The third cousin went to his sister-in-law's place to work at the age of 19, and the place where the sister-in-law married was far away from her mother's house, and the cousin went to the place where the sister-in-law earned money not long after graduating from junior high school, which was also to relieve the pressure on the second aunt's family.
His uncle was a lover of cards, so all three of his sons played cards with him.
Playing cards is addictive, and some people can't quit.
In 1995, the 19-year-old third cousin went to her sister-in-law's house with her second aunt for her 40th birthday party.
The sister-in-law left her third cousin to find a job for him. After all, he is almost 20 years old, and he has two older brothers at home, and he has achieved nothing at this age, so he can get married and have children after working with peace of mind.
The three sons of the second aunt's family, due to poor family conditions, the eldest son and the second son each lived in a room after getting married, and the third cousin had no place to live at home, so he had to wander and work outside, and it was of course better for the sister-in-law to help live in her house.
My sister-in-law found a job for my third cousin to put wallpaper in the room, and the third cousin quickly got started and learned.
You must know that indoor wallpaper cloth was particularly popular in the past, but the third cousin did not save money.
When he was not married, he earned money and sent it to his parents. The second aunt has no culture and can't get money, and the uncle is the accountant of the production team, so he is in charge of the money sent by the third cousin, and only he and the third cousin know how much money is sent back. The uncle would use part of the money sent back by the third cousin to play cards, and save the rest for the third cousin to repair the house, after all, he was old and wanted to settle down.
The third cousin worked for a few years to earn money, and sending it home was not enough to repair his room, and he knew that his uncle took it to play cards and did not blame him.
A few years later, my uncle built a side room for the third cousin, which was built with brick walls, and a low room was attached next to the house, which was the third cousin's house.
The family had his nest, but he rarely went home to live, and he stopped sending money home, and he also learned to gamble at his sister-in-law's place.
Gradually, the third cousin was 27 years old and had not yet settled down, and the sister-in-law was anxious, so she looked for a matchmaker to find a partner for her nephew.
If you don't get married at the age of 27 or 8 in the 90s, it's very difficult to get married.
In order to settle down in a home, the matchmaker introduced a divorced woman to the third cousin, and the sister-in-law saw that the woman was very good, so she agreed to make the decision for the third cousin.
Soon the third cousin got married, he got married very simply, he didn't do it at all, and even his parents didn't congratulate him, but the sister-in-law and the two of them had a meal and lived together.
After getting married, the three cousins and their cousins-in-law did interior framing together.
Two people work together for more wages, but they also spend lavistly, and the cousin and daughter-in-law like to buy expensive things and branded clothes.
Her cousin-in-law's ex-husband's family has good economic conditions, so she spends money casually, and she is Xi to buying high-end things.
And the third cousin already has an interest in gambling, and the salary of the two of them is almost enough to live.
They were married for a few years, had no children, and did not buy a house of their own.
If two people work for a few years, it is easy to earn money to buy a house without children, but they are still renting a house.
My cousin was married for a few years and couldn't have children, and after an examination, it was found that he was dead sperm, and it was difficult to get pregnant. After finding the root cause, he went to the hospital to prescribe the right medicine to treat his male disease, so that his cousin and daughter-in-law could give birth to a boy and a girl.
In the current era, in the countryside, if a man gets married without a queen, he will be poked in the back.
Only nowadays people are reluctant to have children, and there is no gossip.
The cousin was finally cured of the male disease, and the 36-year-old cousin had a daughter of his own.
My cousin has worked for 16 or 7 years, and only he knows the bitterness of this.
He even sent money home to repair the house he lived in, so that he would have a place to stay in order not to work in the future. But his father didn't fully save the money he sent, and he used the money he sent home to play cards. After that, he also learned to gamble and did not save money. After getting married and not having children, he spent a lot of money on medical treatment. My cousin-in-law and ex-husband have a daughter, and my cousin's salary has to support her.
My cousin was very happy to have a daughter, but he was getting poorer and poorer. The child is so young, the cousin-in-law has to take the baby, and only the cousin's salary is alone.
A person's salary is not very high, and the family's living expenses, rent, children's diaper milk powder money, and occasionally have to take money to support the cousin's daughter-in-law's eldest daughter are a big expense. The second aunt had a loose hand, so she took the money to support this young son.
Although the third cousin is a good gambler, he has been wandering outside for many years and is under a lot of pressure. It is really difficult to get a second wife and take money to support his daughter, so he has his own daughter, and his life is getting poorer and poorer.