Marriage is an important choice in life, and it is not only about personal happiness, but also about the reconstruction of family relationships. For every woman, what she wants most after marriage is the care of her husband and the blessing of her parents. However, there are often hidden facts in marriage, that is, things that neither parents nor husband are willing to tell you.
First, let's talk about what parents don't want to tell you.
Parents are our loved ones, and they play a vital role in our upbringing. However, when we enter the palace of marriage, sometimes they choose not to tell us something. This may be because they want us to be able to think and deal with problems on our own and no longer rely on their help. Or maybe they are worried that telling us something will cause us stress and distress. Whatever the reason, parents choose to remain silent, seemingly for the sake of our well-being. For example, parents will not tell you some privacy related to the family, such as financial status, health problems, kinship, etc.
And for his husband, he also has some things that he doesn't want to tell his wife. Marriage is an intimate relationship, but it doesn't mean that everything needs to be completely honest with each other. Sometimes, maintaining a certain amount of privacy and secrecy is to add to the mystery and romance of the marriage. Things that your husband is reluctant to tell his wife may involve some of his personal privacy, such as past experiences, as this may affect the trust and relationship between you.
Should we be worried or anxious despite all these untold things?
Marriage is a process of mutual understanding and tolerance, not a requirement for full transparency with each other. Everyone has their own right to protect privacy, on the one hand, we have to believe that the other party is sincere to us, and give a certain amount of trust and space. However, on the other hand, we must also be vigilant, if it is a problem that you feel is principled, such as debt, gambling, bad behavior, etc., we must find out and stop the loss in time.
Every family has its secrets and privacy, and that's normal. The key lies in communication and understanding between couples. Only through mutual communication and understanding can we be more honest in facing various difficulties and challenges in life. I believe that only through mutual and sincere care and understanding can we build a happy marriage together and face various challenges in life together.