It was a snowy day that I remember vividly, the city was covered in white snowflakes, and the cold breath made people feel a little uneasy. However, in this cold winter, I experienced an unforgettable banquet, which made me deeply feel the difference between rural and urban people in terms of interpersonal relationships.
For urban dwellers, interpersonal relationships may be seen more as a means of exchanging interests, and the pursuit of career development and social status often become the core of their thinking. In the countryside, however, people's attitudes towards meals are completely different. For them, the meaning of eating is not only to fill their stomachs, but also a kind of family communication, an important occasion to relieve stress and enhance feelings.
The banquet was held in a farmhouse restaurant in the countryside, which was simple but filled with a strong family atmosphere. Snowflakes drift into the windows and land on the windows, creating a beautiful snowy scene. The table is filled with sumptuous dishes, including steaming fish broth, delicious mountain mushrooms, and spicy and delicious home-cooked dishes...... Each dish is the result of heartfelt cooking and sincere exchange of feelings by rural people.
The crowd at the table was laughing and laughing, teasing each other and asking each other about the current situation, as if time had stood still at this moment. They express their inner joy and emotion with silver stickers or rough language, and every laughter is a transmission of emotions.
The attitude of rural people towards banquets stems from their identification with family and affection. People living in the countryside need not only material wealth, but also spiritual warmth and comfort in the life of reciprocating life. They are Xi chatting at the dinner table, sharing each other's troubles and happiness, listening to each other's voices, and using sincere communication to relieve physical and mental stress and enhance their feelings for each other.
On that snowy day, I deeply experienced the attitude of the villagers towards banquets. They treat every guest with heart and sincerity in the most simple way, so that everyone can feel the power and warmth of family affection. It seems that at that moment, their interpersonal relationship has become more intimate, and there is a little more sincerity and tacit understanding between each other.
Looking back on that banquet, I deeply understood the wisdom of life and the unique understanding of interpersonal relationships of rural people. The hustle and bustle of the city seems to make it more difficult for people to understand the way of life of rural people. However, that banquet made me feel a sense of innocence, sincerity and warmth of rural people. Perhaps, we can learn from this traditional culture of the countryside and learn from middle school Xi sincerity, tolerance and love in interpersonal relationships, as a benchmark for handling interpersonal relationships in our lives and work. We can pay more attention to our emotional exchanges with others, constantly feel and maintain these relationships with our hearts, and build real trust and tacit understanding through communication and communication.
In a fast-paced life, people often overlook the importance of relationships. However, on that snowy day, I felt the most basic emotional resonance in interpersonal relationships, and also deeply realized the long-standing wisdom of rural people. Let us take this as a lesson and treat the interpersonal relationships around us with heart, so that the warmth and sincere feelings can continue in every detail of our life and work.