look directly at Lang Ping at first, for fear that he was not worthy of this "women's volleyball star". But Lang Ping admired his sincerity and stability, and took the initiative to communicate and chat with him, and the two quickly became acquainted.
"You're the first man I've ever liked. Lang Ping confessed his intentions, and Bai Fan happily accepted this sudden confession. The two went through a period of pursuit and understanding, and finally officially entered the palace of marriage in 1987.
After getting married, Lang Ping made up his mind to study abroad and re-plan his life. Bai Fan did not hesitate to choose to accompany him and work hand in hand. When they were newly married, they might not have thought that what awaited them would be a long and poor life of studying abroad.
However, with the help of a lover, all difficulties will eventually come to naught.
Fighting for America: Resisting pressure and uniting efforts
After arriving in the United States, the two faced great difficulties in their lives. After entering school, Lang Ping needed to pay for his own high tuition, and at the same time had to pay for medical expenses to recuperate, and his savings quickly bottomed out.
The two had to move to an extremely small apartment and live in poverty.
Bai Fan began to find part-time jobs outside the school, and worked diligently to help his family. Lang Ping also mustered up the courage to go out to work, learning Xi while working, and his feet did not touch the ground. At first, she even had to work as a part-time coach on the varsity team to pay part of her tuition, which was physically and mentally exhausting.
However, Bai Fan never complained to her, but silently tolerated and supported.
"I can't just lie on the trophy forever. Lang Ping resolutely returned to the field and played in the Italian league. The outstanding performance brought her a good salary and solved the urgent needs of the two.
Bai Fan has been patiently waiting at home, trusting her decision.
The years of hard work are not easy, but with a lover as a companion, everything seems to become bearable. Lang Ping and Bai Fan supported each other, full of warmth and firmness to help each other through difficulties, and finally overcame many obstacles and witnessed the fruits of struggle.
The joy of reunion: The birth of a daughter is a heavy responsibility
In 1992, daughter Bai Lang was born in the home of Lang Ping and Bai Fan, which brought great joy to the couple. "My surname is Bai, your surname is Li, and our daughter will be called Bai Lang.
Bai Fan said happily. They are sincerely relieved and looking forward to the arrival of a new life.
The arrival of Bai Lang undoubtedly brought more pressure to the lives of the two. In order to take care of his newborn daughter, Bai Fan took the initiative to put down his work and devote himself to the family.
At first, Lang Ping also chose to accompany him. But she had to return to the ring and start working to earn money to support her family.
Bai Fan did not complain about this, but silently took on the responsibility of taking care of Bai Lang. In order to give his daughter a better life, he began to look for part-time jobs everywhere and worked tirelessly to earn money.
In a blink of an eye, Bai Lang was already three years old, but Lang Ping and Bai Fan also separated more because of less gathering, and finally chose to divorce. But neither of them forgot their responsibilities and commitments to Bai Lang.
Parting and keeping promises: help each other in the same boat, each for home
After the two divorced, Lang Ping chose to return to China to develop his career, while Bai Fan stayed in the United States to work and live. They agreed that they would not remarry until Bai Lang became an adult, and they wholeheartedly raised their daughter to adulthood.
After Lang Ping returned to China, Bai Fan took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of Bai Lang alone. He works during the day to support his family, and at night accompanies his daughter to do homework and tell stories. No matter how busy his life is, he has never shirked this responsibility.
And Lang Ping is focused on his career and is very busy, and being able to talk to his daughter is the biggest luxury. Whenever she heard Bai Lang's voice of longing, she would burst into tears, and her heart was full of guilt.
However, she also knows that this is the inevitability of her own choice.
Bai Fan often encourages Bai Lang to understand his mother's difficulties and praises her as "a very good women's volleyball player". He never said that Lang Ping's half was bad in front of his daughter, but patiently guarded and accompanied her to grow up.
In order to give his daughter a better life, Bai Fan ran all over the part-time jobs and worked tirelessly to earn money. No matter how hard life is, he never complains, and just wants Bai Lang to grow up healthy and happy.
This dedication, Lang Ping understands best in his heart.
Happy to grow: my daughter is excellent and has a complete life
Under the careful care of his parents, Bai Lang grew up happily and was admitted to Stanford University. After graduating from university, she found a satisfying job in the financial industry and had a successful career.
Today's Bai Lang is already a professional woman in charge.
Watching their daughter grow up step by step, Lang Ping and Bai Fan were sincerely gratified. In 2008, Lang Ping chose to come to the United States to personally accompany the adult Bai Lang's life.
The lack of family affection between mother and daughter was also slowly replenished during this period.
Bai Lang understands the difficulties of her parents very well, she is sensible and intelligent, and has become a great comfort in their lives. Especially her father Bai Fan, she respects and appreciates his dedication over the years.
"I want to accompany my mother and make up for the regretful mother-daughter relationship between them. "Bai Langhui often takes the initiative to take care of life. Lang Ping looked at the gentle and virtuous daughter in front of him, and his heart was filled with indescribable emotion.
When Bai Lang finally grows up, Bai Fan can start to arrange his love life. With the blessing of his daughter and ex-wife, he refound his true love and remarried and had children at the age of 60, completing a new chapter in his life.