Love at first sight
19-year-old Li Yong came to school with his father's advice that "you must find a girlfriend when you go to college". As soon as he looked up in class, he saw Harvin sitting on his right-hand side - bright eyes and bright teeth, thick black hair, full of delicateness.
Li Yong's heart was beating "thump", and he forgot to breathe for a moment. It turned out that this was "love at first sight"! From then on, Li Yong was busy sketching Ha Wen in class every day, trying to attract her attention.
But Haven always coldly threw the painting aside, which made Li Yong's heart full of loss. Such a refusal strengthened Li Yong's determination to catch up with her.
During a group dance, Li Yong plucked up the courage to formally confess to Harvin, but was rejected by Harvin. Harvin said her father didn't approve of her falling in love. Li Yong was unwilling, and later simply pretended to be sick and pretended to be decadent, wanting to impress Harvin.
Seeing that he still couldn't soften like this, Li Yong almost fell into despair. On New Year's Day in 1988, Li Yong asked Hawen to come out and muster up all the courage to issue an ultimatum to her - either be together or say goodbye.
Harvin was silent for a long time, and finally reached out to take the wildflower from Li Yong's hand. The excited Li Yong burst into tears, he knew that Harvin had finally agreed to his pursuit! At this moment, the 19-year-old was so excited that he couldn't even speak, and could only reverently recite in his heart - I will definitely be good to you, my first love, the love of my life.
Hand in hand with the oath of the white head
After graduating from university, Li Yong and Ha Wen finally entered the palace of marriage in 1992. On the wedding night, the two nestled in a small room of only 11 square meters, but it was as sweet as living in heaven.
The first time they were husbands and wives, they were so childlike that they laughed all night. In the 10-year world of the two, Li Yong and Ha Wen are inseparable and rarely quarrel.
Li Yong handed over all the money he earned to Harvin to take care of, and he didn't even know the password of the bank card. After the birth of her daughter Fatoumai in 2002, Li Yong played with her daughter all day long, more like a noisy child than her.
And Harvin became a big director outside, and when he went home, he had to manage the big boy and the little girl. Li Yong joked that he was "the successful man behind Harvin".
After years of married life, the relationship between the two has become more and more harmonious and more and more dependent. Li Yong said that what he was most afraid of was Harvin, and he always admitted his mistakes first when quarreling. He joked that "ripe ears of rice will always bow their heads", which is a husband and wife virtue.
Li Yong and Ha Wen's 30 years of love hide countless such trivial and warm stories. The two teenagers who promised to be together back then have now come to their twilight years hand in hand, and they are still very affectionate.
The grief of a broken love
However, the good times did not last long, and Li Yong died suddenly of illness in 2018 at the age of 50. The news came so suddenly that Haven and his daughter Fatoumah were devastated. At Li Yong's funeral, everyone burst into tears.
Li Yong's life was full of ups and downs, but he left in a hurry at the peak of his career, leaving endless regrets. 30 years ago, two teenagers fell in love at first sight, but now it has become a farewell.
Li Yong left in too much hurry and didn't have time to say goodbye to Ha Wen and her daughter, which became the biggest knot in their lives.
Even so, time does not stand still. Haven and her daughter Fatumah are still trying to make ends meet, but Li Yong has become their deepest and most painful trauma. We must cherish everyone in this world who is bound to us.
The most precious thing in life is actually health, peace and companionship. I hope that all lovers in the world can grow old together and never part.
Impressions and blessings
Li Yong and Ha Wen's 30 years of friendship have made countless people feel emotional. Whether it's love at first sight, or hand in hand until old age, the rarest thing in this world is to never be separated from your lover.
Li Yong left in too much hurry and didn't have time to complete the vow to grow old together, which became the regret of countless people. However, their love is so sincere and touching, who is willing to miss it in 30 years.
We should cherish the people in front of us and give them a little more warmth and companionship in our lifetime. Cherish the time spent with your family in good health and peace, because life is too short to live.
I sincerely wish happiness and health to every pair of people who love each other, and hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married, and the earth will not change; I hope that there will be fate in this life, and we can stay together in the next life; Hope is the love of this life, and this life and the next life will never be abandoned.
Although the love between Li Yong and Ha Wen has become an eternal regret, it is also an eternal blessing. May a lover eventually become a family, and may a destined person never abandon in the next life. I sincerely wish that you and I can meet such a hot and sincere love.