Jaya is a gentle and kind girl who grew up in a traditional family. My mother-in-law was hospitalized and her health has not been good. After discussing with the family, they decided to hire a nurse to take care of her. When the eldest sister learned about it, she was very dissatisfied: "You unfilial child, how can you invite outsiders to take care of your mother, and you can't come by yourself?" Jiaya's face changed, and she could hear the anger and disappointment in the eldest sister's words.
"My mother-in-law is not in good health and needs professional care, and I also have to go to work. Gaya tried to explain. The eldest sister didn't give her any chance to explain: "It's simply impossible for you to do this! There are few daughters who are as unfilial as you!" With that, the eldest sister left angrily, leaving Jiaya with a helpless face.
Facing the blame of the eldest sister, Jiaya felt aggrieved and angry. She knew very well that the decision she made was for the good of her mother-in-law, but the eldest sister did not appreciate it. She turned around and walked to the inpatient ward, and she was distressed to see the pain on her mother-in-law's face. When her mother-in-law saw her walk in, she smiled and said, "Jiaya, I'm so happy that you're here." This sentence moistened Jiaya's heart like a rain, and she knew that she was doing the right thing.
After a few days, the atmosphere in the house eased somewhat, and the eldest sister gradually extinguished the fire. But the emotional rift has not fully healed. Although my mother-in-law's condition has improved, she still needs to be cared for. Jiaya is struggling internally, and she needs to make an important life choice. She hesitated between her family and work. It was a difficult decision for her.
This is an ordinary family, but it has become confusing because of family entanglements. I don't know what choice Gaya will make, but I think she will definitely think about her family.
Jiaya fell into hesitation and confusion. She knew she couldn't do it at the same time, but she didn't want to grieve her family. She felt exhausted from her daily travel between the hospital and her home. On this day, she received a call from her boss that there was an emergency in the company and she needed to rush back to deal with it immediately. She was torn between work and family.
When she returned home, Jiaya saw her mother-in-law's face become a little gloomy, which made her heart even heavier. In the gloomy night, she remembered the bits and pieces she had with her mother-in-law when she was a child, and her mother-in-law always cared for her gently. She knew she had to make a decision for the family.
The next day, she decided to quit her job and devote herself to taking care of her mother-in-law at home. When the mother-in-law learned of this decision, she looked at her with tears in her eyes and said, "Child, you are such a good and filial girl. Gaya felt at ease.
However, the brother-in-law did not understand her decision. He thinks that it is irresponsible for Jiaya to quit her job, and it also puts pressure on her: "You have to know that the burden of the family cannot be borne by us all the time. He said.
These words aroused a trace of unhappiness in Jiaya's heart. It's not that she's irresponsible, it's just that she feels like it's the right thing to do. She began to feel that she was in the midst of all sorts of contradictions. Work and family, responsibilities and personal choices.
Her mother-in-law's condition continued to deteriorate, and Jiaya waited at her bedside day and night. Later, the doctor told her that her mother-in-law's condition was not optimistic. Faced with this news, Jiaya's heart was like a knife. Now, she understands her choice better, and she knows she won't regret it.
Jiaya was conflicted. She knows that her family needs her, especially if she is waiting for a seriously ill person like her mother-in-law, but her job is just as important and perhaps even more stable. In the dead of night, in the corridor of the hospital, she saw the painful look on her mother-in-law's face, and the hesitation in her heart was surging like a tide.
At this moment, the eldest sister found her again. Jiaya looked at the eldest sister, she saw the tears in the corners of her eyes, and her heart was a little moved. The eldest sister's voice trembled: "Jiaya, I know that I spoke too heavily before, but I am really worried about my mother's body, and I also know that it is not easy for you to work outside, but the family needs you." The eldest sister's words made Jiaya's heart warm, and she somewhat understood her family's worries.
In the days that followed, Jiaya began to try to adjust her working hours, returning home regularly to visit her mother-in-law. At this time, one weekend, a new thing happened at home. When Jaya returns home, she finds the caregiver arguing with her eldest sister in the living room. The nurse said with a face full of grievances: "My eldest sister wants me to leave, saying that I don't take good care of me, and I have proposed to change nurses many times before." The eldest sister said indignantly: "With such a high cost of nursing, you don't even know the most basic nursing knowledge, so let's change it." ”
Jiaya hurriedly walked up, she calmly comforted the eldest sister and the nurse, she didn't want the conflict in the family to become more complicated, and she didn't want the family to quarrel because of it. She knows the choice she faces will not be easy, but she tries to balance work and family as much as possible. The dispute also made her realize that her family needed her time and care more.
Faced with this new challenge, Jiaya fell into a new round of contradictions. Next, how she will deal with conflicts at home and resolve the relationship between work and family is still unknown.
Caring for her mother-in-law is a heavy job, and Jiaya tries to explain her difficulties to her family, but the eldest sister is still dissatisfied. She always took every opportunity to blame Gaya. At a family dinner, the eldest sister had another seizure. "Jiaya, you are so unfilial, why can't you even take care of a patient!" her voice was full of dissatisfaction and complaint. The mother-in-law frowned, trying to lighten the mood. "Sister, it's not easy for Jiaya, she has done so much for us. Jiaya's eldest sister couldn't bear to watch the family atmosphere become embarrassed, so she got up to persuade her.
"It's all her fault! She shouldn't have hired a nurse, she shouldn't have taken care of herself. You are filial to you!" The eldest sister said to Jiaya in every possible way, and there was no doubt in her words. Jiaya was irritable and lowered her head aggrievedly.
The quarrel made Jiaya even more exhausted. The atmosphere at home has become tense, and the mother-in-law's bedside has lost its former vitality. For the family, conflicts seemed inevitable. Gaya knew she needed to make an important life choice. Her heart was in agony.
Soon, another thing happened at home that made Jiaya extremely annoying. One day, the nurse asked for leave due to an urgent matter at home, and Jiaya had to find a way to arrange for another nurse, otherwise she would have to take care of her mother-in-law herself. She was anxious to deal with it all, looking a little distraught. The mother-in-law saw her confusion and said gently, "Jiaya, you don't have to be in such a hurry, I understand that you have paid a lot for me." When Jiaya heard this, tears welled up, she knew that her mother-in-law understood her, but the contradiction in her heart was difficult to let go.
At this moment, the eldest sister came again. Seeing Jiaya's tired face, she couldn't help but reproach: "You kid, you haven't made any progress in doing things, so it's better to let me come." Jiaya's emotions had reached the limit, and she finally couldn't help but burst out: "What are you talking about? What qualifications do you have to say about me? You are filial to you!" These words pierced the eldest sister's heart like a sharp blade.
The eldest sister was stimulated by Jiaya's words, and she said angrily, "I...... I'm your sister, I ......" her voice grew lower and lower, her eyes gradually filling with tears. Jiaya suddenly realized that the eldest sister may have been wronged to be so mean-spirited. She took a deep breath and whispered, "I'm sorry, eldest sister, I didn't mean it either. The two looked at each other, and this brief glance made them feel refreshed. At this moment, they both seemed to understand each other's deep pain.
The family strife didn't go away with this conversation, but it seemed like a start. In fact, Jiaya found that dialogue and understanding are the keys to resolving conflicts. She knows that there will inevitably be friction between family members, but as long as she can communicate openly, she will definitely find a solution to the problem.
The arrival of the caregiver did not harmonize the family relationship, but became more tense. The mother-in-law was very satisfied with Jiaya's care, but tried her best to remain silent about her eldest sister. The mother-in-law's partiality made the eldest sister feel very aggrieved. Every time she went to visit her mother-in-law, she would have a big fight with Jiaya over the matter. Gradually, my mother-in-law's condition began to improve, but the conflict at home seemed to intensify.
In this atmosphere, Jiaya's heart began to feel tired and powerless. Faced with family quarrels and strife every day, she felt that she was gradually unable to bear it. At the same time, she began to be a little disappointed in her eldest sister's attitude, feeling that she was not understood in what she was doing.
At this time, there is an additional conflict in the family. The mother-in-law's condition deteriorated again and she needed more care. The mother-in-law very much hopes to have her family around to take care of her, but the eldest sister is too busy to be free because of her busy work. This disappointed her mother-in-law, and Jiaya began to feel anxious and confused. She needed to make an even more important life choice. At this time, the contradiction in her heart became more intense.
In the midst of this complex emotional entanglement, Jiaya began to reflect on the relationship between family and family. She tries to find a solution to the conflict, but at the moment she is still struggling with these choices.