Recently, the experience of meeting the father of an ex-boyfriend by chance has attracted widespread attention on the Internet. The woman had broken up with her ex-boyfriend for a while, but in a chance encounter, she blurted out a "Dad" that made the old man stunned on the spot.
This "dad" is not groundless, but in the past days, the relationship between the woman and her ex-boyfriend has been so deep that they have become relatives of each other's families. Perhaps in the process of dating, the woman has become Xi to calling her ex-boyfriend's father "Dad", and this name has continued for a long time, so that it is difficult to change her mouth for a while after the breakup.
The old man's reaction was also touching. When he heard the woman's voice, he was stunned for a moment, and then laughed happily. This scene also made the woman feel very warm. However, she also felt a hint of embarrassment. Because she didn't know how to explain to the old man the fact that she had broken up with her ex-boyfriend.
The old man's care and love made the woman feel mixed. He kept asking the woman how she was doing now and if she had a new boyfriend. This kind of care makes the woman realize that even after a breakup, family affection still exists.
However, this experience also raised questions from netizens. Some netizens said that they didn't understand why their ex-girlfriend would call their ex-boyfriend's father "Dad", and questioned whether this kind of title was appropriate. Some netizens also expressed their understanding, believing that this is a Xi developed in the process of communication, and it is difficult to change their words for a while.
For the doubts of netizens, we can understand that this is a different understanding of intimacy. However, no matter what you call it, it is important that we cherish the people in front of us and leave no regrets. Whether it is in family, friendship or love, we should learn to cherish the relationship with others, and manage and maintain it with our hearts.
This experience showed us the importance of family affection. Even after the breakup, the care and love for each other remains. We should learn to cherish the people in front of us and not leave regrets because of impulsiveness or negligence. At the same time, we should also learn to respect the choices and feelings of others, and not judge others by our own standards. I hope that we can all go further, more stable and happier on the road of life.