Deng Jie chose Dink for love, but she didn't expect to encounter a pregnancy at the age of 60

Author|Small Fish

Editor-in-charge| Towards the evening

The hit drama "My Assistant is Not Simple" is being released, in which Wu Jingfang played by Deng Jie has attracted people's attention.

60-year-old Wu Jingfang decided to divorce despite her ex-husband's retention.

came to Jiangsu alone, met designer Jiang Tian, and wanted to be Jiang Tian's assistant.

Despite the difficulties, even if he was frustrated, he still persevered, and finally moved Jiang Tian and returned to the workplace. 

Wu Jingfang's fearless spirit of bravely chasing life is admirable.

And this is also a true portrayal of her own real life.

01

Her father died, and Deng Jie was fostered at her aunt's house  

In 1957, Deng Jie was born in Yuzhong District, Chongqing.

Father Deng Quru and mother Zou Kaiqiong are both old-timers in the Sichuan opera industry.

My father had his own unique love for Sichuan Opera, and with his efforts and extraordinary wisdom, he established Sichuan Opera.

At that time, there was a Cultural Revolution, and my father was implicated, persecuted by others, and unfortunately passed away.

In order to survive, her mother had to put all her energy into her career, and with the many affairs on the set, her mother couldn't take care of Deng Jie.

So her mother fostered Deng Jie at her aunt's house.

When Deng Jie was 11 years old, her mother's place of work was far away from home. Deng Jie lives with 6 people, including her grandmother and grandmother, and is the eldest daughter in the family.

So from that time on, Deng Jie learned to be independent and took care of almost all the housework.     

Deng Jie studied Xi very hard and was admitted to Chongqing No. 6 Middle School. After graduation, he was assigned to the Sichuan Opera Xi Sichuan Opera in Sichuan Province to learn the role of Hua Dan.              

02

Deng Jie was refused to play Wang Xifeng because of her low height   

Deng Jie started watching the Yue opera "Dream of Red Mansions" at the age of 13, and at that time she watched it purely and didn't think about herself at all, she liked to watch the emotional entanglement between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, and her impression of Wang Xifeng was pungent. 

In 1984, CCTV was preparing to film "Dream of Red Mansions", and Deng Jie was selected for the role. At first, director Wang Fulin thought she could play Wang Xifeng.

Deng Jie is also very confident in herself, but in fact, Deng Jie's experience of being finally selected to play Wang Xifeng was full of twists and turns.

When Deng Jie arrived in Beijing from Sichuan, when Director Ren Dahui of the crew came to pick up Deng Jie, the first look in Deng Jie's eyes immediately lost its brilliance, it turned out that Deng Jie was 158 cm tall and looked extremely ordinary, if Deng Jie was put in the crowd, she would not be seen at all.          

Deng Jie is self-aware, and she was born with a bad complexion, yellow and blue.

The director gave Deng Jie 5 particularly heavy scenes, there were no scenes and characters, and she had to play them by herself.

Deng Jie exerted all her strength and let go of the acting, but presented a very good lens effect.              

Deng Jie's mother once said that Deng Jie's oily and shiny skin is very photogenic, and her facial features are three-dimensional, and she is also very photogenic.          

However, the crew still thinks that Deng Jie is not Wang Xifeng's most ideal actor, and they are very optimistic about Le Yun and Zhou Yue.

However, a dramatic scene happened, at that time, Le Yun was too busy to go abroad.

Zhou Yue's role was later changed to Third Sister You. At this point in her career, the crew still didn't choose Deng Jie. Later, the crew brought another actor Yu Lan to audition for Wang Xifeng.    

Deng Jie never waited for the news that she played Wang Xifeng, and she felt like thousands of ants were biting and suffering.

The director once asked Deng Jie tentatively, what if she can't play Wang Xifeng in the end?

Deng Jie was silent, thinking that it really wouldn't work. However, just at dinner, Deng Jie learned the good news that she had not seen for a long time, and she came to play Wang Xifeng.

But in the three years that he really played Wang Xifeng, he was still not favored. Deng Jie lived under pressure all day long, out of breath.

In turn, stress is sometimes a motivator.

Because she is not from Beijing and doesn't know anyone, Deng Jie has nowhere to go except to stay in the crew, Deng Jie puts her mind on the reflection of the role.

The hard work paid off, and Deng Jie's conscientious dedication was finally recognized and won the Feitian Award and the Golden Eagle Award.          

When Deng Jie came to see her performance, she was surprised how she played Wang Xifeng so well. Before this, all the people in Sichuan who knew Deng Jie, no one thought that Deng Jie could play Wang Xifeng.

Deng Jie said in an interview that if she had to do it all over again, Deng Jie would still choose to play Wang Xifeng.

03

When I met Zhang Guoli for the first time, I was moved  

In an interview, Deng Jie mentioned that she used to be a love brain, desperate for love, like a moth to a fire, everything else can be ignored.

At that time, houses, cars, and tickets were not considered at all, as long as people looked at them correctly.  

In 1984, Deng Jie took over the filming of the TV series "The Password Was Not Leaked", and inadvertently noticed a young man.

He's simply a workaholic, and he's smart. The director doesn't care what he acts, what's even more interesting is that he can still shout to stop, which makes the director smile on the sidelines.

Deng Jie wondered in her heart, who is this, how can she still do this?

And the young man also noticed Deng Jie and was attracted by her extraordinary temperament.

After the filming of the TV series, the two did not leave contact information, maybe they were just curious about each other at that time.

At that time, Deng Jie was in her first marriage, and her first husband, Mr. Zhang, opened a small private business, and due to poor management, her life once fell to the bottom.    

In order not to drag Deng Jie down, he filed for divorce twice and three times, although the affectionate Deng Jie disagreed, but Mr. Zhang finally divorced Deng Jie ruthlessly.

The marriage of the two lasted only 4 years, and they were separated.          

04

The second time I met Zhang Guoli, both of them went crazy  

When Zhang Guoli met Deng Jie again because of the filming of the TV series "Dead Water Breeze", he was unwilling to watch Deng Jie from a distance.

So he took the initiative to find an opportunity to come forward to ask for warmth, and Deng Jie also fell in love with Zhang Guoli out of control.    

Zhang Guoli is only 2 years older than Deng Jie, it is said that he is talented and beautiful, and he has affection for each other, so it is logical that they can come together.

But at this time, Zhang Guoli had his own family, his wife was called Luo Chunxiu, and his son was called Zhang Mo.          

Zhang Guoli and Luo Chunxiu are busy with each other, rarely communicating with each other in their daily lives, and as the days go by, their feelings have faded.

Thinking about his feelings and family, Zhang Guoli finally wanted to follow his inner feelings and be with Deng Jie.

So he filed for divorce from Luo Chunxiu.

When the divorce, Zhang Guoli gave all his property to his ex-wife and son Zhang Mo out of guilt.

In order to let her son have a happy home, his ex-wife forced Zhang Guoli to agree to a request, Zhang Guoli could not have children after remarriage.          

Zhang Guoli may have wanted to divorce too much at that time, so he didn't think about the consequences of this sentence at all, so he agreed.

However, this has also become a regret for Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, whether the two of them can withstand this test? Perhaps no one is optimistic about their marriage.

Later, the two simply got their certificates and went to Beijing together. I have rented a basement and lived in a station, and the days of living without a fixed place are difficult but sweet.

Deng Jie contacted a director for Zhang Guoli in order to let him have filming.          

Born as a man, Zhang Guoli still wanted to break out of the world on his own, and politely rejected Deng Jie's kindness.

Since then, Zhang Guoli has been even more attentive.

finally came to an end, after 1994, they filmed "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo" and "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview", the couple became popular on the screen, and their affection and love made people think that they were the "original couple".

Once, on the filming set, because Deng Jie's lines were not remembered correctly, Zhang Guoli reprimanded Deng Jie in front of everyone.

Deng Jie became popular all of a sudden, threw down the script and returned home.        

When Zhang Guoli saw it, his beloved wife was angry.

When I returned home, I saw that Deng Jie didn't speak, waited quietly beside her, and took the initiative to beg Deng Jie for mercy at the right time, Deng Jie was also a cheerful person, so she turned the page on this matter.    

Sure enough, the two people have the same heart, and the quarrel is so warm.

Later, once Deng Jie became pregnant unexpectedly. Zhang Guoli persuaded Deng Jie, it really can't be done, let's raise a dog.

Deng Jie also knew that she had to take care of the overall situation, so she could only silently beat the child. This has also become the regret of her life, not being able to have her own children.

Deng Jie is still a very caring stepmother, and she treats her stepson Zhang Mo as her own.

From the beginning, Zhang Mo was full of hostility towards Deng Jie, and then later, Zhang Mo was gradually moved by Deng Jie's unrequited dedication, and slowly accepted Deng Jie from the bottom of his heart.

05

After marriage, he became a virtuous helper, but at the age of 60, he became a loud figure in front of the screen  

After marriage, Zhang Guoli is still the same as Deng Jie saw at first sight, a veritable workaholic. As long as he is on the set, he is in good spirits and radiates youthful vitality.    

His wife Deng Jie often complained about this, but soon Deng Jie found that it was useless to complain, and she was in a depressed mood for a long time.

However, Deng Jie is still very good at self-regulation, and later accepted this fact, thinking that it is better to forget it and do something by herself to have fun.

In 2005, Deng Jie and his wife adopted a 1-year-old girl.

This can be regarded as a fulfillment of Deng Jie's complex as a mother. At this time, Deng Jie found that taking care of children was also quite fun.

So she began to enjoy life, paid attention to her daughter's growth and physical health, and often communicated with her.

As time passed, my daughter also reached the age of going to college.

Deng Jie turned her attention to the flowers and plants in the yard, wearing a hat, working in the sun for two or three hours, even if she sweated all over, she was never tired of it.

Deng Jie is actually a person who is happy with what happens, but when she encounters an opportunity, she will still fight for it.

One day 11 years after the retire, Deng Jie received an invitation to shoot a TV series.

She said that she was unwilling to film the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship of her mother-in-law. Unexpectedly, the director said a word to him, and she agreed very happily.

Zhang Guoli also persuaded her that at such an old age, she should not go to filming, the set is different from before, and she is afraid that her body will not be able to bear it.

But Deng Jie has her own insistence, because this TV series is simply tailor-made for her, confident and sunny, always full of hope for life, whether it is career or love, she dares to fight for it.

This TV series is "My Assistant is Not Simple".

Write at the end  

Dare to love and hate, people are in this life, and happiness is in their own hands.          

Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli have been together for 39 years, happily married, stumbling along the way, but also warm and romantic.

Although Deng Jie suffered hardships when she was a child, she turned the bitterness into sweetness on the road of life, constantly diluting the troubles and sorrows in her life.

Although the two did not have children, the relationship between them was not affected at all, and they have to admit that their love is envious of others.

There is always hope in life, just like a lighthouse in the distance guiding the way forward. The road is always bumpy, and it takes a lifetime to grow.

No one is optimistic about what Wu Jingfang has done, people always have to give themselves a little confidence, don't please anyone, and prove it to themselves.

When encountering difficulties, do not admit defeat, do not evade, change the method to find a solution, even if you are wronged, you can still strengthen your beliefs.

Life is not smooth sailing, there will always be various emergencies, just get through it, I really can't stand it, drink and sing and play games, spread anger, and still laugh at everything in front of me.

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