Text/Muqiao Jane
Edited by Mujo Janeko
Preface
If a mother can't let go of her son, don't give him permission to marry and start a family.
Because such a mother will default to being the hostess of her son, and her daughter-in-law is the "enemy" who robs her son.
Actor Zhang Duo's family vividly illustrates such a situation to everyone.
Zhang Duo's mother is such a "human spirit", she will have countless ways to find a sense of existence between her son and daughter-in-law.
If once she finds her daughter-in-law Chen Songling and distracts her son's attention, she will start her own superb performance.
And how did Zhang Duo, who was caught in the middle, resolve the contradiction between his mother and wife? How did he maintain his 12-year marriage with Chen Songling?
How to deal with the mother-in-law who is a fine mother-in-law?
Hong Kong amphibious star Chen Songling got together with mainland actor Zhang Duo in 2006 because of the play.
Speaking of Chen Songling, many middle-aged and elderly people should be familiar with her, she was a smash hit TVB Hua Dan back then.
It can be said that how popular Hong Kong dramas were in the 90s, Chen Songling was as popular as she was, and she was also a star of film and television songs.
And Zhang Duo is a Heilongjiang actor, and he entered the showbiz with the role of "Shi Lei" in "Deep Love and Rain".
After that, Zhang Duo also starred in many TV series, although he was not too famous, but he has been conscientious.
The two people who seemed to be incompatible, but they loved vigorously at that time, but the seemingly extremely sweet love did not get the blessing of their families.
Especially Zhang Duo's mother, her disgust with Chen Songling was vividly expressed.
In 2018, someone invited Zhang Duo's mother and Chen Songling to participate in a variety show on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Under the display of the camera, everyone saw the real love life of Chen Songling and Zhang Duo.
It's a pity that it's not as beautiful as everyone imagines, and the reason for this is the mother-in-law who is possessed by this drama.
Zhang Duo's mother, when the two fell in love in the early years, was very dissatisfied with Chen Songling.
Because she thinks that Zhang Duo is a very good person, he hopes that his son will find a young and beautiful daughter-in-law.
But what she didn't expect was that in the end, Zhang Duo found a girlfriend who was 8 years older than herself.
And in addition to being older than Zhang Duo, Chen Songling once suffered from ovarian cancer!
Although she was later cured, she was told that Chen Songling could not get pregnant again in this life.
Not being able to get pregnant means that Zhang Duo will never have a child of his own in his life, which makes Zhang Duo's mother feel unacceptable.
She has always been eager to hold her grandson, and she also hopes that her excellent son can pass on the lineage, so when the two fell in love, she stepped in to stop it.
But Zhang Duo insisted on getting together with Chen Songling, and she loved her son, so she could only compromise in the end.
But all the compromises do not mean that I like Chen Songling.
Since Chen Songling married Zhang Duo, Zhang Duo's mother has also been picking on her.
In the show, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo took Zhang Duo's mother to the mall to buy clothes.
At that time, Zhang Duo and Chen Songling both fell in love with the same coat and felt that it was very suitable for Zhang Duo's mother, so they asked her to try it.
But after Zhang Duo's mother reluctantly tried it, she said with a black face that she didn't like this dress.
In fact, the reason why she didn't like it at the time was just because this dress was chosen by Chen Songling.
Later, she left the store in anger, but after choosing a circle, she still didn't choose the clothes she wanted.
In the end, I could only go back and try on the same dress, this time because Zhang Duo was in charge, Chen Songling did not interfere at all, and Zhang Duo's mother accepted it with a smile.
Later, when Zhang Duo was boxing with his friends, Chen Songling only cared about helping him shout cheers, and had no intention of persuading Zhang Duo to stop.
This made Zhang Duo's mother feel very uncomfortable when she saw it.
She didn't think about it, and snatched the towel directly from Chen Songling's body.
then ran over to wipe Zhang Duo's sweat, and blamed Chen Songling for why he didn't help her husband wipe her sweat.
But Chen Songling said very directly, he is not a four-year-old child, he is such an old man, he knows how to measure.
But because of this incident, Zhang Duo's mother was very angry, and then she complained to Zhang Duo with an aggrieved face:
I see that you are too tired from boxing, and you can't get angry, I want you to stop fighting, but Songsong also said that I shouldn't interfere with you, and she is there to help you cheer up, I took a towel on her and said a few words to her, she was still unhappy.
Chen Songling was also very angry when she saw her mother-in-law like this, and immediately had an argument with her mother-in-law.
And Zhang Duo understood the ins and outs of the matter, and he was not used to his mother, so he directly questioned her why she did that.
Unexpectedly, hearing Zhang Duo's questioning of herself, Zhang Duo's mother came over directly and asked Chen Songling: "When did I throw your towel?"
Chen Songling said: "At that time, you said that you wanted to wipe Zhang Duo's sweat, so you took my towel directly. ”
When Zhang Duo's mother saw Chen Songling say this, she still wanted to quibble. But Zhang Duo didn't give her a chance, stood directly on Chen Songling's side, and replied to her mother sharply: "This is not a towel thing, you have to understand and respect some other people's feelings." ”
also said that she always favors herself and Chen Songling.
When Zhang Duo's mother complained to her husband again, even Zhang Duo's father counted her down, saying that if her daughter-in-law was sweating on it, would she tear off her son's towel and give it to her? Why can't she give other towels to Zhang Duo?
Every time Zhang Duo's mother has a conflict with Chen Songling, fortunately, Zhang Duo can be a man, and there will always be a way to cure his own fine old mother.
can see Zhang Duo replying to his mother like this, and many netizens said, will it be a little too ruthless?
After all, his mother just hopes that her son can have a better life.
always only praises his son, and his daughter-in-law has no advantages
However, Zhang Duo's mother's fine performance is actually because her attachment to her son is too deep.
In the show, she always keeps Zhang Duo in three sentences, and she thinks that Zhang Duo will always be the best.
And there was no word of praise for Chen Songling, which also provoked Zhang Duo's father to complain about her.
"Why do you only praise your son, not Songsong, isn't Songsong excellent?"
When Zhang Duo's mother heard her husband say this, she could only smile awkwardly and no longer respond.
Zhang Duo's mother doesn't like everything about Chen Songling, which is vividly expressed in the show.
Picky Chen Songling doesn't know how to do housework, can't do hygiene, can't dress up, and even bluntly says that Chen Songling is not worthy of his son Zhang Duo at all.
In the eyes of Zhang Duo's mother, Zhang Duo is the only and best person in the world.
Whenever she exaggerated Duo, Zhang Duo's mother liked to speak in a tone.
That pretentious appearance really made Zhang Duo's father say bluntly: Can you talk well? Don't be so awkward.
In fact, Zhang Duo also knows that his mother is a little master, so every time he faces the "war" between his mother and his wife, Zhang Duo will come out to play a round as soon as possible.
If it really can't be reconciled, it will directly stand on Chen Songling's side, which is why Chen Songling is living such a suffocating marriage with Zhang Duo and can still insist on going.
Zhang Duo's love gave Chen Songling motivation, so she was willing to be picked by her mother-in-law while enjoying her husband's favor.
epilogue
Today, Zhang Duo and Chen Songling, who have been married for 12 years, still have a very good relationship and a very sweet life.
Even the name of the social account is "Zhang Duo Songsong and his wife", and Zhang Duo also wrote under a video: Career and family must be managed well, only happiness is the last word.
And Chen Songling has also cut her hair short, although she is 52 years old, and she and Zhang Duo do not have a son and a half daughter by their side, but from their daily life, we can see that the two of them live a very fulfilling life.
As for whether the mother-in-law still affects the lives of the young couple, neither of them has ever said it. But judging from their current living conditions, perhaps after participating in that variety show back then, Zhang Duo's mother also learned a lot from other guests how to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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