When I was in junior high school, I Xi to be idle at night, and I pressed the romance books bought by girls in the same class into the textbooks and secretly studied them after work (not a good Xi, don't learn from me)
What kind of grid, what fire, what angel's magazine, and what kid is so handsome, dragon xx, you are dead, and other novels.
Looking at it, if you don't remember anything else, just remember the routine of youth pain literature.
Either he loves her, she loves him, he doesn't love her, she loves him......
Either he or he loves her, but no one can really be with her.
And I don't know why, these novels at that time really liked to design some so-called "bad boy" experiences for the protagonists.
For example, smoking, jumping, and beating tires......
9 of the 10 books of pain literature have plots, as if they can't prove that they have the same feelings for each other if they don't suffer like this.
I don't understand, but I respect the freedom of literary creation
But when I really encounter this kind of situation in real life, and find that it is not an isolated case, even if the person concerned is an adult and has a family, but still uses it as a kind of talking point......
There was a kind of sadness in my heart, and more of an anger of hatred that iron could not be made of steel.
For example, I often see a word on the Internet, which is called easy to conceive.
These girls say that they are very easy to get pregnant, and the pregnancy rate is very high, so they will keep going to abortion surgery.
@Come77times (the same below)
In their mouths, more than a dozen of them are basic operations.
There are a total of 12 months in a year, and I have 3 miscarriages when I am pregnant, and more than half of the time is spent on pregnancy, miscarriage, pregnancy and miscarriage, and the body has almost no time to rest.
They blamed the situation on their own constitution, saying that they were fertile and found it painful, but they couldn't help it.
At first, I thought they were acting, but when I clicked on the homepages of these accounts, I found that they were all ordinary women.
Some share their lovely children.
Some post their own special effects beauty videos.
Some are still very young, only in their early 20s.
However, in their minds, contraception seems to be a dispensable thing, because pregnancy is a random event.
Do you think that other normal couples do not get pregnant and do not have abortions because their wives are not easy to conceive?
What I mean, is it possible that men and women with normal physiology will get pregnant without taking measures, and this is an inevitable event, not an accidental event?
What I mean, is it possible, for those of you so-called fertile people, to try to do a reasonable and effective contraception?
There is a lot of rhetoric on the Internet scolding these women who flaunt their fertile physique.
said that they were stupid, spoiled, brainless, and didn't care about themselves.
To be honest, a normal person who sees a dozen abortions in their twenties and thirties can not get angry.
But I think it's more ridiculous.
I have never been so acutely aware of the importance of basic education at such a moment.
So many people use abortion as a means of contraception?
So today's article is not intended to criticize or preach.
It's just thinking, in the cognition of past education, is there really a lot of people who have vague knowledge of scientific contraception?
Therefore, I want to give everyone who reads the article, whether it is a girl or a boy, to do the most basic sex education popularization.
As an adult, when you enjoy something, you have to take on other things that come with it.
Let's talk about the consequences first:
From an economic point of view, I don't know how much it costs to do an abortion, but it must be much more expensive than a set, right?
From a physical point of view, you felt very cool at the time, but which is less cost-effective for the worries and worries that followed, or the physical trauma experienced by women?
You know, when you are confirmed to be pregnant, it is the fertilized egg that has implanted in the uterus, and as the child slowly develops, the child is your child.
To have an abortion is to strip the newly sprouted child from the womb.
Whether it is physical damage or damage to the fate of parents and children, you should be able to settle this account.
Let's talk about the specifics:
There is no so-called fertile physique in this world, because women of appropriate age and physiology are fertile, and the only condition for pregnancy is to see whether you are scientific contraceptive.
Don't believe in those who are not insured, just put them on honestly.
It can not only isolate the risk of some infectious diseases, but also fundamentally protect each other.
Boys, if you're not ready to take on a family responsibility, don't do that kind of cool thing, because a series of follow-up questions are enough for you!
Girls, don't be ashamed to talk about this kind of thing, because pregnancy is really very, very cautious.
If you are not fully prepared, you will catch the ducks on the shelves with a momentary passion.
No matter how deep your emotions are, they will be consumed little by little in the follow-up parenting process and become a piece of chicken feathers.
Please, have a sense of responsibility, cherish yourself!