For a relationship, there will be its mode of getting along. Everyone has their own state of getting along, and the most comfortable state is actually not tired of getting along and never getting tired of getting along for a long time.
If two people can achieve this state, they will probably not be separated easily, and they will become more and more harmonious.
When two people get along, the most important thing is to run in, they can be themselves sincerely, and they can feel down-to-earth in front of each other, which is the real feeling.
Therefore, the most comfortable state in a relationship is for two people to do these three things.
- Don't be overly demanding
In any relationship, it is best to be comfortable. No matter how close the relationship between two people is, they can't ask each other to do anything, and excessive demands will only disgust the other party.
You must know that the most taboo in a relationship is to be too forceful, as the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet, and you still have to follow the other party's mind at any time.
If two people want to be together for a long time, it is important to understand each other. After all, everyone has their own temper and temperament, and you can't ask the other party to change just because you love one, this is emotional kidnapping.
To truly love someone is to respect each other and understand each other.
The reason why two people choose to be together is that they love each other and want to go on, since they love someone, they should try to make each other feel comfortable, not too restrictive.
A truly long-term relationship is never to force the other party to do things he doesn't like, nor is it excessive possession and control, but allows him to be himself.
Therefore, to be comfortable is to maintain the respect that you deserve.
- Don't blindly aggrieved
Any relationship, if you have to sacrifice yourself to satisfy the other person, then the relationship loses its original meaning.
True love is not too flattering, nor blindly wronging oneself, but can be evenly matched with the other party, and can be true to yourself.
Like those who have wronged themselves because of love, Xi is strong, and a person bears all the suffering, naturally he will not feel happy, and such feelings will not last long.
Many times, if you blindly wronged yourself, you may not be able to exchange it for the other party's cherishment and understanding.
I have to say that a good relationship should be comfortable with each other, treat each other sincerely, not wronged either party, and face everything sincerely in the relationship.
Therefore, if two people really get along, they should maintain harmony, solve any problems in time, and do not need to rely on grievances to maintain their feelings, such feelings are meaningless.
- Don't try to please
I have always felt that real feelings should be evenly matched with each other, and there is no need to please hard, nor do you need to be overly accommodating, just respect each other.
However, many people are often caught in a relationship, they are easy to lose themselves, and in order to get the love of the other party, they do not hesitate to reduce their self-worth to please the other party, and in the end they may not be able to get the results they want.
For love and please, are two different ideas.
You can love someone and give for him, but you can't be humbled to the dust because you love someone, because no one will like you in the dust.
When it comes to relationships, the more you please, the less likely the result is for you.
A comfortable relationship is a mutually beneficial symbiosis between two people who love each other, and it is the reciprocal independence of loving oneself first and then loving others, rather than groveling to please anyone.
Therefore, true love is mutual respect, having each other, and not having to do too much.
Summary:
I have always felt that good love is unbound and you can be yourself with each other.
There is no need to be overly demanding, there is no need to be aggrieved, and there is no need to please, just maintain a normal mode of getting along, which is the most comfortable state of a relationship.
People who can do this will have a longer relationship.