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"What are you talking about? You and Xiaofang have been together for so many years, and your relationship has always been very good. How can you decide on such a big thing as divorce casually? You have just met that girl, do you know her well enough?" I raised my voice, anxious.
"Mother, don't be angry yet. I've also been thinking about it for a long time. Xiaofang's temper is really bad, she is often unreasonable, and I am too stressed to be with her. I couldn't stand it anymore and had to get a divorce. I'm sure this new girl is good and she'll make me happy. The son explained.
I took a deep breath and calmed down: "Mother understands your difficulties, but this kind of big thing can't be decided hastily. You have been married for so many years, and your relationship has experienced ups and downs, and you can't divorce because of a temporary problem. Don't be fooled by appearances, new acquaintances may not be more suitable for you than Xiaofang. ”
"That mother said what should I do? Am I just going to grow old with Xiaofang? I really can't stand her anymore. The son had a bitter look on his face.
The son was silent, and he himself understood this. After a while, he replied, "I will take care of my daughter, she will have double the fatherly love." I believe that the child is still young and she will Xi the new life. ”
I shook my head, "That's where you're immature. What children need is a combination of maternal love and father's love, not a single father's love that can be replaced. Moreover, your daughter is now in a critical period when she needs the company of both parents, and you will have a great impact on her development. As a father, are you really ready for this?"
The son fell silent again. I know that he is at war with heaven and man in his heart, on the one hand, his own selfishness, and on the other hand, his responsibility to his daughter.
"I won't pay the bills, Xiaofang can take what she wants. The son said.
"Silly boy, I'm not talking about money. I sighed, "I mean, you have to respect Xiaofang for all these years as your wife. You have to treat her as a family member and give her an explanation, rather than unilaterally deciding to divorce. You can discuss it well, but you can't be hasty. ”
The son's expression was even more tangled. I saw a hint of hesitation in his eyes, and this was my chance, and I had to seize it to convince him.
My words finally touched my son. He said with red eyes: "Mother, I know what you said is right. I was so selfish, I only thought about my own happiness, but I didn't think about the responsibilities I had to bear. The choices I made were irresponsible. ”
I walked over and patted him on the shoulder: "Son, my mother wants you to be a responsible person." Don't run away from problems, but face them squarely; Don't be selfish in your relationship, be considerate; In life, we must keep our promises and keep our promises. This is the responsibility of a man. ”
"I will, mother. The son nodded with red eyes.
I smiled slightly, and secretly breathed a sigh of relief. The kid finally came to his senses.
Just then, the doorbell rang suddenly. When I went to open the door, I saw a young woman dressed in fancy clothes standing outside the door.
"Who are you looking for?" I asked warily.
The woman said proudly, "I'm looking for your son." Let him come out, I have something to make clear to him!"
Only then did I realize that this woman was the "little three" in my son's mouth. I said coldly, "My son is not free now, you can go." ”
But the woman squeezed in the door with a dead face, and shouted, "You have the ability to drive me out! If you don't give me the breakup fee, I'll sue your son for bigamy!"
It turns out that this woman is here for the money!
I was annoyed and pushed her out the door: "Get out!
"Son, now you understand. I sighed, "This woman is clearly in it for money, where did she really like you? ”
The son's face was ugly. He finally recognized the woman's true colors, and felt ashamed of the mistake he had almost made.
I walked over and gently patted him on the shoulder: "Son, don't blame yourself. Who hasn't experienced confusion about feelings? The key is to recognize the problem and correct the mistake. You're young and have a bright future, don't let this setback put you down. ”
"Yes, mother. I understand. My son said to me solemnly with red eyes.
I know that from now on, my good son will grow up to be a more masculine and responsible person. He will no longer run away from problems, but face them bravely; He will protect his family and fulfill his responsibilities as a husband and father. He will also become a person with a sense of justice and judgment, and will no longer be deceived by appearances.
A sense of solidity rose in my heart. As a mother, it is my responsibility and my honor to help my son through an important difficult time in his life. A few days later, I went to see him at my son's house. As soon as I opened the door, I saw my son and Xiaofang laughing in the living room. My daughter happily ran over and hugged my thighs.
"Grandma!" The little one exclaimed sweetly.
I happily took her in my arms and kissed her little fleshy face. How warm this picture is, I really wish that time would freeze here.
"How's Auntie doing?" Xiao Fang smiled and handed me a cup of hot tea. I sat down without seeing anything, smiled and said, "You kid, you finally put me at ease." ”
The son scratched his head a little embarrassedly: "It's all because of your good teaching, I woke up." ”
"Okay, you're not too young, you should see things clearly. I joked to him, "My mother is relieved, and I will ask my mother for advice if there is anything I don't understand." ”
"Definitely, definitely!" The son nodded repeatedly.
I looked at the picture of this family of three and harmony, and my heart was excited. Fortunately, this divorce crisis has finally been resolved, and my children have finally grown up to be responsible people.
Just as I was basking in joy, the doorbell rang again. I asked vigilantly, "Who's so late?"
Xiao Fang walked over and opened the door, and it turned out to be that "little three" again! This woman is not ashamed, and she dares to make trouble!
"You have to compensate me for the breakup fee! The woman shouted hysterically.
"Breakup fee, we've never been together!" The son said coldly.
"Yes, please leave!" Xiaofang was also angry.
"I have proof! Mobile phone chat history, it's all here!" The woman took out a wad of paper, "If you don't give money again, I'll sue you for bigamy!"
"You!" I was so angry that I was about to come forward to theorize, but my son stopped me.
I saw my son calmly walking in front of the woman: "Since I choose to protect my family, I will definitely take responsibility." I will bear all the consequences, please leave immediately, we do not owe you anything. ”
"Okay, then don't blame me for being rude!" The woman glared at us viciously and shook her hand away.
Closing the door, I couldn't help but praise: "My son is so good! I used to be threatened by her, but now I am righteous and righteous!"
"That's it. Our family is united, what is there to be afraid of!" Xiao Fang also clenched her son's hand.
"Mother, don't worry about you and Sister Fang. I've figured it out and won't back down again. The son's tone was firm.
I nodded: "Mother believes you." We're going to win this lawsuit. ”
"Yes, with our family united, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome!" Xiao Fang also said bravely.
In order to deal with the lawsuit, I hired a reliable lawyer. In the past few days, our family has prepared carefully and believes that we will win.
Finally, the day of the trial came. The judge seriously tried this "emotional compensation case". The woman wept and cried, and told many twists and turns of "emotional stories" in an attempt to win the judge's sympathy.
At this time, the daughter on the side suddenly cried: "I want a complete home! I want my father and my mother!"
Eventually, with the exhaustive evidence of our lawyer and the shrewd questioning of the judge, the woman's lies were exposed. The judge glanced at her contemptuously and declared our family the winner!
"Great!" I hugged my granddaughter excitedly, and the others cheered. The dust has finally settled on this-for-tat lawsuit!
When I got out of the courthouse, I took my son's hand: "Son, my mother is proud of you! This time, you stepped forward to protect your family. You no longer run away, but face it bravely, this is the real man!"
"It's all up to you, mother!" My son looked at me gratefully.
Let's celebrate our victory!" Xiao Fang happily proposed.
The family happily went to their son's favorite dumpling restaurant. Nibbling on the hot ravioli, my heart warmed and I truly felt the meaning of home. After winning the case, my son's relationship with Xiaofang became stronger than before. I went to their house every once in a while, and every time I saw their loving looks.
"Look at this little couple, they are as intimate as newlyweds!" At one point I laughed.
"If it weren't for this turmoil, I really wouldn't have found out that Sister Fang had paid so much to me. The son said shyly.
"Alright, that's what I'm supposed to do!" Xiao Fang shyly slapped him.
I watched them with pleasure, and I was so glad that this crisis had elevated their feelings to new heights.
In the dead of night, I think about what this event has taught me. I have learned that there will inevitably be problems and misunderstandings in life, but as long as there is love and trust between family members, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
Maybe many people will choose the seemingly simple path of divorce, but my son does not. He chose to face and protect, which I sincerely admire. The reason why a family is strong is not that there are no problems, but that it lies in the spirit of solidarity and mutual help to tide over difficulties together. He finally understood this.
I'm even more relieved for myself. As a mother, my teachings played a small but crucial role. This time, my good son has grown up. He has the ability to protect his family, and he also has the responsibility to face the ups and downs of life. I am very proud of such a son.
There is still a long road ahead of him, and he will encounter more setbacks. But I believe that with this experience, no matter what difficulties he encounters in the future, my son will straighten his back, face up to the problem, and truly take on the responsibility of being a man.
At this moment, I strengthened my belief in life: I will continue to work hard to connect my family and overcome the difficulties together. Even if you have stepped on thorns and are scarred, you must protect this warm world. This is the greatest honor of me, a mother, in this life.