Last night, my parents and I had a very important self-realization. It all started when I damaged my father's collection in an accident, and he was very angry, but I never felt that I was at fault.
My father believed that everyone had their own responsibilities and obligations in the family, and I did not realize my fault in this accident and did not respond positively to my father's disappointment.
I was very touched by these words, and I realized that I was really lacking in this area.
This incident made me re-examine myself, and I began to realize that my attitude, words and actions towards my family can play a crucial role in the harmony of the whole family.
At that time, I always listened to my parents' requests and teachings, but I always ignored them in my life.
This accident taught me a lesson and taught me a lot.
"Child, you are a good child if you know that you can change your mistakes. My mother told me, "A family needs everyone to work together to get along.
My father said to me, "You have to be responsible in doing things, and you can't always run away." Only by knowing how to take responsibility will the family be more harmonious.
Sometimes, an unexpected event can make people re-examine themselves and make themselves more mature, and although this accident made me make mistakes, it also became an important self-understanding on my way to growth.
After much deliberation, I decided to take the initiative to apologize to my father and take responsibility. I went to my father and apologized to him frankly, saying that I was wrong.
It made me feel very grateful and guilty, and I was determined to work harder to make my parents proud of me.
However, just when the family atmosphere gradually returned to harmony, another unexpected thing happened.
My sister was out of control and yelled at me, accusing me of not caring enough for my family and only caring for myself. I felt extremely aggrieved by my sister's blame, but I tried to control my emotions and try to calm the situation.
When I heard this, I realized that my sister also had her own worries and needs, and I ignored the feelings of the people around me in my pursuit of self-knowledge.
This conflict made me re-examine my role and responsibilities in the family. I decided to be more patient and considerate of my family, because only when family members understand, care and support each other can families be truly harmonious.
My sister and I gradually untied the knots, and we began to communicate more sincerely and understand each other better.
I was deeply touched by this teaching, and I began to work harder to respect my parents, care for my family, and contribute to family harmony.
However, contradictions in life are still unavoidable. Not long ago, my father became more and more irritable due to the pressure of work, and his attitude towards his family became more and more harsh.
The father felt that he had taken on too much responsibility and began to feel that the children in the family should take more care of them.
This conflicting family atmosphere stresses me down. Should I continue to swallow my anger or make some changes? I was troubled and didn't know how to deal with this kind of family dispute.
I am willing to think more about them, but I also want them to understand the difficulties of my child. This may be a deeper self-understanding.
This Sunday, a family dinner suddenly became an unexpected provocation. At the dinner table, my father accidentally spilled wine on my mother's newly bought coffee table, and my mother lost control of her emotions on the spot and scolded her father loudly.
As a child, I was a little at a loss for a while. I tried to persuade my parents to put aside their arguments, but they didn't seem to want to listen.
I started to feel stressed and confused, and I didn't know what I should do to resolve the conflict.
This incident made me think that the conflict in the family may be more complicated than I thought. I grew up in this family, but I was very unaware of the problems that could exist within the family.
I feel a little powerless about the growing family relationship, and I hope that the family can be harmonious again. But perhaps, this is not something that can be solved overnight.
Even though I am trying my best to change myself, it is clear that family entanglements are not something that can be solved by one person.
It made me feel a little helpless, but I also understood that it was part of my upbringing, and I wanted all these conflicts and problems to be resolved in an ideal way.
Soon, another conflict broke out in the family. This time, I had an argument with my brother over a matter of toys.
My parents sensed the problem and wanted us to sit down and have a good chat.
"You are brothers and sisters, you should take care of each other and be considerate of each other. Mom said gently.
The father also chimed in: "We must learn to understand and communicate, and tolerate each other, this is what a family should be."
This conflict made me realize that the relationship between family members needs to be managed with care. Everyone has emotions and has their own difficulties, and understanding and consideration are the most important things between family members.
Perhaps, this emergency is an opportunity for family members to better understand and communicate with each other. I think that as long as we are willing to listen, understand and tolerate, I believe that our families will be more harmonious and our relationships will be better.