The better female neighbor I played next door to, my husband is a proper billionaire, and he is the kind of billionaire with a few fingers. I don't know why the rich people I know around me are very different from the rich people in other people's mouths or in TV dramas. The rich people on TV go out with luxury cars and bodyguards as standard, and their food and clothing are all fine clothes and fine food, and the rich couple next door to me live a simple life beyond your imagination.
The couple are both from Hunan, and their husband is a veritable science and engineering man, who is cold and silent. The woman chirps like a sparrow and likes to square dance. We are both in a group of mountaineering and playing in the community, but the neighbors in the group don't like to play with her, not because she has money and plays music. Instead, they all felt that she should not continue to maintain that suffocating marriage. They all think that she is not a smart woman, no matter how cold and violent her husband is, she will always dance when she should dance, sing when she should sing, and laugh and laugh all day long and look heartless. Slowly, the neighbors in the group distanced themselves from her, saying that she had no brains!
To what extent does his husband save money, that is, the socks are torn, as long as they can be mended, she is not allowed to throw them, and they must be mended and worn again. Once, my female neighbor threw away a pair of her husband's broken socks, and was scolded by her husband, and since then, she has never dared to throw her husband's broken socks again. If the furniture is broken, as long as it can be used improvised, it is not allowed to be replaced with a new one.
The food is also very economical, it is not allowed to pour leftovers, and leftovers from eating out are all packed. It's all the little things that can be tolerated. The most unbearable thing is his cold violence against his wife!
We walked around the neighborhood, and if we ran into her husband head-on, her husband would pretend not to know each other and turn around and leave. Ignore her at home and treat her coldly. Every Spring Festival after getting married, they go back to their respective families, and the family of three has never had a reunion year together.
The most unbearable thing was that when my female neighbor gave birth, her husband did not go to the hospital to see her from the time she was hospitalized to the time she was discharged, let alone make a phone call. The whole process is accompanied by my mother's brother and sister-in-law, signing, and going through various procedures (the female neighbor has no mother since she was a child).
There was also the time when the female neighbor's life hung by a thread, that time she went out shopping at night, and unfortunately encountered a robbery, she was stabbed several times, sent to the hospital for rescue, and finally cut off half of her heart and lungs, so, later we all joked that she had no heart and lungs. It was at such a life-and-death juncture that her husband was still like a person who was fine, he didn't move half a step to the hospital, he still didn't have a phone call, and his brother and sister-in-law still came to wait, until he slowly recovered, and he didn't even wait for her husband's half of a greeting.
Later, whenever the female neighbor smiled and talked about these pasts, her friends around her were full of indignation, scolding her husband for being cold-blooded and inhumane. However, the female neighbor always laughed and said: It's okay, I'Xi m used to it, Xi used to him not taking me seriously, and Xi used to him ignoring it. Those neighbors and friends were reluctant to divorce because of her broken marriage, and slowly scolded her for having no brains and deserving it, and slowly alienated her.
Only I know that she is not Xi to it, nor does she not care, but her heart is completely dead. If a person can smile and talk about her past sadness like someone else's business, it can only mean one thing, she has let go of everything and doesn't care.
If a woman can face her husband's indifference calmly and without the slightest complaint, she is not weak, but ruthless! A woman who is ruthless to herself is by no means an ordinary person!
It's not that she doesn't have brains, on the contrary, I think she's very wise, because she knows very well that it's not love that binds marriage to the end, but interests, and only interests can make people go to the end. They only have one son, as a mother, why shouldn't she protect so much wealth for her son!
On the surface, she is a loser in this life, but in fact she is the biggest winner!