The pursuit of life is endless, and there are different pursuits at different stages of life.
For college students who have just entered the society, they are eager to get a stable job through their hard work and talent, and realize their dreams on this basis. For those who have entered middle age, they may pay more attention to the balance between family and career, hoping to find a balance between career and family.
But no matter what stage of life you are in, you have a yearning for a better life, but the pursuit is different in different states, but everything will change over time.
Recently, Liu Zhiyu, a controversial mathematics genius at Peking University, announced that he was married, and one stone stirred up a thousand waves, some people said they couldn't understand it, some people said it was normal, the former monk could still get married, and it was so romantic, the contrast before and after was too great!
In a conversation with Yu Minhong, Liu Zhiyu generously admitted that the reason why he chose to become a monk was because he hoped to explore his heart and gain real growth in his practice, but then he gradually found that he was wrong, and his heart could not be disconnected from society, so he Xi studied psychology again, hoping to help others through psychology.
Regarding the choice of becoming a monk, Liu Zhiyu said that he was also entangled at the beginning, but now he has figured it out, everywhere is practice, and the same is at home, the key is still in our hearts.
Later, Liu Zhiyu also emphasized that he wants to change his way of practice, such as falling in love and getting married, and now he often meditates and practices with his lover, learns together, nourishes each other, and works together.
As soon as the news came out, the netizens in the comment area were not calm, what is this called? Marriage is marriage, and if you want to fall in love, you will fall in love, is it necessary to say it so lofty? And they are both husband and wife, what else to talk about, practice, some people think that this statement is essentially a negative evaluation of practice.
It is understood that Liu Zhiyu's wife is also a student of Buddhism, and they are not ready to have children, so they live together, and then meditate and practice together, living a relaxed and light life.
Some people think that Liu Zhiyu is actually quite romantic, and he said that the marriage relationship that was originally full of "fireworks" was fresh and refined, if he hadn't taken a detour at the beginning, he would definitely be a real talent.
Those who know Liu Zhiyu's past know that he is a typical scholar in reality, won the gold medal in the International Olympiad, and was successfully escorted to Peking University, and after graduation, he also obtained a full scholarship from MIT to study abroad, unfortunately, Liu Zhiyu made an amazing decision to give up studying in the United States and choose to become a monk.
At the time, this seemed completely incomprehensible, even if you didn't go to MIT to study, you could find a good job with a graduation certificate from Peking University, and live a worry-free and happy life from now on.
In the face of doubts from the outside world, Liu Zhiyu did not respond much at that time, only explaining that he wanted to do some "learning about returning to life", and the legends and topics about it in those years have never stopped.
Until 2018, Liu Zhiyu chose to leave the temple, but at this time he was still a monk, but began to contact the society as a monk, and by the time of the Spring Festival in 2022, Liu Zhiyu officially announced that he would return to the world, and the explanation at that time was that the interpersonal relationships in the temple were not simple, and even more complicated than in society, and he chose to leave because of disappointment.
At present, Liu Zhiyu works in a psychological consulting company and is also very active on the Internet, and this interview with Yu Minhong, his personal IP on the Internet has also been further improved, which further shows that he is changing from a monk to a "layman", and the so-called husband and wife practice is just a rhetoric.
Of course, Liu Zhiyu's choice now is understandable, the mathematical genius is also an ordinary person in life, and he has chosen different lifestyles at different stages of life, and the society needs to be more tolerant, and I hope that the second half of his life will be more exciting.
Source: Jiupai News