Ordinary childhood, unhappy family
Wan Qiwen was born in an ordinary family in 1970, but her childhood was not satisfactory. Her parents had a very bad relationship, and her father had a short temper and would beat and scold her mother for no reason.
Whenever she witnesses these scenes of domestic violence, Wan Qiwen, who is still a delicate girl, is afraid and helpless, she is afraid of her impulsive father, and she does not know how to stop her mother from suffering.
This family environment gave Wan Qiwen a lot of mental trauma. She lost the most basic trust and respect for her father, and psychologically rejected her father.
At the age of 18, her parents finally divorced. Wan Qiwen did not hesitate to choose to stay with her mother to live. and their mother depended on each other, and the two took care of each other, which gave Wan Qiwen warmth and strength.
The hard family life has honed Wan Qiwen's independent and strong character. She understands her mother's bitterness for many years, and she has also learned to face the unsatisfactory life by herself. These experiences greatly influenced her later attitudes towards marriage and relationships.
She looks forward to a warm and understanding home, and longs for sincere and stable feelings. This has also become the main theme of her life.
100,000,100,000
19-year-old Wan Qiwen has just graduated from high school and started working part-time in a bridal shop, taking care of some basic work. It didn't take long for her tall and well-proportioned figure and amazing temperament to be discovered by her boss, so she turned into a wedding model.
The large photo hanging in the store attracted the attention of many customers, and business was booming.
At this moment, the leaders of ATV happened to come to the store to pick out the dresses for the competition. When he saw the poster in the store, he was immediately attracted by Wan Qiwen, and asked the boss about her contact information in a few sentences.
By chance, Wan Qiwen's life trajectory was rewritten.
Wan Qiwen didn't want to participate in the talent competition in the entertainment industry, her dream was to travel the world as a flight attendant. It's just that ATV's promise is a bit impressive: you can go to Greece during the game.
The exotic atmosphere aroused her innocent romance and curiosity, and she finally signed up for the competition and embarked on the road to stardom.
Behind the unearthly opportunity, there is an invisible hard work. The high-intensity schedule rehearsals made Wan Qiwen physically and mentally exhausted, and she was sick for a while and wanted to withdraw from the competition, but she was forced to sign a contract with high liquidated damages.
finally survived to the finals, and she unexpectedly won the runner-up, completing the gorgeous and easy clothes. At this moment, she burst into tears, 100,000 points of happiness and 100,000 points of discomfort.
Golden boy and girl, four years of love
During her tenure at ATV, Wan Qiwen and her brother Lu Songxian fell in love because of the play, and the two soon confirmed their relationship and became a golden boy and jade girl on-screen couple. With an excellent sense of picture, they shine on the screen, and are popular with the audience, and are known as popular little flowers.
The news of the release of the relationship between the two was like thunder, and it became the focus of attention in the entertainment industry and the audience for a while. Wan Qiwen's shy smile and Lu Songxian's frequent ambiguous gestures all show their sweetness.
However, the good times do not last long, and there are still differences in age and growth behind the scenery. The two were together for less than five years before they reluctantly announced their breakup. When they were young and vigorous, they recalled this youthful relationship, and they couldn't help but sigh that they were young and frivolous.
Much of the discord seems to stem from the fact that both sides were too young and immature at the time to compromise and back down.
People go to tea and cool, how many looks back is the best period. After separation, the two went their separate ways, and there was no intersection. In the blink of an eye, they have all learned to grow and be tolerant in this long river of fate, but they can't go back to the past.
Zombie dating, meeting true love
Wan Qiwen's hit drama "I Have a Date with a Zombie" brought her popularity again, and also allowed her to meet the true love of life. The screenwriter of this drama is none other than her later husband Chen Shisan.
With a hit work to achieve each other, the two began to get in touch at the follow-up celebration banquet. Wan Qiwen was surprised to find that many of the classics she had participated in before, such as "I Have a Date with Spring", were all written by Chen Shisan.
Falling in love at first sight is not the madness of luxury, but the familiarity and stability that naturally sublimates over time.
After experiencing the blow of the first two failed romances, Wan Qiwen did not fall in love again this time. She learned to examine Chen Shisan: steady and introverted, ambitious, and most importantly, willing to accompany her.
These are the things she dreams of love look like. Seven days later, Chen Shisan proposed to her, and Wan Qiwen readily agreed.
In 2000, they had their wedding in Las Vegas. Friends were more or less surprised by Wan Qiwen's choice. Can an inconspicuous screenwriter really bring her happiness? Wan Qiwen doesn't care about these discussions, she firmly believes in her decision.
A rare true love, she is grateful and grateful, as if it is the favor of God. This sweetness in the plain is more reassuring than any exciting sensation.
Career and body, who else can I be
Wan Qiwen, who has suffered many accidental injuries for the drama and her physical condition is becoming increasingly suspenseful, finally made a choice between her career and her body. She decisively chose to turn around and leave the peak of popularity, faded out of the entertainment industry and began to recuperate.
During the filming of "I Have a Date with a Zombie", a mistake in Hangweiya caused the thumb nerve to be scratched and several ribs broken, which became the last straw that broke the camel's back.
The original old injury has just healed, and now there is a new one, and Wan Qiwen, who is physically and mentally exhausted, has to face up to the fact that she may not live to be 30 years old.
In fact, she had other options. Popular superstars, resources and opportunities abound, as long as they are willing to pay the price of their bodies. But Wan Qiwen didn't want to waste her health like this, and she didn't want to go against her body's instincts.
What she wants is very simple, just an ordinary peaceful life.
So, after a short break to recuperate, she decided to return to devote herself to new filming work. After the transfer, she is still as popular as ever, which shows that her career has not been delayed at all because of her choice of body.
Now that she has faded out of the entertainment industry, she often has a grateful heart. Wan Qiwen, who has never been bound by fame and fortune, has an admirable contentment.