Many people think that this suggestion is a bit of a feeling of standing and talking without backache. After all, young people are under a lot of pressure, such as work and life, which makes them reluctant to marry early and have children too early. Raising a child is a big expense, and for many young people, it's a very real problem. Therefore, this suggestion is not recognized by many people. Some people believe that this advice is just an opinion of experts and does not represent everyone's thoughts. Moreover, this proposal does not take into account the actual situation and needs of young people.
However, the expert also stressed that young couples should be forward-looking, recognizing that fertility difficulties are only temporary. In the long course of life, it is possible to overcome these difficulties by seizing the effective childbearing period and relying on the support of relatives and friends. He warned that if you miss this period, you may regret it. Therefore, he advises young couples to seriously consider their own fertility plans and actively seek help and support to ensure that they can successfully pass through the fertility period. At the same time, he also emphasized the responsibilities of the family and society, and called on everyone to pay attention to and support the reproductive problems of young couples, and provide them with necessary help and support.
Some netizens responded humorously to this, they joked: "This expert really dares to say anything, what to do with relatives, just ask for help from this expert." This sentence is clearly a satire of expert advice, implying that experts are too direct in dealing with the problem and ignore the practical complexities.
Some netizens also responded to the expert's words in a touching tone: "Expert, you said this to move me to tears, I feel that I have seen my relatives, you are my relative, will you help me take care of the baby?" This sentence expresses the deep doubts of netizens about the expert's remarks, thinking that the expert's advice is too idealistic and does not take into account the difficulties in real life.
I deeply agree with this netizen's statement. In my opinion, the rhetoric of experts may be too idealistic and ignore the difficulties of real life. At the same time, I also think that this expert may need to have a deeper understanding of social realities and people's real needs.
This netizen's analysis makes a lot of sense. In modern society, life pressures are everywhere, and not only young people, but also many working people are facing tremendous pressure. They need to bear the expenses of housing loans, car loans, children's education and other expenses, and their lives are not easy. Therefore, having relatives help with the children, or paying relatives in exchange for their help, are not viable solutions. Isn't that more stressful?
However, we do not know what this expert thinks. We don't know if he takes it for granted that relatives help with the children, or if he thinks that relatives don't have the pressure to live. If there are relatives who help with the children, should they be paid? These are questions that need to be answered by experts.
In addition, we also need to think about why there are such questions? Is it because the experts' views are different from the public's life experience? Or is it because the experts' family environment and life background are different from the public, so that they do not have a deep understanding of these issues?
In these times of anxiety and challenge, people are gradually realizing that marrying early and having children early is not necessarily a wise choice. The increasing pace of life and the increasing financial pressures have forced many people to postpone these important life decisions. They have come to understand that having their own time and freedom is a precious asset and an important condition for realizing their personal value. Therefore, they choose to pursue career achievements and personal development first, and accumulate a solid economic strength and life experience to better cope with future challenges.
In the past, it was often believed that the completion of life meant the completion of the establishment of a family, however, as the times changed, people's ways of thinking also evolved. Nowadays, we are increasingly emphasizing the value and independence of the individual. We pursue self-fulfillment, aspire to succeed in our careers, and make a difference in society in order to fully demonstrate our abilities and charisma. It's a quest for self-worth, but also for happiness and fulfillment.
However, in this ever-changing society, stress also comes with it. Throughout life, we often see people who are at the top of their careers, often so busy dealing with various challenges and pressures that they are stretched thin on their own time. They strive for excellence, but they are also under untold pressure from all over the world. If they themselves are trying to reduce their stress, why should they expect others to share their worries?
Of course, understanding does not mean encouragement. The diversity of outlook on life and values is a sign of social progress, but we cannot deny the importance of traditional family values. Early marriage and early childbearing are of positive significance to social stability and family harmony. Because of this, we need to think and explore more to find a balance between pursuing personal happiness and fulfilling our obligations within traditional family responsibilities.
In this complex and ever-changing world, everyone has the right to choose their own trajectory in life. Although it is a matter of course that people do not want to marry early and have children early, we should also respect those who choose to marry early and have children early. Everyone has their own pursuits and ideals, and these choices should not be questioned, but should be understood and respected.
In terms of education, children need to be educated for more than 20 years and spend hundreds of thousands on education. However, many young people earn only 3,500 yuan a month, and it is difficult to support themselves, let alone raise children. If you follow the advice of the experts and ask relatives for help, then will the parents pay for the cost or the relatives? If it is a relative, how many relatives are willing to bear such an expense? If it is the parents, then why should you ask relatives for help? Isn't this an extra move?
In addition, today's young people are more focused on self-fulfillment and career development, and they want to achieve something in their careers rather than getting married and having children early. They pay more attention to personal freedom and quality of life, and are not willing to sacrifice their time and energy for the development of their children.