Ge Yifeng was born in 1990 in an ordinary rural family in Anhui Province. Both parents were manual laborers, and they made a living by farming with their industrious hands. The family is poor, the meals are simple, and the clothes are not covered.
Xiao Ge Yifeng grew up in such a difficult environment, a toddler, and he was waiting to be fed.
More than ten years passed in a hurry, and Ge Yifeng was admitted to the local rural middle school, but he didn't like the boring classroom life, and his grades were a mess. In addition, his family really had no money for him to go to school, so he had to drop out of school in the second year of junior high school and embark on the road of no return to go out to work.
The outside world was too complicated for him, and he was often oppressed from all sides. But in order to fill his stomach, he could only swallow his anger and work hard day after day.
All these years of running around have made him look much older than his peers, and he has been able to take charge on his own.
The hard life did not dampen his yearning for a better life, and he began to feel that he was also at the age of marriage. By chance, Ge Yifeng met Chen Jiao, a fellow countryman.
Chen Jiao looks mediocre, but she wins in gentleness and kindness. The two hit it off, and Ge Yifeng pursued Chen Jiaolai wholeheartedly.
Love comes and goes quickly, and in the blink of an eye, Ge Yifeng and Chen Jiao have entered the palace of marriage. However, this marriage was strongly opposed by Ge Yifeng's family.
In the eyes of their parents, their marriage was too hasty, and neither of them had done enough psychological construction and life planning.
Ge Yifeng was furious when he heard this, and after a big quarrel with his family, he moved out and lived with his lover. He promised Chen Jiao that he would make his parents accept the marriage through his own efforts.
So he began to raise a huge amount of bride price everywhere, running between relatives and friends, but no one received help.
The wedding date is approaching, and Ge Yifeng is anxious. In the end, he borrowed a large amount of money from a loan shark to make up the price offered by his father-in-law and mother-in-law. When he stood alone at the wedding scene to greet the guests, all kinds of tastes were in his heart.
He wants to prove to his family that he can make a career through labor and make a good life for his wife.
Life after marriage is not as happy as Ge Yifeng imagined. After getting married, the two moved to Beijing for development and lived with their father-in-law and mother-in-law. His father-in-law and mother-in-law made it difficult for him to understand the rules, and his wife often complained that he had failed in his career.
Ge Yifeng got up early and worked odd jobs everywhere, wanting to buy a house and move out as soon as possible through his own efforts. However, in a foreign land, he was often discriminated against, his salary was low, and his life was very poor.
This devastated him, and his inferiority complex grew day by day.
At this moment, his wife actually opened her mouth to ask him for divorce! Ge Yifeng couldn't understand why the once sweet marriage came to an end in a blink of an eye. He repeatedly begged his wife to give him some time, and he would surely make a lot of money through hard work.
However, his wife took a tough attitude, believing that he had done nothing at all and was a complete failure.
Being tortured by his wife so capriciously, Ge Yifeng's heart was like ashes. He could no longer bear such a dire situation and decided to die with his wife. So he bought a murder weapon and killed his wife in a quarrel.
Afterwards, Ge Yifeng did not choose to flee. He calmly called relatives and friends to inform him of what he had done, and then surrendered to the police on the spot. In 2014, a court sentenced him to death with a two-year reprieve for intentional homicide.
When the judge announced the verdict, Ge Yifeng burst into tears. He was deeply saddened by his wife's death, and at the same time regretted it. He begged the judge to give him a chance to make amends, but knew that his actions were heinous.
At this moment, he was immersed in deep remorse and pain.
After the court's verdict, Ge Yifeng in prison repeatedly recalled what happened at the beginning. He remembered his longing and yearning for a better life when he was young, and remembered his deep love for Chen Jiao.
He also remembered his determination to be alone at the wedding scene, wanting to change his fate and achieve happiness through his own labor.
However, it backfired, not only did he fail to get his wish, but instead brought death to his innocent wife.
He stared at the cold railings of the prison, tears blurring his vision. How he wished that time could be turned back, that he would put down his mind to communicate with his family, and learn to be considerate and tolerant of his wife's temperament.
No matter how much it costs, as long as he can save everything, he is willing.
However, history is merciless, and the years to come will be spent in remorse and repentance. At this moment, Ge Yifeng regretted it a lot.
Through this heart-wrenching tragedy, we have to think deeply, what are missing in those seemingly ordinary but potentially contradictory families?
Many people focus their lives on their careers and money, but neglect to communicate and communicate in the emotional world. We should cherish the person in front of us, be more tolerant, be more tolerant, and feel the emotional ups and downs of the other party with our hearts.
The lack of empathy between people is a true portrayal of today's society. We need to accumulate warmth bit by bit in our daily life, more greetings from old neighbors, and less competition among colleagues.
Only harmony and friendship can build beauty.
That young couple could have started a happy life, but the lack of understanding made a tragedy. Let us learn from this, cherish our feelings, think of others, and purify the shackles of the world with love.