Douban score 9.3 TV series "Year after Year", as if it has become my inspirational drama, whenever there is dissatisfaction, lost enthusiasm and morale for life, watch it again, suddenly full of vitality. At first glance, I just like the characters in the play, like the self-reliant, indomitable, positive fighting spirit of each of them, and are touched by the innocent way of getting along between people. Looking at it again and again, I slowly have a deeper understanding.
The story starts from the ordinary and small things of the people's lives, takes the great changes in China's reform and opening up in the past twenty years as the background, unfolds the plot in the way of one episode a year, takes the twenty years of the stormy life of the Chen and Lin families as the context, takes the emotional entanglement between the characters and the change of thought as the longitude and latitude, and weaves a vivid picture of life, so that we travel through the time tunnel, and then look back, the feeling is still the same!
The hero and heroine of the play, Chen Huan (played by Xu Yajun) and Lin Pingping (played by Yuan Hua), are green plum bamboo horses. During the Cultural Revolution, Lin Hanmin was unjustly punished, and in the 78-year college entrance examination, Lin Pingping, who was both excellent in character and learning, was therefore not admitted to the ideal university, Chen Huan was admitted to the Normal University, and the two gradually drifted apart. After that, Lin Hanmin was rehabilitated, Lin Pingping entered Peking University for further study, and she and Chen Huan went through marriage, going abroad, divorcing, and reuniting, and the feelings and growth of the two people withstood various tests. In this process, Chen Huan always adhered to his original intention and firmly walked his own path.
1. Career: Choose a goal and stick to it
At the beginning of the shot, Chen Huan and Lin Pingping took a tractor to the county to see the college entrance examination results, Chen Huan was admitted to the Department of Politics and Education of Beijing Normal University, and the purpose of applying for this major was not to know what to take, but the possibility of being admitted to this major was relatively large.
At that time, looking at Chen Huan, I felt that this character was bland, there was no clear direction and goal for the future, and he was a more passive master who took one step at a time. This situation is also a true portrayal of the society at that time, the Cultural Revolution has just ended, there are hundreds of wastes to be rebuilt, social development is lagging behind, for the future, everyone is basically at a loss. In the face of this background, Chen Huan first chose a direction for himself, learned, moved, and did not let himself continue to be confused.
During his college years, Chen Huan spent most of his time in the library, immersed in the ocean of books, hungry for nutrition. Although the major he chose at that time was not his favorite, through in-depth study and understanding of the profession, he could have a rational analysis and cognition of himself and the future.
Once my father asked Chen Huan: Do you like the major of politics and education? Chen Huan said: I don't like it. Originally for a good exam, I now want to change to an economics major, because the economy is the future development trend. It should be said that at this time, he has an understanding of the future social development trend and has a further clarification of his own direction.
At the time of graduation, he was retained as a teacher due to his excellent grades. While teaching and serving as the professor's assistant, Chen Huan's serious and rigorous academic attitude was seen by the professor, gradually reused, and finally became the professor's graduate student. At the same time, theory and practice are equally important, and the second uncle in the countryside is helped to contact experts and go to the field to develop the rural economy.
Since then, Chen Huan has adhered to his professional path and become more and more focused. Even if Lin Pingping later hoped that the two of them would go abroad together and threaten with divorce; even if he went abroad to see the beautiful things abroad with his own eyes; even if Lin Pingping found a lawyer to divorce him in his class, it deeply stung him; even if Lin Yida invited him to be a consultant for the company; and there was still the dilemma of selling his own books. None of this shook his commitment to his career and profession, and because of his persistence, many years later, he became a young, well-written, and popular expert professor among students.
Chen Wan's career development path is not so dazzling, the initial professional choice has some passive factors, but once selected, it will firmly adhere to it; the beginning of the study is not outstanding, but insist on studying hard, and good at the use of theory and practice, step by step accumulation has made some achievements.
2. Feelings: Consistent, feelings are only for one person to wait.
Chen Huan and Lin Pingping Green Plum Bamboo Horse. Lin Pingping has always been smart, beautiful and dazzling since he was a child, and in Chen Huan's view, he is a goddess version of existence, so he has been extremely tolerant and caring for Lin Pingping since he was a child.
During the college entrance examination, Lin Pingping fell off the list and sent all his anger to Chen Huan, who silently endured and let her vent freely. Lin Pingping went to the store department to buy vegetables, clashed with people, he went up to break the siege, and was ridiculed by Lin Pingping. And he just sent the college entrance examination review materials and encouragement.
Lin Pingping was finally admitted to Peking University, he was sincerely happy for her, he used his own way to make this woman full of confidence in front of him, and experienced the joy and satisfaction of victory.
During college, Lin Pingping was outstanding, sought after by many male classmates, looking at all this, Chen Huan was silent, quietly turned away, and silently swallowed this lovesickness and pain by himself.
Lin Pingping graduated and was assigned to Beijing Television Station, doing some drama business, the reality and imagination are very different, coupled with the loss of love, Lin Pingping is very distressed. At this time, Chen Huan has been staying by her side without abandoning, talking with her, listening to her complaints, his heart is full of happiness, he is willing to accompany her without saying anything, silently caring for her, just to let her release herself and make her happy.
After getting married, Chen Huan was extremely spoiled by Lin Pingping, he could do the work he could do, and he who couldn't cook was willing to learn from others for her, boil noodles in water, and also give some nutritious eggs to his daughter-in-law. Lin Pingping needs a TV, the salary is not high, they have to save money to buy her a TV, although life is hard, Chen Huan is extremely happy. For Chen Huan, as long as he can be peaceful together, so that he can always care for her, take care of her, spoil her, and love her, this is his happiest thing.
Lin Pingping wants to go abroad, he is reluctant, but still respects her decision. PingPing threatens to divorce chen huan and her to go abroad to develop a career, at this time Chen Huan slowly realizes that the root of the two people is that Pingping has never loved himself, and he may not be suitable for Lin Pingping. He felt that Ping Ping's personality did not match his own Mu Ne's personality, which was very wronged for Ping Ping. So when the lawyer came to him, he did not hesitate and was willing to let go and be free.
Although chen huan who is divorced is painful, he still insists on his ordinary love. His family introduced him to him, and the excellent students pursued him passionately, which did not make him feel the slightest emotion.
He told his father that his heart had been completely occupied by Pingping, and over the years, all the love had been given to Pingping without reservation, and there was nothing left, even if he had always been a person since then, but as long as he had her in his heart, he was happy enough to know where she was.
When I first read this paragraph, my psychology has been scolding Lin Pingping for not knowing how to cherish, and my heart is painful for the lack of chen huan's love and the pain of love. But when I look at it again, I have a new understanding of his words: in fact, he is really happy. He has always adhered to this love for Pingping, and his heart is full of love for Pingping, only willing to pay, not to ask for any return. Even if Pingping hurt him deeply, when Pingping encountered difficulties after returning to China, he still cared for her and loved her as always. That's because when his love warms others, the light also illuminates itself. This may be the reward that he unreservedly loves to give him.
3． Adhere to the bottom line of being a person: filial piety, sincerity, empathy, tolerance and generosity, kindness to others, enthusiastic to help others
Chen Huan is the son of filial piety, and the old man is carefully cared for when he is sick and is willing to talk to his parents. It is a meek younger brother and a gentle elder brother, who cares about the sister's affairs, and the brother-in-law encounters difficulties and takes out a small amount of money to help in time. Admission to graduate school, books, room sharing and other big and small happy events are willing to share joy with their families.
The second uncle from the countryside has come home many times, and Chen Huan has always been warm to each other and understands the hardships of rural life. We will do our best to help the second uncle find experts, find methods, find ideas, and do our best to help farmers develop the economy.
Lin Yida (Lin Pingping's brother) is an upstart, in the face of Chen Huan's own school bag sales, a remark with a casual cold ridicule, Chen Huan did not argue with him, politely turned away. Later, Lin Yida's industry faced a great crisis, and Chen Huan did not care about the previous suspicions and gave him very sincere guidance and suggestions.
In the face of the students who loved him deeply, he kept his distance, only giving help and guidance to a teacher, but never disturbing her emotional world, so as not to bring her greater harm later. It is respect and responsibility for the student, a rational teacher who gives the student care and love.
In dealing with the classmates who love him, he is always gentle and polite, and always maintains the friendship of friends and classmates.
In his career, when people's hearts were impetuous and they were seeking profits, he resisted the temptation to go abroad, resisted the temptation to go to the sea, and resisted the temptation of collusion between students and businessmen, stuck to his position, immersed himself in hard reading, and made remarkable achievements in the academic circles by relying on perseverance. Emotionally, although he is clumsy in expression and has no interest, his love for Ping Ping is always there.
Such a dedicated, successful, infatuated, down-to-earth, gentle man will be happy in the future.
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