There are many 30-year-old engineers around me who are not married, most of them are in good condition, with at least a bachelor's degree, an income of 15,000-30,000, and a good family condition. Some parents are teachers, doctors, accountants, even if their parents are rural, their income is good, not the kind of lazy family.
Once, a female colleague in the office asked these male colleagues, which one would you choose between a 25-year-old woman who is reluctant to have a child or a 35-year-old woman who is willing to have a child?
I originally thought that these male colleagues were all highly educated and high-income, and logically speaking, they must choose the right family, after all, 35-year-old women who are not married generally have higher education, higher income, and higher vision, so they should be more matched.
The results surprised me, almost all male colleagues chose to be 25 years old, even if girls of this age did not want to have children, they also chose to choose. And women over 35 years old, even if the conditions are very good, even if they are willing to have a child, they are not willing to choose.
Colleague A said that you gave two wrong choices, when a man has the conditions, he will not choose not to give birth at the age of 25, nor will he choose to be born at the age of 35, but to choose an 18-year-old, young, energetic, not deeply involved in the world, obedient, and good to have children, when a woman starts to try to get high-quality men to do multiple-choice questions, she has been eliminated.
The logic of this colleague is that men with good conditions in general do not pay attention to girls' academic qualifications, income, and family conditions, because he can afford them. For them, youth is more important than everything, since there are 25 years old and 35 years old, then there are 18 years old in front of them. The younger you are, the better, so why choose those who don't slip and are about to go through menopause.
There is also a colleague who resolutely chooses not to give birth at the age of 25, eliminating the 35-year-old who is willing to give birth, his reason is that a 25-year-old girl may not be willing to have a child at that time, but if the two people have a good relationship, the man has a high education, a high income, and a good original family, then the girl is likely to not give birth at the age of 25, and at the age of 26 or 27, she may change her mind and want to give birth, because this is equivalent to guarding a high-performance stock, which fool will not start first?
In fact, they all understand, but they don't accept it, and thousands of leftover women are not the answer, whether it is said that people are discriminatory, or whether it is men's popular faith, the fact is there, and there is no power to change the world, just bow your head and accept it.
It's like the whole society is worshipping money now, what can men do, play with their lives to make money, or they will lie down and be scum.
In fact, many elderly women have a misunderstanding, they feel that they want to find an annual salary of 300,000 yuan with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan, and their undergraduate degree matches graduate and doctoral students, and their township girls should find a provincial capital in the county seat. Theoretically, yes, it's still quite difficult to execute.
After all, the better the conditions, the more things can be ignored, such as education, salary, and family conditions. And they pay more attention to whether the girl is young, obedient and energetic.
Back to the question at the beginning of the article, a 25-year-old girl is reluctant to have children, maybe a 26-year-old is willing again, women themselves don't know themselves, and they are the easiest to change their minds.
Will a 35-year-old suddenly become 25-year-old one day?
Finding a partner is the same as buying vegetables, you can choose it early, it will be more expensive if it is late, and it will be left to be picked and picked by people later, and the latest is a bunch of rotten vegetables that are picked up and fed to pigs. Although the words are a bit unpleasant, but the reason is such a reason, let's talk about it?
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