Hello friends!
I am your old friend Rainbow, and the story I want to share with you today is:
The woman had no money to buy milk powder after giving birth to her second child, so she borrowed 1,500 yuan from her brother! The brother transferred 5,000 yuan without saying a word, but the woman didn't have time to be happy, so she was poured cold water on her brother's words! She felt that her brother's words were too ugly and hurt people's self-esteem!
Netizen: My brother's words are not rough! Self-esteem is earned by oneself, not given by others!
Life is often faced with difficulties and challenges, whether it is material needs or moral support, we always hope to be able to get help and support from our families at critical moments. However, in reality, family affection is not always so beautiful and harmonious.
Recently, a story about a woman borrowing money from her brother has aroused heated discussions among netizens.
The woman gave birth to her second child, but faced the dilemma of not being able to afford milk powder. In order to solve this problem, she did not hesitate to borrow 1,500 yuan from her brother.
What is touching is that my brother transferred 5,000 yuan to her without saying a word. This was supposed to be a comforting thing, but just as the woman was about to express her gratitude to her brother, she was deprived of joy by his brother's words.
The woman's words were heartbroken and hurtful, and his words were so ugly and hurt her self-esteem! The woman felt that she had only borrowed money from her brother because she needed help, and she had never thought that she could take her brother's money for granted. Why was she treated like this by her brother?
Although the woman felt that she was hurt, netizens had different opinions about her brother's words. They think that their brother's words are not rough! Self-esteem is earned by themselves, not given by others!
A person's self-esteem should be based on their own efforts and dedication, rather than relying on the handouts of others. The elder brother's words may not be gentle, but they also remind women to have their own dignity and independence.
In life, we inevitably need to seek help and support from others, but at the same time, we must understand that our own worth and dignity do not depend on what others judge and help us. You should face the setbacks and difficulties in life with a positive attitude and bravely go out of your own way.
Whether it's family or social interactions, understanding and respect are essential to maintaining a good relationship. In this story, although the woman was hurt, she also got inspiration and encouragement from the discussion on the Internet.
I hope that she can face difficulties with a strong attitude and create her own happiness and dignity with her own efforts.
Life is full of trials and tribulations, and everyone needs courage and wisdom to face and solve problems. No matter what difficulties we encounter, we must believe in our own strength and worth. Only by persisting in hard work can we win respect and success!
I hope that everyone can learn to protect their self-esteem in life and pursue their dreams and happiness with a strong will.
No matter when and where, we should have enough confidence and respect for ourselves to believe that we can overcome all difficulties and pursue our goals!