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My husband Li Xiaoming and I have been married for fifteen years, and our relationship over the years is not as sweet as when we first got married. My husband is busy with work and often travels outside, so we communicate less and less, and sometimes we don't see each other a few times a week. Usually at home, we don't have much to say, it's nothing more than the trivial things of work and family, and I feel that life is monotonous and boring.
Seeing that my friends around me are posting photos of going out on social media to date men, I also have the idea of cheating in my heart. I've been a good woman all these years, but now I also want to experience passion and excitement. My husband is not around, and I am so lonely alone.
It was at this time that I met Wang Wei. We met through mutual friends. Wang Wei is a very attractive man, completely different from his husband, very good at talking and coaxing people. He took the initiative to pursue me, and I resisted at first, but after his repeated overtures, I finally nodded and agreed to his pursuit. I had a great chat with Wang Wei, and he brought back my long-lost passion.
Last week, my husband went on a business trip to Beijing again, and this time he had to go on a business trip for a week. As soon as he left, I sent a message to Wang Wei and asked him to come to my house for dinner in the evening. Wang Wei quickly agreed.
In the evening, I carefully prepared a table of my husband's favorite dishes and opened a bottle of red wine. When the doorbell rang, I nervously went to open the door, and Wang Wei stood outside the door with a smile and a bouquet of roses in his hand.
"Is this for me?" I'm a little embarrassed.
"Yes, my pretty little lover. Wang Wei handed me the flower and kissed me on the cheek.
We chatted while eating and the atmosphere was very warm. Wang Wei praised me for the delicious food I cooked, and I was overjoyed when I heard it. After dinner, we sat on the couch and watched a movie. I leaned into Wang Wei's arms and felt very relieved.
"I miss you so much. Wang Wei said softly.
At two o'clock in the morning, Wang Wei sent me home. At parting, he kissed me again and said he would miss me. I got out of the car with a red face and watched his car leave.
Back in the bedroom, I began to feel scared and guilty. The few hours I spent with Wang Wei were like a dream, but soon I woke up and I had to face real life again. I cheated and betrayed my husband for so many years of dedication and care. I feel very uncomfortable when I think of my husband's gentle face.
But I know that my relationship with my husband is not what it used to be. I need passion, I need to be noticed and listened to. Wang Wei gave me all this. I don't regret what happened tonight, but I'm also afraid that my husband will find out the truth.
I hurried to take a shower and try to wash away all my sins. The cold water poured over me, but I still felt extremely hot.
Just as I was taking a shower, my husband came back. He knocked on the door and said he had returned from his work early. I hurriedly responded, thinking that fortunately I had cleaned it up, and my husband should not find anything.
I dried myself, changed into my pajamas, and washed my face before going out. My husband sat on the edge of the bed and looked at me, "Why did you take a shower for so long?"
"Oh, I just want to take a shower. I tried to say as casually as I could.
"Then you go to sleep first, and I'll go take a shower too. My husband got up and went to the bathroom.
I climbed into bed, my heart beating fast. I stared at the ceiling, my mind full of bits and pieces of me and Wang Wei.
My husband went to bed after taking a shower. He turned off the lights and chatted with me in the dark: "This business trip was hard, and I worked overtime late for several days. ”
"Well, you have to pay attention to your body too, don't work too hard. I tried to make the tone sound normal.
"I'm alone and lonely outside, I miss you so much. My husband sighed.
"Hey, it seems like we haven't had a good chat in a long time. My husband said suddenly.
"Yes, you're so busy at work, and I'm often out partying, so it's a bit far away from us. I was careful with my words.
"Then I'll come back this time, let's have a good chat and bring the distance a little closer. My husband turned to me and said.
“好啊。 ”我勉强笑了笑。 我
"What's wrong with you today? Feeling a little absent-minded. My husband looked at me and said.
"Why, you think too much. I'm fine. "I pretended to be relaxed.
"Yes, I see that your whole state is a little wrong, and your face is not very good, are you sick?" My husband looked at me suspiciously.
"No, I'm healthy, don't worry about it. I said with some irritation.
My husband was silent for a while, and then suddenly asked me, "Are you cheating?"
I froze, and my heart stopped beating for a few seconds. I barely managed to keep my composure and said, "What are you talking about?"
"Just casually, you are indeed a little abnormal today. "My husband held my hand.
I withdrew my hand and rolled over: "I'm tired, go to sleep." ”
My husband quickly fell asleep, but I tossed and turned.
I don't know how my husband saw it, but he actually said it. Should I continue to hide it? or should I confess the truth to him?
My heart is at war with heaven and man. After confessing, what does my husband think of me? Will he forgive me? Can our marriage continue? All kinds of questions came to my mind, and I didn't know what to do.
On the other hand, I don't want to continue to cheat on my husband. Over the years, my husband has been very good to me, but I cheated on him and failed him. I owe him a truth and an apology.
After thinking about it, I decided to confess to my husband. I have to be brave enough to face my mistakes and believe in my husband's tolerance. We have been married for so many years, and the foundation of our relationship is still there, and I think my husband will give me a chance to start over.
My husband put down the newspaper in his hand and looked at me seriously: "What's the matter?"
I took a deep breath and said, "I cheated." I'm sorry, it's all my fault, you must not blame yourself. ”
At this point, my tears began to flow. I choked up and told my husband the ins and outs of the matter.
After hearing this, my husband's face became ugly. He was silent for a long time, then said, "I need to be alone for a while." ”
With that, he got up and left the room. I sat on the bed with tears in my face. I know my husband must be sad and disappointed right now. I kept blaming myself for not being where I am today if I hadn't cheated.
Half an hour later, my husband returned. on his face
My husband's face was full of disappointment and pain. I choked up and said to him, "I'm sorry, I really regret it." Will you let me tell you the ins and outs of the matter?"
The husband nodded silently.
At this point, I couldn't control my emotions anymore and started crying loudly.
My husband looked at me with a complicated look in his eyes. It was a long time before he spoke, "I was so negligent with you, I should have spent more time with you." But you shouldn't do that. ”
"I know it's wrong, you can beat me and scold me, don't leave me!" I hugged my husband and begged loudly.
My husband was silent and didn't hug me back.
"Please give me a chance to start over. I wiped away my tears and looked at my husband.
The husband sighed: "I can't fully accept this fact yet. You have betrayed my trust and love for you. ”
"How can you make me trust you anymore? I've lost faith in you. My husband said coldly.
"Husband, we have been married for so many years, the foundation of our relationship is here, you give me a chance. I will regain your trust and love, and I will try to make amends for my mistakes. I pleaded.
The husband shook his head and did not speak.
I know that my husband is disappointed in me now, but I can't just give up. So I made up my mind to prove myself with my actions and win back my husband's heart.
I felt my husband's attitude towards me slowly soften. One day, we went out for a walk together, and I plucked up the courage to hold my husband's hand, and he didn't shake me off. I know that this is my husband slowly accepting and forgiving me.
Hope rose in me. I believe that as long as I persevere, I will be able to win back my husband's trust, and our marriage will be even happier.
As time passed, my husband's attitude towards me became more and more peaceful. One day, he suddenly said to me, "I don't care anymore, let's start over." ”
I looked at my husband in amazement, unable to believe my ears: "You mean, you forgive me?"
"Well, you have been very good to me during this time, and I have seen your efforts and sincerity. My husband nodded.
"If you are not a sage, who can do nothing? I also want to reflect on how much I care about you enough. "My husband held my hand.
"I thought you'd hate me for the rest of your life!" I said excitedly.
"Hate only makes both people miserable. You've put in the effort, and I've seen it. My husband said gently.
I was still in shock, how could my husband suddenly forgive me?
"Don't blame yourself for too long, people are not sages, they will always make mistakes. Seeing that I was still blaming myself, my husband enlightened.
"I really know that I was wrong, and I will never betray your trust again. I said.
"Well, don't be too yourself. ”
"I have done such an excessive thing, and you have forgiven me so generously, I owe you so much. "I couldn't help but shed tears again.
"Let the past pass, let's start anew and manage our marriage well. "My husband hugged me.
"Husband, thank you for giving me this opportunity. I will spend the rest of my life making up for my mistakes so that you did not forgive me in vain. I sobbed in my husband's arms.
My husband gently stroked my hair and made me cry quietly. I feel like I'm being reborn, and I will definitely cherish the tolerance that my husband has given me.
"Okay, don't cry, from today onwards, let's start again, okay?" My husband lifted my face and said softly.
I nodded vigorously: "Okay, I will be a good wife again and let you feel my love." ”
"Well, I'll spend more time with you too. My husband smiled.
"Thank you for giving me a chance to be born again. I looked at my husband gratefully.
"I also want to thank you for your repentance. This turmoil has strengthened our relationship. ”
"Yes, we will cherish each other more. "I took the initiative to hug my husband.
"I love you and will never change. My husband whispered in my ear.
"I love you too, and love you deeply. "I was moved to tears.
We hugged each other and I knew that our relationship would grow deeper and deeper, and nothing could stop us. I thank my husband for his tolerance,
After this turmoil, I reflected on my mistakes. I was so selfish that I only wanted to get attention and stimulation from the outside world, but I neglected my husband's care for me.
I began to reflect on what was wrong with me. Did I not cherish my husband too much? Or did our married life fall into a dull situation? I thought about it for a long time, and finally realized that the root of the problem was myself.
I should cherish my husband, not be easily tempted because of the trivialities of life. I shouldn't fill the emptiness in my heart with cheating. I want to learn to find pleasure in the ordinary, to find satisfaction in giving.
During this time, my husband's generous forgiveness made me understand that I should be grateful for everything I have now. I am determined to start anew, live up to my husband's tolerance for me, and enrich our lives by working together.
This incident also made me realize that there is a lack of communication between us as a couple. I took the initiative to talk openly with my husband about my life over the years.
My husband said that he also felt that our relationship was not as close as before. He admits that he is too busy at work to be with me often.
I told my husband that I actually needed care and companionship, which was one of the reasons for my cheating. My husband nodded and said that he would correct the problem and would spend more time with me in the future.
We also talked about how monotonous sex has become boring. My husband said that he would strengthen this aspect, and we discussed that we could do some new things together.
Through this long conversation, I feel that we have cleared up a lot of misunderstandings and have a deeper understanding of each other's needs. This will help us rebuild trust and rekindle the spark of love.
My husband and I both realized that trust is the cornerstone of relationships. Without trust, our marriage is in jeopardy.
That's why we solemnly agreed to support each other and rebuild trust.
I promised my husband that from now on I would communicate openly with him and no longer have anything to hide. Whenever I have any complaints or needs, I will inform him in time.
My husband also assured me that he would spend more time with me and care about my thoughts. He would communicate with me regularly and pay attention to my feelings.
We decided to set up a "heart-to-heart time" once a week to have an in-depth discussion about our work, life, relationships and other aspects. This can help us to increase understanding and trust.
In addition, we often go out together, play sports, and participate in various classes to enrich our life together.
I am confident that through our continuous efforts, we will be able to rebuild a solid foundation of trust. We will cherish our current relationship and manage this marriage with a more mature attitude.