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I've been married to Umeko for 7 years. I remember when the relationship was first confirmed, we fell in love all over the world, even if it was a dull day, it was very sweet together. Looking back now, I can still vividly recall all the sweet moments of that time.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and in the past few years, I have spent most of my energy on work, and my family has been left out in the cold. I know that Meizi has been suffering in silence, but I haven't been able to correct my problem in time.
"Meizi, what are you doing!" I asked aloud.
I took a deep breath and tried to keep my senses: "Meizi, who is he?
"Let go of me!" I shook off Meizi's hand, "I don't want to hear anything right now! With that, I rushed out of the bedroom without looking back.
I paced back and forth in the living room, trying to calm down. Even though I was aware of it and saw Umeko with other men, I still couldn't accept the fact. We've been married for 7 years, how could she betray me like this?
"I said I don't want to hear anything now!" I interrupted her irritably, "Go ahead, leave me alone!"
"Zhang Li, I'm sorry, it's me who is not good, you calm down, let's talk about it. Plum pleaded.
I took a deep breath: "Meizi, I don't want to say anything now, you get out of the way!"
"Well, brother, don't get excited, let's talk about it. The man followed, in a flirtatious tone.
I glared at him, "You'd better get out of here too!"
The man was startled and walked away in amusement. It was just me and Meizi left in the room.
"Zhang Li, I'm sorry, it's all my fault, you can beat me and scold me, don't talk indifferently like this
Watching Meizi cry and beg for my forgiveness, my heart couldn't calm down for a long time. We used to love each other so much, how can I accept the fact that she cheated?
"Meizi, I don't want to say anything now, you let me be alone for a while. I took a deep breath and turned to leave.
"Zhang Li, you listen to my explanation, I really know my mistake, can I give me a chance to make amends?" Meizi grabbed me, tears welling up in her eyes.
I shook off her hand: "What else do you have to explain? I saw it with my own eyes! We have been married for so many years, how can you betray me like this!"
"I'm sorry, it's me who is not good, you calm down, can we sit down and talk slowly?"
"What can I do? What else is there to talk about about this?" My voice began to tremble, "I have given you so much love, and you have broken my heart like this. I was so mistaken about you!"
"Zhang Li, give me a chance to make it up to you, I swear I will be better to you in the future and will regain your trust. If I don't even see what I'm doing today, okay?" Meizi pleaded.
I was silent, can I really pretend that I didn't see it? This scar is not something that can be forgotten.
"Zhang Li, we have been married for so many years, and you know in your heart who I am. Just when I made a mistake today, you forgive me this time, and we start all over again, okay?" Meizi couldn't cry.
I was so distraught that I didn't know what to do next. Maybe I should really calm down and have a good talk with Meizi.
"Okay, let's calm down and talk about it later. I finally nodded.
Meizi looked at me gratefully and apologized again. I turned around and went back to my bedroom, sleepless all night.
"Zhang Li, did you sleep well last night?" She asked cautiously.
I didn't say anything and silently began to eat breakfast.
"I'm sorry, it's all my fault. Meizi apologized again.
"Let's have breakfast first, we'll talk later. I said.
We finished our breakfast in silence. After eating, Meizi took the initiative to speak: "Zhang Li, what are you going to do?
I was still hesitating, when the doorbell rang suddenly. I went to open the door, and it turned out to be the man Xiao Wang from yesterday!
"What are you doing here?" I asked warily.
"Brother, let's have a good talk. Xiao Wang said confidently.
I was about to question, but Meizi had already stepped forward and grabbed me: "Zhang Li, let him in, let's have a good talk." ”
I reluctantly got out of the way and let Xiao Wang into the house. The three of us sat in the living room, falling into awkward silence.
"Well, brother, I apologize first. Xiao Wang spoke
"Apologize? Do you think it's okay to say sorry?" I sneered, "I saw you with my own eyes with my wife, do you know that you broke my heart!"
"Will a simple acquaintance come to my house?!" I glared at him.
"It's all my fault!" Meizi interjected, "I shouldn't have been dealing with Xiao Wang behind your back, I did it wrong, and it has nothing to do with him." ”
I looked at Meizi, her eyes full of remorse. My heart softened, and my tone softened: "Meizi, I believe you didn't mean to hurt me, but I can't accept you meeting me behind my back like this." ”
Meizi nodded, and tears flowed down again: "Zhang Li, I really know it's wrong, I promise you that I will never contact Xiao Wang again, can I give me a chance to start over?"
I sighed, "But how can I trust you again? ”
"Zhang Li, we have been married for so many years, and you know my personality better than anyone else. Meizi held my hand, "Just give me this chance, I will prove myself with my actions and regain your trust." ”
I looked at Meizi's weeping face, and my heart was in turmoil. We used to love each other so much, should I give her a chance?
You see, we didn't actually do anything, so let's just assume it didn't happen. Xiao Wang also persuaded on the side.
"You don't interject!" I gave him a blank look and turned to Meizi, "I need time to think about it, give me a few days to calm down." ”
Meizi nodded hurriedly and looked at me gratefully.
"Then I'll go first, you can talk. Xiao Wang seemed to breathe a sigh of relief, and hurriedly stood up to say goodbye.
I watched Xiao Wang leave, with mixed feelings. Meizi was still crying quietly on the side, and my heart softened.
"Meizi, I don't mean not to give you a chance. I sighed, "It's just that I need time to come to terms with all this." Would you like to give me a few days to think about our relationship?"
Meizi wiped her tears and nodded: "Okay, you think about it slowly, I will always wait for your decision." I will reflect on it in the next few days, and I will also let you see my determination to make amends. ”
I nodded, got up and went back to my bedroom. Closing the door, I lay in bed, my mind in a mess. We used to be so affectionate, I really could
Can I really choose to forgive Meizi and start over? I've been thinking about this question over and over again for the past few days.
Umeko has always tried to show me favor, prepare my favorite dishes, and take care of my daily life. I knew she was expressing remorse with her actions, but my heart still couldn't calm down for a long time.
"Zhang Li, how are you feeling these days?" One day after dinner, Umeko asked me cautiously.
I put down the dishes and chopsticks and muttered for a while: "Meizi, I won't deny it, my heart still hurts." It takes time to fix. ”
Tears appeared in Meizi's eyes again: "Zhang Li, I really regret it." I will wait for you for as long as you need. ”
"Give it to me next week, and I'll give you an answer next week. I said.
Meizi nodded busily and apologized to me again. I sighed heavily and went back to my bedroom.
These days, I'm trying to find peace for myself. Maybe I really should give Meizi another chance, after all, feelings are not isolated. Maybe I need to reflect on whether I have any shortcomings in my marriage.
This may be a lesson for Meizi, and she will cherish me even more. And I can also observe her changes from it. If she can really correct her mistakes and prove herself, maybe my heart knot can be untied gradually.
"Meizi, let's talk. "One night, I took the initiative to talk to Meizi.
"Zhang Li, have you figured it out?" Umeko looked at me cautiously.
I nodded: "I can accept your request when nothing happened." But I need time to really forgive you, and it can be a long process. ”
Meizi's eyes were immediately filled with gratitude: "Thank you for your tension! I will definitely try my best to let you see my change, no matter how long it takes, I will wait for you." ”
"Then let's act as if nothing happened. I tried my best to squeeze out a smile.
From that day on, we pretended that everything was business as usual. I hid my pain, and Umeko was careful with me. The days went by, and I was trying to repair my heart.
There is still a long way to go in life, and maybe time can really smooth everything out. I believe that as long as we understand and trust each other, we will be able to rebuild happiness.
As the days passed, Umeko and I struggled to get used to this state of undercurrent surging under the surface calm.
One night, we suddenly got into an argument.
"Zhang Li, do you still love me?" Meizi asked me with red eyes.
I was speechless for a while, and said with difficulty: "Meizi, I have chosen to continue this family, but you also know that my heart still needs time. ”
I sighed: "Meizi, the trust of the object is lost once, and it is very difficult to re-establish it. I'm trying, but it's going to take a process. ”
"How long is it going to be?" you don't really plan to forgive me at all?" Umeko cried.
"Give me more time, okay?" I reluctantly said, "It's hard for me." But for the sake of this family, I'm trying to accept it. ”
Meizi couldn't cry: "Then do you regret choosing to continue this marriage?"
I stepped forward and hugged Meizi: "Meizi, I have no regrets. It's just that the process was tough for both of us. I believe that time heals everything, and you have to have faith in us. ”
Plum nodded in my arms. I gently patted her on the back and tried to comfort her.
Since that day, I've been reflecting on what I've been doing lately. Maybe I hid my pain too much and didn't let Umeko feel my inner struggle.
So I started trying to express myself more and share my thoughts with Meizi. I would tell her how I was feeling lately, and what I was struggling with. I will also be more proactive in communicating with her rather than simply responding.
Gradually, the communication between us was reactivated. I'm also starting to have the idea of forgiving Umeko, but I still need the courage to take the last step.
Finally, one day, after our hearty dinner, I plucked up the courage to say to Meizi, "Meizi, I think I can already forgive you completely." Let's start over. ”
Meizi looked at me in surprise, her eyes filled with tears: "Really? Tension, I swear that I will win your trust and love again!"
"Well, I believe you. I nodded, "During this time, your performance has allowed me to see a change in you. Let's start over. ”
Meizi hugged me excitedly. I gently patted her on the back, and a long-lost warmth rose in my heart.
After going through the storms of this marriage, I finally regained my peace. I believe that as long as we take care of each other
After going through the storms of this marriage, I finally regained my peace. I believe that as long as we understand and trust each other, we will be able to rebuild a happy marriage.
"Zhang Li, I want to re-date you, just like we did when we first fell in love. "One day after dinner, Umeko said to me.
I smiled, "Okay, I want to relive the original romance too." ”
So one weekend, I took Umeko to our favorite beach. We walked on the beach and the waves gently lapped on the sand.
"Of course I do. Meizi's eyes sparkled, "We walked on the beach until dawn, and you sang me a love song." ”
"We also carved 'Tension and Plum Forever Together' on the beach. I said with emotion.
"How sweet and happy we were then. Meizi leaned on my shoulder, "In the future, our lives will be better than before." ”
I nodded and kissed Umeko's forehead. We continued to stroll, reminiscing about the beginning.
When I got home, I made a sumptuous dinner for Umeko. We ate and chatted in a warm and beautiful atmosphere.
"Tension, I think we should date like this often. "I'm going to try to manage our relationship, as I did at the beginning." ”
"You're right. I smiled, "I will also care more about you and take you out on dates often." ”
Since then, I have taken the initiative to ask Umeko out. We'll go to the movies, visit the parks, and try out new restaurants. Gradually, the relationship between us warmed up again, and I also felt the sweetness that I had not felt for a long time.
One night, when we came home from watching a movie, I said to Meizi, "Honey, I want to give you a gift." ”
As I spoke, I took out the prepared gift box. Meizi opened it in surprise and inside was a necklace I gave her on our first date.
"This is a gift I gave you when we were together, and it represents our love. I said gently, "Now, I want to dedicate it to you again, to symbolize the rebirth of our feelings." ”
Meizi shed tears excitedly: "Tension, I will cherish it forever." Thank you for giving me a fresh start. ”