No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, don't say these 3 words before going to bed
My wife Xiaofang and I were college sweethearts, and at that time we were both the kind of couple who stuck together every day and couldn't be separated. After graduating, we decided to get married and entered a new phase of our lives. The two of us are struggling in the city, and we have always maintained a warm family, stable work, and a better and better life.
Until one day, one of Xiaofang's colleagues introduced a newly opened café and said that the coffee there tasted particularly good. So, we decided to go and try it together. The café is very emotionally decorated with soft lighting and soft music. Sitting by the window, through the transparent floor-to-ceiling windows, you can see the night view of the city with neon lights.
My conversation with Xiaofang was still full of lightness and laughter. We reminisce about our college days and tell funny things, as if we go back in time and we go back to our youth. At that moment, I suddenly had the idea that maybe I could propose again in this romantic place to add a sense of ritual to our marriage.
The atmosphere of the café made me feel more and more excited, and I couldn't help but confide in Xiaofang about this idea. Her eyes widened, and then a sweet smile appeared on her face. We decided that when the coffee came, I would take the opportunity to express my thoughts.
As the coffee was served, I couldn't help but sigh: "This place is so emotional, isn't it more romantic than the place where we first met?" Xiao Fang looked at me, the corners of her mouth rose slightly: "Yes, time flies so fast, it seems that we just met yesterday." ”
At this time, I couldn't help but pick up the coffee cup and said, "Then let's drink this cup together and witness our happiness." The aroma of coffee filled the entire table, and I was about to take the opportunity to confess, when Xiaofang suddenly put down the coffee cup and looked a little serious.
"Actually, there's something I've always wanted to tell you. Xiaofang's words made my heart tighten, and she continued: "Recently, I met a new colleague in the company, who is very nice, and we have a good chat. ”
My mood instantly cooled down, and I couldn't believe my ears. Xiao Fang looked at me and sighed softly: "He gave me a special feeling, made me feel as if I had returned to my college days, and we had a very happy chat." ”
At this moment, I felt as if I heard the sound of heartbreak. Xiao Fang's words made me a little unacceptable, I tried to control my emotions, and reluctantly smiled: "Yes? That's good, it's always a good thing to have new friends." "By implication, I know this is an irreparable storm.
The romance of the café was instantly shattered by reality, and the conversation between me and Xiaofang became heavy. The lights in the café seemed to be dim, and I looked at Xiao Fang and suddenly felt that the distance between us was getting farther and farther away.
On the way home, I was silent. Xiao Fang didn't say a word. This nightmarish night, I lay in bed, my heart twisted. Perhaps, our marriage was not as good as I thought it would be, and my definition of happiness changed at this moment.
In the days that followed, the relationship between me and Xiaofang became more and more strained, and the originally warm family became full of embarrassment and silence. I tried to make amends, but no matter how hard I tried, it seemed that there was no way back to the way things were.
Until one day, Xiaofang sat on the edge of the bed, her eyes became complicated and contradictory: "Actually, I don't know why this is happening." Maybe it's the pressure of work, or maybe it's the boredom of life, I can't tell. But I know that my feelings for you are not diminishing, it just takes some time to calm down. ”
I listened silently, my heart full of helplessness. That night at the café was a turning point in our married life. We tried to solve the problem through communication, but the deep rift was already there and it was difficult to repair.
Perhaps, marriage is not a trip only for romance and happiness, it also has practical ups and downs and tests. And I finally understood that no matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, don't say the profound meaning of those three sentences before going to bed. On the long road of love, cherishing the present and guarding each other's hearts may be the most important thing.
Life is not all smooth sailing, we must learn to face the ups and downs of life and cherish the people in front of us. The café experience became a lesson in my life, teaching me to let go of my obsessions and look down on the twists and turns of life. Perhaps, every relationship needs to go through ups and downs in order to be stronger.