I never imagined that there would be a day when I just learned that I was pregnant with a child and received a notice of divorce. I thought, maybe this is an accident in life. I agreed to the divorce, but put forward the only condition, which was to never remarry.
When I learned that I was pregnant, I was so excited that I could barely control myself. My husband and I have been looking forward to this day for a long time. But it was at this beautiful moment that I received a divorce settlement. I don't understand why he chose to leave me at this time, I tried desperately to stay, but he ignored it.
"He's gone?" Mom looked at the agreement in my hand with an angry expression, "This bastard actually left you at this time!"
I nodded, tears streaming down my face.
"Fu Shanshan, don't be sad. Mom touched my hair, "Wait for Mom to go to him to settle accounts!"
I shook my head, "Forget it, Mom." Since he chose to leave, it means that there is nothing to be redeemed between us for a long time. ”
Mom sighed, "Okay, as long as you're doing well." ”
My mother accepted my divorce and helped me with my daily life, and my relatives and friends around me also came to comfort me and care about the safety of me and my children. Gradually, I let go of my obsession with the past, and my only hope was to create a happy home for my children.
During my pregnancy, my mother was always by my side to take care of me. Whenever I couldn't sleep late at night, she would tell me funny stories from my childhood, and her laughter soothed my anxiety. Sometimes, I would ask her seriously for advice on how to take care of the children, and she would always say yes and tease me: "When you become a mother yourself, you will know how difficult it is to take care of children." ”
The moment my baby was born, I burst into tears. This little angel brings me endless joy and also gives me hope for the future. I swear that no matter what difficulties I encounter, I will face them strong and give my children a warm home.
"Sansan, you're truly amazing. "My mother looked at me holding my baby with pride in her eyes.
I smiled and shook my head, "Mom, you taught me well." ”
Now, my kids and I are doing well. Although it was just me, I didn't feel alone. Child, we will always be together, forever.
After a few years, the baby gradually grew up, and the mother was also taking care of it not far away. Between us, it's like a whole family. I believe that in the days to come, we will be happier.
One day, I received a strange phone call telling me that my husband had been in a car accident and was in critical condition. I immediately panicked, asked my mother to take care of the baby, and hurried to the hospital. It hurts to see my husband lying on the hospital bed, covered in wounds. I spent several long days and nights waiting for him to wake up.
"Look, Sansan, I know I'm wrong. My husband defended me, "I know this time has hurt you a lot, but I'm really sorry. ”
I looked at him with mixed feelings. I didn't speak, just left the room in silence.
Back at home, I decided to discuss the issue with my mother. Mom looked at my hesitant expression and said, "Shanshan, this matter is about the future of the three of you, you have to think about it carefully." ”
I took a deep breath and began to think. During this time, I had a baby, and my mother and I relied on each other for our lives, and we have been very happy and happy. My husband, on the other hand, left me during this time. Can I forgive him, is there any way for our family to recover?
"Mom, I really don't know what to do. "I was holding the baby, full of doubts.
"Fu Shanshan, this is your own family matter, and I can't make a decision for you. Mom looked at me earnestly, "However, you have to trust your own judgment, and you can only choose the future path." ”
I nodded, still uncertain. During this time, I went through each day in a paradoxical way. My husband's accident changed everything between us and made me re-examine the meaning of family. I just want to be able to make the right decision and give my child a complete and happy home.
It seems that everything in life is moving in a good direction. However, an uninvited guest shattered the sweet picture.
It was drizzling and my children and I spent a quiet weekend afternoon at home. Suddenly, the doorbell rang, and I opened the door, and there was a middle-aged woman standing in the doorway, her face grief-stricken.
"Are you ......?" I looked at her suspiciously.
"I'm Grandma Lin, I beg you, please let me go in and say a few words. She spoke earnestly.
We walked into the living room, and she spoke slowly, "Fu Shanshan, I know that you have never known about my existence, and I have been silently guarding you. I am your husband's mother. ”
I was stunned, I was surprised by her appearance, and the picture of my mother that my husband had mentioned came to my mind. It turned out that he had been hiding it from me because of family strife and division.
"I know I might be confused and angry when I do this, but I really can't help it, I just can't stand it. She choked up.
"Grandma, what's going on?" I tried to control my emotions.
Grandma Lin silently took out a photo and handed it to me. In the photo, it is a middle-aged man and a young boy, the boy is the same age as my son, and it can be seen that it was taken recently.
I sat up sharply. "What does that mean......? Is this my husband?"
Grandma Lin nodded, "Yes, this is your husband, that is, the object of your divorce." And this boy, your nephew. ”
"What the hell is he thinking, why is he hiding it from us?" I couldn't help but ask out loud.
Grandma Lin also showed a sad expression, "I'm also disappointed and angry. But I can't watch this child be abandoned like this, and I know you've been hurt too, but I beg you, can you help this child? He's your nephew after all. ”
My son sat on the sidelines, his eyes full of confusion. I took a deep breath and told myself that no matter what, the child was innocent.
"Okay, I'll figure it out. I reluctantly spoke.
Grandma Lin burst into tears and grabbed my hand. "Thank you, Sansan. I know I'm being selfish, but looking at this kid, I can't bear it. ”
I looked at her helpless eyes, and the anger in my heart gradually subsided. Family problems never seem to end, but at least I can choose how to face them. I have to tell my son his father's secret that I have a nephew who doesn't know, and since my husband has chosen his own path, my nephew should also know that he has an aunt and a cousin.
The child is already in elementary school, and happy laughter fills the whole family. I work steadily and accompany my children as they grow. However, an accident shattered the peace.
It was a weekend evening, I was cooking dinner, and the kids were sitting at the table and concentrating on their homework. Suddenly, the phone rang. As soon as I answered the phone, I heard an unfamiliar female voice.
"Hello, I'm ...... Mom. She said.
"Who are you looking for?" I wondered.
"I work in the city, and my son will come to your house after school, and we can't pick him up because of the lack of transportation. I am grateful to your family for always taking care of him. She spoke calmly.
I learned about her situation, it turned out that her son was a student of my son's school, and indeed he often came to our house for a while, and I always thought that he had nowhere to go so he stayed in our house, but I didn't expect it to be arranged by the parents themselves.
I had to let her know that the child didn't come home and should still be at my house. After hanging up the phone, I rushed to the study and saw my son sitting there, scratching his scalp vigorously and not saying a word.
"It's a call from your classmate's mom saying you're going to his house after school. I blushed and asked angrily.
The son hung his head, "Yes, I want to go to his house to play for a while." ”
"Then why didn't you tell me?!I thought you were taken!" I was a little out of control.
The son's face froze and he muttered in a low voice, "I didn't mean to. ”
I breathed a sigh of relief and tried to calm my excitement, "Kid, you can't do this...... We're all here for your good. Tell me what happens in the future. ”
The son nodded, a flash of remorse in his eyes.
Seeing my son's confession, my anger calmed down a lot for a while. But I'm still a little uneasy in my heart, what else is behind this that I don't know? This incident seems to make me feel a little faintly worried.
A long time ago, due to an unexpected setback, I received a divorce notice as soon as I became pregnant with a child. It was an unforeseen blow to me. I agreed to the divorce, but the only condition was that I would never remarry. At the moment, I am doing well, and my child has developed self-confidence and vitality.
"Mom, I want to travel to Yunnan!" said the child excitedly.
I groaned, and finally shook my head, "Baby, it's too far to go to Yunnan for the summer vacation." Why don't we go to a nearby park for a day?"
The child didn't raise his head and said, "What's so fun about that, every time I go to the park, I'm tired of playing." ”
"Okay, listen to Mom. I said solemnly.
The child pursed his lips, turned and walked away.
I looked at the child's angry back and felt a pain in my heart. It's normal for my child to grow up and have my own ideas. It's just that I'm always worried that this will hurt the family relationship between us.
A few days later, I found a transcript of my final exam in my child's room. I glanced at it, then frowned. This is a child's professional class, and I actually failed.
"Kid, what's wrong with your major?" I asked curiously.
The child lowered his head, lifted the report card, and tore desperately with his hands.
"Son, you can't dodge the problem like this!" I reproached.
"Mom, I don't want to go to this major anymore. The child finally spoke.
I froze for a moment, this is the first time a child has said such a thing since he was a child. I panicked, but I didn't know how to speak.
"Son, let's sit down and talk. I took the child and said softly.
The child sobbed and said, "I want to learn how to draw, and I've always loved it." ”
I touched the child's head, pondered the matter, and finally I said, "Okay, kid. You can try it as long as you like. ”
There was a smile on the child's face, the kind of smile I hadn't seen in a long time. I silently made up my mind that no matter what happened to me, I would support my child.
To come, stay tuned.
For a long time, my mom and I lived happily ever after. The baby has grown up, has gone to kindergarten, and is alive and kicking every day. Mom, on the other hand, is busy taking care of the household and volunteering in the community, and she always says that it is good for her. However, our family did not usher in the happiness we expected.
One night, my mom suddenly fell ill. At first, I didn't take it seriously, thinking it was because I was overworked. But after a while, my mother's condition became worse day by day. I took her to the hospital and the doctor told me that my mom had a rare disease that needed long-term treatment. How I longed for someone to tell me it was just a nightmare, but it was this nightmare that haunted us.
I didn't want my mother to suffer alone, so I decided to quit my job and take care of her wholeheartedly. As the days passed, I spent the days with my mother, and at night I was looking through countless medical books looking for a cure for her illness. I occasionally lose my temper due to stress, but my mom always patiently comforts me.
However, life doesn't get any easier. The cost of medicine was getting higher and higher, and I began to feel overwhelmed. I asked other relatives for help, but they all shied away. I still don't understand why my mom turned a blind eye when she needed help the most.
"Shanshan, Mom didn't expect it to be so difficult. Seeing that I was exhausted, my mother said in a trembling voice, "I just want to see you and the baby doing well." ”
I wiped away my tears and forced a smile, "Mom, don't worry, I'll figure it out." ”
It was at this time that I received a letter from my ex-husband. He offered to contribute some money to help us. I hesitated for a long time, but finally refused. A lot of people don't understand why I want to refuse, they just see that I am doing it as irresponsible. But I can't forget that he left me when I needed him the most.
Now, I am facing my mother's illness and all kinds of difficulties, I feel helpless, and I am afraid of losing her. I don't know what to do anymore. My family, once happy, is now ethereal in an instant.