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Suddenly, I saw the information that a Malaysian female singer was connected to 8 knives by fans, which was quite sad and shocking. took a closer look at this female singer who developed in Malaysia, named Xu Jialing, who is only 27 years old and is still a very young female star, but because of an accident, she has to feel a pity.
I took a closer look at the life of this Malaysian female singer, how to say it, although she is young, she is very admirable and motivated at the level of survival, she is obviously Taiwanese, but she left her hometown for development and went to Malaysia to fight for her career, and she is very responsible, even if she is divorced and takes up a lot of her time raising her daughter, Xu Jialing still fights for the custody of her children.
But at the same time, Xu Jialing gives people the impression that she is very unclear, they are all engaged, have a partner, are getting married, and are dating the opposite sex who pursues her, giving others a signal that she is not out, and I don't know what she thinks.
Let's take a detailed look at Xu Jialing's information, maybe you will feel that she has her good, but she also has her limitations, when facing the pursuit of the opposite sex, don't act as a good person, don't hang others if you don't like it, don't let others feel that there is still a chance, otherwise others will feel that they are being tricked, and finally hate you.
First, Xu Jialing is very motivated and Taiwanese, but she went to Malaysia for her career
In fact, anyone who has left their hometown has a kind of hard work, or the strength to not admit defeat. If they admit defeat, or if they don't have any pursuits in this life, these people will not leave their hometown at all. Xu Jialing is a very motivated female star, obviously Taiwanese, and she can live next to familiar relatives.
But Xu Jialing still went to Malaysia to develop her career for the sake of her career, and she is currently a singer, which can be regarded as a small achievement, otherwise there would not be so many fans who like her and pursue her. And it can be seen that Xu Jialing is not a ruthless woman, many female stars are afraid that marriage will affect their careers, fear that having children will affect their careers, or affect their figures, and they will basically not marry and have children early.
Xu Jialing is 27 years old, and the child is 3 years old, which means that she gave birth to a child at the age of 24, and she is a female star who attaches importance to feelings and family.
Second, Xu Jialing is very responsible, divorced and having a baby affects her career, and she still needs custody of her 3-year-old daughter
Even if she leaves her hometown to develop in Malaysia, Xu Jialing gives the impression that she is very responsible. After a woman divorces, most of them who are career-minded will not have children, because they will affect their own pace of progress, and they will not have much time to see their children. But Xu Jialing, 27 years old is still very young, and she still fought for the custody of her daughter.
Therefore, in the eyes of the outside world, Xu Jialing is a divorced single mother with a daughter who loves her very much, and her daughter is by Xu Jialing's side, which also makes everyone feel that Xu Jialing is a very responsible female star.
Third, Xu Jialing has a weak sense of boundaries, and she is engaged and makes her admirers feel that she has a chance
But Xu Jialing, who is so self-motivated and so responsible, is a little incomprehensible. A normal woman, who has a boyfriend, will no longer contact and communicate with the opposite sex who pursues her alone, let alone eat and date. Xu Jialing herself is engaged to her fiancé, taking wedding photos, and she is about to enter marriage.
But on the eve of her marriage, Xu Jialing was still alone and went to dinner with fans who had pursued her for 2 years. Although it is said that Xu Jialing is soft-hearted, she can't stand the soft grinding and hard bubbles of fans. But in the eyes of fans, Xu Jialing has a boyfriend, and she still receives confessions from suitors at all times, and even responds.
Or to eat, date, Xu Jialing does not refuse, that is, it is obvious that the suitor feels that he has a chance. If for more than 2 years, only fans unilaterally sent messages to Xu Jialing and could not receive a reply, it is estimated that fans will not feel that they have a chance, and finally feel that Xu Jialing is hateful.
So women really don't feel that they are being pursued by others, it is a very attractive thing, trying to be ambiguous with others, being a female sea king, and meeting a more real man, people really won't let you go.