Introduction: Nowadays, it is not easy for halfway couples to find a soul mate who suits them. So, if you come across it, be sure to cherish it. What about today's blind date story, due to the problem of pension, the blind date failed. Now, let's get down to business and start today's sharing.
Blind date actor:
Brother Liu, 63 years old, divorced, has a monthly pension of 3,200 yuan.
63-year-old Brother Liu
Blind date heroine:
Sister Zhou, 57 years old, divorced, with two houses and a monthly pension of 2,400 yuan.
57-year-old Sister Zhou
Under the arrangement of the matchmaker, the two started a blind date trip.
Under the leadership of the matchmaker, Brother Liu happily came to Sister Zhou's house. It is worth mentioning that before going to Sister Zhou's house, Brother Liu deliberately went to the supermarket to buy several bags of fruit. This means that Brother Liu understands the world and knows that he can't go to someone else's house empty-handed for the first time.
After entering the door, Brother Liu handed the fruit to Sister Zhou as soon as possible. After taking the fruit, Sister Zhou smiled and said to Brother Liu: "Big brother, you can come here, what kind of gifts do you bring! You are too polite, thank you!"
Left: matchmaker, right: Brother Liu
Subsequently, Brother Liu didn't look at Sister Zhou, but participated in Sister Zhou's house. It can be seen that after coming to Sister Zhou,. I saw him stammering to Sister Zhou: "Your house is ...... Feign...... Very well decorated!"
Brother Liu was nervous
Not only that, after entering the door, Brother Liu kept his back to Sister Zhou, not daring to look at her head-on. The matchmaker on the side couldn't stand it anymore, and said with a smile: "Brother Liu, you are here for a blind date today, not to see the house, don't look at the house all the time, let's have a good chat with Sister Zhou!"
Listening to the matchmaker's reminder, Brother Liu reacted. He quickly turned around and no longer turned his back to Sister Zhou. At this time, the matchmaker briefly introduced the two and asked the two to shake hands. As a man, Brother Liu immediately took the initiative to stretch out his hand first, and after shaking hands, the two knew each other.
It is said that compared to blind dates, eye rim is very important. What was their first impression of each other? Read on.
I saw the matchmaker ask Brother Liu in private: "Big brother, when we meet for the first time, what is your first impression of the eldest sister!"
刘大哥说:女方挺漂亮，我对她挺有眼缘。
But Sister Zhou is different, she said to the matchmaker: "Brother Liu's age looks a little old!"
The matchmaker said: "It's not big, he's 63 years old, this age is not too old!"
Sister Zhou said: "He's only 63 years old, no! I don't feel like a 63-year-old person, he looks a little older than 63 years old, and his appearance is too old! Why does he look so anxious!"
This also means that Sister Zhou's eyes on Brother Liu are not very good. However, Sister Zhou thinks that the eye edge is not the most important. She feels that the most important thing is strength. This means that if Brother Liu has the strength, Sister Zhou is still willing to associate with him. I have to say that Sister Zhou is a more realistic woman.
In order to understand Brother Liu's strength, Sister Zhou asked Brother Liu: "
Brother Liu replied: "
Sister Zhou asked: "
Brother Liu replied, "Now"
What the matchmaker and Brother Liu never expected was that when they heard that Brother Liu's pension was only 3,200 yuan, Sister Zhou's face changed instantly.
Subsequently, she didn't care about Brother Liu's face at all, and said directly to Brother Liu: "
Seeing Sister Zhou say this, the matchmaker hurriedly stepped forward to persuade:
"Eldest sister,
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Sister Zhou said, "Don't think about it! Let me tell you,
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The matchmaker still wanted to fight for it, but she said to Sister Zhou: "Sister, your monthly pension is 2,400 yuan, and Brother Liu's monthly pension is 3,200 yuan, and if the two of them add up, a total of 5,600 yuan a month." It can be said that as long as you don't spend a lot of money, it's completely enough to spend!"
Sister Zhou said: "What are you kidding! Where is the eldest brother's 3,200 yuan pension enough to spend! Let me tell you, I have to spend more than 3,000 yuan every month." Not only did I spend my pension, but I also spent my rent money. I have two houses, one for self-occupation and one for rent. Actually, it's not that I'm spending too much, it's that my family spends too much. ”
At this time, Brother Liu finally spoke, and I saw him say to Sister Zhou: "
After listening to what Brother Liu said, Sister Zhou said to Brother Liu with a puzzled expression: "Big brother, to be honest, 1,500 yuan a month is still enough to eat." I just want to ask, don't you usually buy clothes, don't follow the money, and have no love for the world?"
Brother Liu said: "At my age, what kind of clothes do I buy? Usually, I don't buy clothes, but my children buy them for me." As for the money of the favorites, I don't care about it, I leave it all to the children. ”
Sister Zhou said: "
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Sister Zhou's words made Brother Liu very unhappy. I saw him say to the matchmaker in private: "The woman is too selfish." She still doesn't look down on me. I'm telling you, I don't look down on her yet! If I have a pension of 5,000 yuan a month, I don't want to associate with her. You know, she only knows how to take, but she doesn't know how to give at all, even if she is with her, she can't be happy. ”
Needless to say, this blind date ended in failure.
Write to the end:
I think the reason why this blind date failed was mainly because Sister Zhou was too selfish.
Because of her low pension, she wanted to find someone with a high pension to subsidize herself.
As for her, she is unwilling to give, only knows how to take.
You know, how can there be such a good thing in the world!
Even if she finds a partner with a pension of more than 5,000, if she doesn't change herself, then it is destined to be difficult to be happy between them, and it will be difficult to last long.
Therefore, I hope that Sister Zhou will learn to empathize and not be too selfish.
Do you think what I said makes sense? Do you have anything to add? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.