Xiangyin is the former residence of Mr. Zuo Zongtang, and the mountains and rivers of Hunan people have nurtured the enthusiasm for saving the country for a hundred years in modern history. Since the Hongyang Rebellion in the late Qing Dynasty, the Qing Dynasty at that time should have actually been destroyed, and it was Zuo Zongtang and Zeng Guofan who led a group of Han Chinese and Hunan troops to fight the world back.
Since that time, Hunan located in the south of the Yangtze River dared to be the first in China, many things have been done in front of other provinces, a few days ago, Hunan Xiangyin like the government on the problem of older men to choose a mate is difficult to put forward a proposal to encourage young women to stay in their hometown, which has aroused a large number of heated discussions, among which the opposition to the criticism of the majority, so is the people's hearts changed or what, how did the problem of men and women become the taboo of these people?
How to balance the issue of men and women in Chinese
The philosophy of the Chinese has always included the philosophy of yin and yang in the problems of men and women. In ancient agricultural societies, because the pursuit of strength and the maximization of agricultural output value has always been the standard, in the social form at any time, men are basically in a rising stage, and the status of women is basically very low, and more often it exists as male accessories and commodities, which can be given away and bought.
For practical reasons, both in ancient and contemporary times, men have contributed much more to society as a whole than women. The cultivation of wheat and rice in the high latitudes of the world is basically done by men, and the assembly line business in the world's industrial system and factories is also mostly male, constituting the power system of the whole world, which can be called the blood meridian of the contemporary world.
All existence in society is reasonable, not in any age, but at least in the era in which it was produced. The issue of men and women is not only an issue for all countries in the world, but also for the Chinese. This problem has plagued the Chinese for thousands of years, and there has never been a shortage of heroes who have dedicated their lives to the pursuit of truth and equality between men and women, but what is the reason for the antagonism between men and women at all levels of Chinese society today?
The reason lies in the discontentment of the human heart and the collapse of the cultural beliefs of the nation, the Chinese in ancient times had their own simple beliefs of their own nation, and the Chinese at that time had a belief in all things in nature and ancestral gods from the bones, whether it was men, women and children, they obeyed that they belonged to the world during the day and another world at night, and this set of yin and yang theory was equally suitable for men and women. Men are responsible for the external business of a family, women are responsible for the internal business of a family, and the combination of men and women and the distinction between inside and outside is the best division of labor between Chinese men and women.
Reflections brought about by the Xiangyin authorities and social trends
In recent years, there has been a very serious imbalance in the proportion of men and women in the Chinese population, this imbalance refers to the serious too much or too little of one of the men and women, so that the proportion of men and women who marry in the future cannot reach a natural balance, according to the total number of male and female births in the past 20 years and the number of men and women currently unmarried, at least 30 million Chinese men are single, this is a very serious problem, if the marriage problem is not solved, it will breed many heterosexual crimes, so this is a big problem that is deeply concerned and the people。
Xiangyin County is a famous county near Changsha, Hunan, where the regional culture can be traced back to the Qing Dynasty at least to the Qing Dynasty celebrities, at that time there did not seem to be so much trouble for the marriage of men and women, the marriage problem at that time was still very easy to solve, basically as long as the boy is not good at leisure and evil and illegal crime will get a more virtuous daughter-in-law, and then start a family and start the most interesting family stage in their lives. But this situation of mutual respect and harmonious coexistence between men and women has been undermined in the last decade or so.
The Xiangyin authorities have seen that the marriage problem of older men in many rural areas has not been solved, this problem is mainly reflected in the fact that girls from other provinces are unwilling to come to this poor country, and some are because of the customs of different regions, the old Changsha dialect and Xiang are relatively difficult to understand, and many outsiders are not Xi to the spicy food in Hunan, so girls from other provinces are not the main force to solve the marriage of older men in Xiangyin, and Chinese pay attention to marriage in a "nearby marriage".
The advantage of getting married nearby is that it is very convenient for relatives to move around, and any problems and difficulties between relatives can be quickly sought help and solved, and too far away is not conducive to relatives, which is a reason why many people oppose inter-provincial marriage. Based on a consideration of social and historical issues, Xiangyin encourages local women to return to the local area to get married, which is a very good proposal, which can be said to be out of public intentions, but it has been strongly opposed and resisted by many women from all walks of life, so why?
The reason why women are opposed to staying local solves the problem
One of the objections raised by these women is that staying in the countryside to solve the problem of men's unmarried is objectifying women. Materialization is actually an abbreviation for materialization. It is certainly wrong to see women as objects, how can people see them as objects? It is certainly wrong for people to see them as objects, which is a Xi of feudal society. In modern society, it basically does not exist. However, some women have lived in the society of inferiority of women for too long for a long time, which leads to some remarks that make women make concessions, and they will be objectified by them.
The encouragement of local women to stay in their hometowns and work to solve the marriage problems of older men is actually relatively speaking, that is, older women correspond to older men to solve marriage problems, and there is absolutely no other meaning, and many people have already misunderstood the meaning when they look at the problem at the beginning. Too sensitive, always think that these are signs of no human rights, but in fact this is not the case, this is precisely a manifestation of the most respect for women.
You have never seen what it means to objectify women, and ancient society really did not encourage women in this way for the sake of population reproduction, but distributed women as objects equally to men in a certain place, which is disrespectful to women. The overall social environment is actually very good for lesbians now, and most people know that a woman's life is actually much easier than that of a man, and she can naturally enjoy a lot of preferences because of lack of physical strength.
Chinese women should not be affected by the radical remarks of other countries, do not follow the boxing, adhere to their own traditional culture and the idea of internal and external distribution of work between men and women, these are the traditional virtues that have been passed down in China for thousands of years, pension is not a man's business, both husband and wife need to be jointly responsible, and the most important contradiction between men and women is not a unilateral thing, but also the need for women and men to build a new family together, the Xiangyin authorities are not wrong, what is wrong is that many women are too fussful, and they don't know how to be blessed in the blessing！
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