The blogger is an emotional counselor who usually shares interesting things he encounters at work online.
Two days ago, on the weekend, she was choked by a single man and woman.
The woman was 25 years old and asked her to be introduced last month.
But because the requirements are too high, I haven't met a suitable blind date.
This girl is very good-looking, at least 7 points or more, and her job is a planner.
And she also has very high requirements for the appearance of the other half, the requirements are high, handsome and rich, and she has to be mature and stable.
I haven't looked at it after a lot of blind dates, either I think it's ugly, or I think it's too ugly, or I don't like others and don't know how to dress up.
On this day, I finally met a man with quite good conditions who was also on a blind date.
The man is 27 years old, has a stable job, works in a public institution, has very good family conditions, and his parents are doctors.
The most important thing is that she is very handsome, and the little girl was very excited when she saw the photo, and expressed her satisfaction and willingness to make further contact.
So on the weekend, the two met at a local hot pot restaurant.
The two did not see the light and die when they met, they were both bright-eyed, and their appearance was their ideal type.
It's also very hot to talk about, and they talk very happily.
When going on a blind date, hobbies are an aspect that needs to be understood, and interests can reflect personal spiritual pursuit and requirements for quality of life.
The two naturally talked about their interests and advantages.
The man introduced himself as a calm personality, a gentle temper, and usually likes sports and fitness, and studies cooking and food.
Then he asked the woman, "What do you like to do, what is your personality, and what are your advantages?"
The woman is very frank: "I'm lazy, I can't cook, I can't do housework, I like to sleep lazy, I usually like to travel, I like to shop..."
The man was shocked when he heard it, is it an advantage?
The woman asked rhetorically: "Why is this not an advantage? I don't cook, I'm lazy and say it, which means that I'm more honest and don't pretend, isn't this an advantage?
The man was also stunned for a while when he heard this answer, and his impression of the woman was greatly reduced: "Then how often do you usually go out to travel?"
The woman said, "If you have less, you have to go out three or four times a year, and if you have more, you have to go out once a month." ”
As we all know, the cost of travel is very large, and such frequent travel must require a lot of financial support, so the man asked curiously: "Then you have to have a monthly salary of tens of thousands, right?"
Who knew that the girl didn't hide it at all: "It's 5000 a month, and it's moonshine every month"
Man: "Then where did you get so much money to go out?"
The woman's mood is already a little unbeautiful: "When you go out to play with the man, of course the man pays for it!"
So before that, who paid for the woman's high-frequency travel? at least three or four times a year, and at most once a month... It's scary to think about.
The man suddenly felt a little speechless, and replied: "I also love life, I want to go skiing in the Alps, go to Australia to eat lobster, and I want to take a helicopter, can you pay for me to love life?"
The woman suddenly lost control: "Why do you want me to pay for it when you go out to play?"
The man had already expected her to say this: "Then why do you let me pay for it when you go out to play?"
The man got up and left, he walked to the front desk of the hotel and only paid 300, and then said: "We are AA, and the rest is asked by the lady."
After that, the man blocked the woman, couldn't get through the phone, and didn't give the hot pot money, which made the woman angry.
So the woman found the blogger to vent, and the blogger was inexplicably choked by the two people.
The real love of life is not to overdraft life to enjoy, but to use limited resources to manage one's life meaningfully and happily, and to live happily with family and friends.
Otherwise, those who are idle and only care about eating, drinking, prostituting, gambling and smoking also feel that they love life.
Love travel, love food, love dressing, love shopping, love show circle of friends, these women's self-righteous advantages are precisely the deduction items.
Translated, you spend money on food, you spend money on travel, you spend money on movies, and you spend money on concerts.
To put it nicely, it is to love life, and to say it badly, it is a loser.
These so-called personal hobbies, whether male or female, have no emotional resonance for forming a family or for a partner, and will spend half of their hard-earned money to accompany you in meaningless socializing, whether it is a blind date or simply a normal friendship.
Look at a person's value to see what he creates, not what he consumes.
Girls who love to travel are indeed minus, they can't stay at home, who would expect to live with you as a family, if it weren't for the sake of getting married, who would have nothing to do to get married.
Whether the other party can choose you depends on the ability to create value, not on consumption and interest itself.