The weekend before yesterday, we sent our children to school for evening Xi, thinking that it was still early, so we didn't go home first, so we went shopping and picked up our children.
Who knows, in the process of shopping, I remembered my sad past again.
We walked to the door of a down jacket store, and my husband said, go, go in and buy you one, pick whatever you want, and I'll pay. It's so ignorant to remember that you used to argue with me on the street in order to buy me a dress!
I became angry immediately, I am not sensible, I have never seen you such a picky person, I am blind to see you, and I am willing to marry you.
Not all jokes can be made, like this one, because it's my sore spot!
At this moment, I have in my mind the awkward situation of the two of us in the days before our marriage.
At that time, life was not easy, and there were not many rich people.
My parents are also more open-minded, we met on campus, they didn't ask my in-laws for any bride price, they just gave me a bride price of 2,000 yuan.
What can you do with 2,000 yuan? You can only buy some small things you need.
People of my age, at that time, the bride price was 10,000, and I counted less!
My parents didn't say anything about this! Who let me choose it myself!
They just gave me what they could.
My parents gave me almost 10,000 yuan to buy furniture and appliances. They also borrowed it, because my younger siblings are still in school, and the family really doesn't have any savings, but my parents don't want to treat me badly.
At that time, my in-law's house was still more than ten years old, and we didn't even decorate it when we got married!
With the money given by my parents, I found someone to customize a set of wooden furniture, and then bought a washing machine, refrigerator, color TV and other electrical appliances.
My two families are far apart, and all of what I did was done before marriage.
I got it all in order and got ready to go back to my house because our wedding day was approaching.
Just as I was about to take the train and leave, he, my current husband, dropped me off at the station, and when I was almost on the bus, he didn't say anything!
I was so angry!
Don't I want to lose face? Who didn't buy two sets of clothes for my mother-in-law before I got married? I just went back empty-handed, and I felt very ashamed.
When I got home, how could I say that my mother-in-law's family didn't like me or didn't pay attention to me? The bride price was only 2,000 yuan, and there was nothing else, not even a set of clothes!
I don't lack that outfit, and when people ask about it, I feel very embarrassed!
I am not valued by my in-laws, so what is the point of such a marriage?
I was very angry and angry, and then I quarreled with him in the crowded place at the station, saying that my mother-in-law's family didn't buy clothes before I got married?
I said while crying!
He was at a loss, he didn't understand why I was suddenly angry, what he thought was just a set of clothes? I don't say how he knew? He blamed me for not saying it, I was so embarrassed to make trouble at the station!
I was angry and wanted to get in the car and go back to my house.
In this case, I was so angry, how could he let me go back with confidence, so he stopped me and didn't let me go!
Then he took me to buy a down jacket! I remember it was 240 yuan, a beige down jacket.
Time flies, 18 years have passed in a blink of an eye!
My husband said that he used to be poor and had no conditions, but now he has the conditions, so he can buy it casually!
He was willing to give me the whole family and his salary card to me, but I couldn't bear it!
My down jacket can be worn for 5 years, and it is not warm, so I will add an extra piece of clothing in it, cotton boots for 199 yuan, I am reluctant to buy it, and I want to wait for others to deal with it cheaper and buy it, even if I can't wear it this winter!
The scene of arguing in the street is because of poverty!
We don't want to live the days of having no money to buy clothes, so many years, we have worked together, we can already buy a favorite dress as we like, we are still working hard, we want to make our home better.
Over the years, he has already made up for the grievances I suffered back then!#Article Launch Challenge#