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Preface
On the dazzling stage of the entertainment industry, there are many people who have won attention with their talent and appearance and become high-profile stars. However, there are also some powerful actors, despite their superb acting skills and rich works, they have never been able to usher in the peak of their careers.
Lu Jianmin is such an actor, his role as "Wei Qing" in "The Emperor of the Han Dynasty" is impressive, but after more than 30 years of debut, he still maintains a tepid state.
And his wife Hu Yue became popular all over the country because of the song "Loess High Slope" and became a well-known singer. This model couple in the entertainment industry has not only gone through many ups and downs together, but also created a family miracle, what is going on?
Like water
Lu Jianmin, an outstanding actor who graduated from the Beijing Film Academy, hides a warm married life behind his brilliant career.
His wife, Hu Yue, is a smash hit singer, and her singing has spread all over the country and won the love of countless fans.
Hu Yue was born in Beijing in the late '60s, to an artistic family, with a folk musician father and a singer mother. Hu Yue, who grew up in such a family, has shown extraordinary musical talent since she was a child.
In the spring of 1987, Lu Jianmin was fortunate to participate in the TV series "Contemporary Soldiers", and the theme song of the play was performed by Hu Yue. In that spring, the fates of the two young men began to intertwine.
By chance, Lu Jianmin bravely walked into Hu Yue's home through the recommendation of the producer and asked her for singing skills.
Hu Yue was moved by the sunny and handsome young man in front of him, and the conversation between the two became pleasant and natural. In the evening of the same day, although Hu Yue had issued an eviction order, Lu Jianmin was finally warmly retained by the Hu family's parents and had dinner together.
In the days that followed, Lu Jianmin launched an unremitting pursuit of Hu Yue. He rode a bicycle to see Hu Yue's concert, and took her to his school after Hu Yue's performance.
In the humble student dormitory, Lu Jianmin impressed Hu Yue with carefully prepared salads and noodles, and the two fell in love like this.
In 1988, Lu Jianmin graduated from university and was faced with the choice of a career path. At that time, Zhujiang Film Studio threw an olive branch to him and promised to provide a two-bedroom house on the condition that he must join Zhujiang Film Studio.
But Lu Jianmin did not hesitate to give up this tempting invitation, because he didn't want to be separated from Hu Yue, let alone let this relationship be tested.
Also that year, a Japanese company approached Hu Yue in hopes of making her an "Asian diva" and offered to sign a 15-year contract.
Hu Yue hesitated about this, although Lu Jianmin expressed support for her choice, he knew in his heart that if Hu Yue went to Japan, their relationship would face a huge challenge.
After understanding Hu Yue's concerns, the Japanese company proposed to let Lu Jianmin go to Japan to develop together, but Hu Yue finally chose to return to China.
In May 1990, the couple finally became married and held a low-key wedding in Beijing. Now, they have walked hand in hand for countless springs, summers, autumns and winters, and mutual support and understanding have become the solid cornerstone of their marriage.
Wait for the flowers to bloom
However, in addition to the warm family life, Lu Jianmin's career has been tepid. He used to have a stable job and was considered an iron rice bowl, but his heart has always aspired to be an actor.
He kept trying, risking and stress, and finally achieved his dream.
Although Lu Jianmin has excellent grades in primary school Xi, he comes from a divorced family. Against this backdrop, he developed a gritty character and a spirit of not giving up.
While studying Xi drama at the Shanghai Children's Palace, he became friends with the later famous actor Wang Zhiwen, and together they explored the joy and skill of acting.
Faced with the opposition of his family and colleagues, Lu Jianmin decided to apply for the Beijing Film Academy, which was a decision to stay away from his hometown. He was very adaptable and successfully passed the exam with his own efforts.
However, it was only after entering Nortel that he realized that his Mandarin pronunciation was not standard. In order to overcome this problem, Lu Jianmin got up early every day to practice Xi, and eventually became able to express himself fluently.
During his college years, Lu Jianmin participated in the movie "Gongs and Drums in the Mountain Village" and the TV series "University", and these works have gained a certain recognition. However, after graduation, he did not star in any film and television works for seven years. During this period, Lu Jianmin was depressed and anxious, but he did not give up. He still won the appreciation of the audience and the director through the choice of scripts and wonderful acting skills.
In 1995, Lu Jianmin had the opportunity to star in the TV series "Last Night Long Wind" directed by Hu Mei. He bravely chose to play the role of villain, which was an artistic breakthrough for him.
The drama was a great success and won further development opportunities for Lu Jianmin. In subsequent works, he played a number of vivid roles, the most famous of which is "Wei Qing" played in the TV series "Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty".
But after debuting for many years, Lu Jianmin is still a familiar actor, but his name is not loud, but it is precisely because he does not pursue the so-called popularity that people feel that he is a good actor.
Filial piety is respectable
In the entertainment industry, people often say that marriage is the grave of love, but in Lu Jianmin's world, this sentence does not seem to apply. He and his wife Hu Yue are in love as before, and they have gone through more than 30 years of married life hand in hand, and there have never been scandals.
However, what really moved him was not the love story with his wife, but the touching experience of his successful reconciliation of his parents who had been divorced for many years with his own strength.
Lu Jianmin's parents began to quarrel since childhood, and the final divorce constituted a tragedy of family breakdown. The breakdown of this marriage was an unspeakable pain for him, and he wept many times over their divorce.
Although his parents have never remarried since their divorce, Lu Jianmin still hopes to reunite his broken family. So, after marriage, with the consultation and support of his wife Hu Yue, he began to take active action to try to rekindle the spark of love with his parents.
He frequently travels back and forth between Shanghai and Beijing, acting as a bridge of family harmony, trying to shorten the distance between his parents and allow them to reconnect and get along. Xi acting since elementary school, he knows how to maintain fairness in guiding and influencing either party, and wisely provides opportunities for parents to understand and reconcile with each other.
Time gradually passed, and Lu Jianmin's efforts began to bear fruit. Exchanges between parents are becoming more and more frequent, and in addition to photos of grandchildren, more and more precious photos of parents and relatives are beginning to fill the walls.
When the parents finally held their son's hand and walked together silently, Lu Jianmin was so excited that he burst into tears. This is not only a relief of the past, but also a vision of future life.
The guilt and struggles of the past few decades have finally become a wordless happiness, and he is proud and satisfied from the bottom of his heart for what he has done.
However, the reunion is only the beginning of this family miracle. In Hu Yue's actual actions, she continued her daughter-in-law's filial piety and love, and her relationship with her mother-in-law was as close as that of a mother and daughter.
Whether it's a Chinese New Year reunion or a family birthday party, Hu Yue always cleverly arranges the time so that her parents have more moments of in-depth communication. When dealing with her mother-in-law, she was gentle in her speech and demeanor, caring, and sincerely devoted herself to family harmony. In the company of Hu Yue, the whole family gradually exuded a harmonious and warm brilliance.
In the spring of 1996, Lu Jianmin welcomed the birth of his daughter Lu Yao. This period of peaceful life adds a cup of joy and intimacy.
While carefully taking care of Hu Yue's confinement, Lu Jianmin's parents rushed to Beijing, stretched out warm hands, and took care of this young life day and night.
He often called his parents, asked them what they were thinking, and shared his life with them. Even in the turmoil of the entertainment industry he is in, he still has never forgotten the existence of his parents. Between her and Hu Yue, she expressed the significant care and longing of her parents.
In this uncertain society, he told us the importance of family affection with practical actions. As long as there is love in the heart, the family can return to warmth, and use their own strength to manage marriage and family, in order to harvest sincere family affection and a happy life.
epilogue
After years of perseverance and dedication, Lu Jianmin and Hu Yue have overcome difficulties and run-in, and live happily together. They use their stories to interpret love and responsibility, and also convey the power of harmony and tolerance to society.
Whether as children or as husband and wife, they have performed the most beautiful music in the family with their own actions. And these all stem from Lu Jianmin's own great love and original intention of persistent pursuit of happiness.