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I am 38 years old, have been divorced once, and have a 5-year-old daughter, Xiaofang. I am not outstanding in appearance and have an ordinary figure, but I have a gentle personality, work hard, and am a gentle and virtuous woman.
My ex-husband and I have been together for 5 years, and we were sweet and happy at first, until Xiaofang was born, and the pressure of life and the sense of responsibility gradually estranged our relationship. We often quarreled over trivial matters, and eventually the relationship broke down and I filed for divorce. This was a huge blow to both me and Xiaofang, but for the sake of my daughter, I still chose to live as a single parent.
Now Xiaofang is 5 years old, and I take her alone, hard but happy. My mom urged me to remarry and let me go on a blind date, but I don't have a good impression of men now. My mother said, "You're still young, you can't be single for the rest of your life." Your daughter also needs a complete home. ”
I said, "Mom, I'm fine now, it's enough to have Xiaofang." I don't want to go through the pain of marriage again. ”
Mom said, "People always have to look forward, give yourself a chance, maybe you will meet the right person." It doesn't matter if you just meet each other, how can you find happiness without an open mind?"
I thought about it, and Mom had a point. I said, "Okay, you can introduce me to one, and it doesn't hurt for me to meet you." ”
I heard my mother talk about Uncle Wang's situation and hesitated: "Mom, this age difference is too big." ”
Mom said, "What's the matter, you don't have to get married." It doesn't hurt for you to meet and find out about other people's situations. ”
We found a place to sit down, and Uncle Wang took the initiative to pull out a chair for me, and then asked, "What do you want to drink?"
I said, "Just drop it, thank you." ”
Uncle Wang came back with a drink, smiled and said, "Sorry to keep you waiting." I was hesitating to buy a drink at the counter, I didn't know much about it. ”
I said, "It's okay, thank you for having a drink." ”
Uncle Wang nodded, and then we chatted. He first asked me about my work and family, and I simply followed
Uncle Wang listened to me talk about my situation, nodded in understanding, and then began to talk about himself. He said that he and his ex-wife were college classmates, and they divorced after 7 years of marriage, and they often quarreled because of their incompatible personalities. He is now living with his son, who is about to graduate from college, so he is also starting to think about finding a new partner and does not want to live alone.
I listened to him and understood the hardships of a person's life. I said, "It's really not easy to start over after a relationship is over. Now I am also reluctantly out of the blind date because my mother has been urging me. ”
Uncle Wang nodded and said, "I understand your concerns, if you are not ready, we can start with friends first, and it is okay to understand slowly." ”
I was a little surprised that Uncle Wang was reasonable, he didn't force it, which made me look up to him.
"So be it, we can be friends first. I said.
Uncle Wang smiled and said, "Okay, then let's talk about hobbies and hobbies and see what common topics we have." ”
So we talked about various things in our daily life, and Uncle Wang told me about the small shop he ran and his favorite hobby of fishing. I also talked to him about my work and taking care of my daughter. The atmosphere gradually became lively.
Unknowingly, after chatting for more than two hours, it was getting late, and Uncle Wang offered to send me home. He has good driving skills, pays attention to safety along the way, and will also care about asking me if it is cold and whether I need to stop for a while.
Delivering me to the door, Uncle Wang said, "It's a pleasure to meet you today, we can continue to keep in touch, and come out to talk when we have time in the future." ”
I smiled and said, "Okay, then you have to be careful when you drive back." ”
Uncle Wang nodded and watched me go upstairs and go home.
When I got home, I was still immersed in the pleasant atmosphere of the day. Uncle Wang gave me the feeling that he was a mature and stable person, and it was in vain that I mustered up the courage to come out to meet him.
In the days that followed, Uncle Wang would send messages from time to time to ask about me and my daughter, and sometimes he would send us some fruits or snacks. I'll also tell him a little bit about me and my daughter. Our relationship is getting closer and closer in such interactions.
One day, Xiaofang suddenly had a fever of 39 degrees and kept coughing, and I was in a hurry and quickly took her to the hospital. But I have to work again, and it's a real dilemma. At this time, Uncle Wang took the initiative to call and said that he would come over to help me take care of Xiaofang, and then accompany us to the hospital. I was very touched when I heard it.
Uncle Wang came to my house, looked at me in a hurry, and said
Uncle Wang came to my house, saw that I was anxious, and said, "Don't worry, with me, let's take Xiaofang to the hospital together." You take a leave of absence first, so you don't have to go to work. ”
I nodded, a warm current rose in my heart, and the arrival of Uncle Wang made me feel a lot more at ease.
We took Xiaofang to the hospital, and after the doctor's examination, she said that she had a fever caused by a cold and needed to be hospitalized for infusion observation. I sat in front of Xiaofang's hospital bed, looking at her distressedly, and Uncle Wang whispered to me: "Don't worry, she will get better, and the doctor will take care of her." ”
During the days when Xiaofang was hospitalized, Uncle Wang would come to visit, bring fruits and snacks to visit Xiaofang, and tease her to play with her, so that she would not feel so uncomfortable in the ward. Sometimes when I need to deal with other things, Uncle Wang will stay in the hospital to take care of Xiaofang.
Finally, Xiaofang's illness was cured, and we were discharged from the hospital and went home. I said to Uncle Wang, "Thank you so much for taking care of me these days, I really don't know what to do without you." ”
Uncle Wang waved his hand and said, "This is what I should do." You and Xiaofang are like my family. ”
When I heard these words, my heart warmed, and I was deeply moved by Uncle Wang's kindness and sense of responsibility.
Since then, I have opened my heart to Uncle Wang, and our relationship has grown closer. Uncle Wang would often come to my house as a guest, accompany me and my daughter to eat and visit the park. Sometimes I am busy with work, and Uncle Wang will come to help me pick up Xiaofang to school.
I'll also go to Uncle Wang's shop to help, and then we'll have lunch together. Once at noon, Uncle Wang said to me, "I have been really happy these days. You and Xiaofang are like my family, I want to take care of you and protect you. ”
I also smiled and said, "You made our mother and daughter feel the warmth of home again." I don't see the possibility of living without you now. ”
"Would you like to stay with me, then?" Uncle Wang plucked up the courage to ask me.
I nodded and said, "I do, I feel very relieved and happy to be with you." ”
Uncle Wang happily shook my hand, and we looked at each other and smiled. At this moment, I knew that we would start a new life together.
Just as I was about to start a new life with Uncle Wang, one day, I suddenly received a message from my ex-husband, saying that he had always regretted his decision to divorce and wanted to save me and Xiaofang. I read the message,
After reading my ex-husband's message, I couldn't calm down for a long time. My ex-husband said that he has never been able to forget our bits and pieces, regretted the decision to divorce in the first place, and hoped that I could give him a chance to start over.
My heart has been entangled for a long time, and my ex-husband's words have brought back some memories of my past. After all, we also fell in love with each other, got married and had children, and this relationship took up half of my life. I sent a message to Uncle Wang saying that there was something going on lately and I needed time to think about it.
I weighed it again and again, and finally mustered up the courage to meet my ex-husband. On the day of the meeting, my ex-husband said to me with a smile on his face: "Honey, I'm so happy to see you." I've always regretted all these years that I shouldn't have divorced you in the first place. ”
My ex-husband shook my hand and said, "I know we're all wrong, but we can start all over again." I've changed a lot over the years, and I don't fight anymore. Give me a chance to start over. ”
I gently withdrew my hand and said, "I understand what you said, but I already have a very important person in my life now, and he makes me feel the warmth of home, and I can't live up to him." ”
The ex-husband's face changed and he said, "Are you already in love with someone else? What can he give you, I can't give it?"
I shook my head and said, "It's not a question of giving or not giving." It was he who was always there for me, and I can't imagine life without him. This meeting made me more sure of my choice. ”
The ex-husband was silent, and after a long time, he sighed and said, "It seems that you are really in love with him." Then I can't help but wish you happiness. ”
I looked at my ex-husband and whispered, "I'm sorry, I also wish you to find true love soon." ”
After saying goodbye to my ex-husband, I called Uncle Wang and said I wanted to see him. We made an appointment at a familiar café.
After meeting, I told Uncle Wang everything about my ex-husband's contact with me. Uncle Wang listened quietly, then held my hand and said, "I understand your entanglement, and I can also understand your ex-husband's feelings." But I'm even more convinced that you are the person I want to protect the most in my life. ”
I also clenched Uncle Wang's hand, tears in my eyes: "You gave me the courage to reject my ex-husband and choose to give myself a chance." I would like to be with you and start a new life. ”
Uncle Wang looked at me, his eyes were full of joy, and he said, "I promise to love you and take care of you and Xiaofang with my whole life." We will be the happiest family. ”
I nodded, and also looked at Uncle Wang affectionately. At this moment, I am extremely sure that choosing Uncle Wang is the most correct decision I have ever made in my life.
A month later, Uncle Wang and I registered our marriage. On the day of the wedding, Uncle Wang was as happy as a child. He first solemnly put on my wedding ring, and then picked up the cheering Xiaofang and spun around. I looked at them with happiness in my heart.
After getting married, Uncle Wang cleaned up his house warm and comfortable, and then I moved in with him. Every morning, I would make Uncle Wang's favorite egg scones, and then we would have breakfast together and then take Xiaofang to kindergarten.
In the evening, after the family of three had dinner, Uncle Wang would accompany Xiaofang to do her homework, teach her to read and write, and read storybooks. Sometimes when Xiaofang asked Uncle Wang to tell her a bedtime story, Uncle Wang would tease her: "Okay, then Dad will tell you the story of the Golden Lock." Hearing Xiaofang affectionately call him "Daddy", Uncle Wang's face was full of happiness.
On weekends, we would go out for picnics together, and Uncle Wang would drive us to parks, playgrounds, and zoos. Xiao Fang likes to sit on Uncle Wang's shoulder and happily look at the surrounding scenery. I looked at them and thanked God for giving me such a warm home.
As the days passed, we were like the most ordinary family of three, living a plain but warm life. Uncle Wang will take care of everything about me and Xiaofang, he is like Xiaofang's biological father.
One night, Uncle Wang suddenly said to me, "My dear, this time with you is my happiest time. It is the luckiest thing in my life to meet you and Xiaofang. ”
I touched Uncle Wang's hand and said movingly: "It was you who made our mother and daughter regain the warmth of home and made me believe in love again." It's all you weave with love. ”
Uncle Wang hugged me into his arms and said, "No matter what happens in the future, I will always love you and protect your mother and daughter." ”
I nodded with teary eyes, and we embraced. I know that with Uncle Wang, I already have the most important thing in my life.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Xiaofang went to elementary school, and Uncle Wang's son also graduated successfully and found a job. We celebrate holidays together and travel together. This warmth day after day has become the best situation in my life.
Maybe Uncle Wang is not rich enough, young and handsome enough, but he won the love of my daughter and me with a sincere heart. When my mother persuaded me to go on a blind date again, I was reluctant in every way. But now I want to thank my mom for giving me the opportunity to change my life.
I have also questioned what a 50-year-old middle-aged man can bring me. But Uncle Wang proved that age and appearance are not a problem, he has a kind and brave heart, which is the most important foundation for a lasting relationship.
I remember when I first confirmed that I was with Uncle Wang, some friends advised me to think twice, thinking that the age difference between us was too big, and there would be a generation gap in the future. I was also a little shaken when I heard this, and I discussed it with Uncle Wang.
Uncle Wang looked at me seriously and said, "I understand your concerns, but there is no age difference in love, what matters is whether two people love each other." I will try my best to keep up with the rhythm of your and Xiaofang's lives and become the most important support in your lives. ”
I squeezed Uncle Wang's hand and was moved by his sincerity: "As long as you keep supporting me like this, age doesn't matter to us." ”
Just recently, my mother video chatted and asked me about Uncle Wang's situation. I smiled and said to her, "You are the one who brought me out of my pain again and met the true love of my life." Uncle Wang and I live happily every day. ”
Mom said happily: "You were so resistant to remarriage at the beginning, but now it seems that my vision is still good." Uncle Wang is a very nice person. If you continue to cherish it, I will be relieved. ”
I nodded, full of gratitude, "Thank you, Mom." I will always be grateful for your wise decision. ”
Choosing to be with Uncle Wang is the most correct and satisfying decision I have ever made in my life.
Our story may be ordinary, but it is full of sincerity and courage. When despair and pain came, I chose to face and be born again. When love came knocking on the door, I chose to accept and give.
Maybe there's still a long way to go, maybe life still has its ups and downs.