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After work today, I hurried to clock out and go home because I had made an appointment at 7 p.m. to take my son to a physical fitness class. When I was about to open the door and leave the office, I was stopped by a colleague who said that I was going to her house for dinner tonight, and that she had good goods tonight and bought Boston lobster and hairy crabs. Because I had already made an appointment with the teacher to take my son to class at 7 o'clock tonight, I didn't hesitate at all, even if I was not interested in eating any delicacies, I blurted out and refused: "I'm really sorry, I have made arrangements tonight, I want to go back to accompany the baby to class." Thank you for having me, and I'll invite you next time I have the chance. ”
I thought this matter was over, but I didn't expect my colleague to hold on to it, and said with a sneer: "It's so difficult for Mary to make an appointment now, you have to queue up if you want to make an appointment with Mary, the schedule is too full, and you can't make an appointment." "Nani?!!! my schedule is too full, it's hard to make an appointment?! I looked helpless, asked me to dinner, and I expressed my gratitude in my heart. But it's really too temporary, I've arranged the child's affairs in advance, so I can't leave an untrustworthy image for my son just to go to dinner, right?
Although I was a little helpless and inexplicable, and even a little angry because I was injured by mistake, I still politely tried to explain: "I'm really sorry, taking my children to class every Friday is arranged in advance, and I can't break the contract in front of my son." I thought that my colleagues would stop explaining again, but I didn't expect people to start spitting golden sentences again.
"It's better to get married and have a baby, I hurry to work in the company every day, and hurry home after work to revolve around my husband and children, and my life is very fulfilling! "I'm a galloping horse, but I really don't have time to explain it to her. Because today is Friday, it will be very congested on the way to get off work, and I will explain to her that it is estimated that it will be endless, and my son's physical fitness class may be late again.
So I didn't care about it so much, so I left the office as if I didn't hear it. On the way back, I have been wondering, her words have been flashing in my mind, is she laughing at herself or mocking me! Human nature is good, I prefer to believe that she is laughing at herself! But when I got home, a message popped up on my WeChat, which was sent to me by a subordinate of my team: Boss, did you offend Sister A, after you left, she was still sneering in the office endlessly! said that the office has the richest life for these married people who have children, and they have to make money during the day, and they have to rush back to serve their husbands and children at night.
I didn't have any trouble with this colleague, and even when she couldn't hold on to the company that year, I taught her, helped her, encouraged her, took her to do projects, and helped her talk about customers. I'm sorry if I inadvertently hurt her by refusing her invitation! But I don't understand how to sneer at me about getting married and having a baby!
Getting married or single is everyone's life choice, and you don't have to laugh at married people with children just because they are single. Every life has its own wonders and limitations! I do envy the freedom of being single, but I also enjoy the joy of raising children.
My female colleague is 46 years old and has never been married. It may be because of the age that the inertia of thinking has been formed, and it is difficult to change. She has a bad Xi, that is, she has no emotional intelligence or focus when speaking, she always likes to spin around in a question, always likes to blurt out what she thinks, and says it for the sake of talking, and does not consider whether the other party wants to listen or not, whether she likes to listen or not! So she is in the office, and she has no friends, and everyone does not like to communicate with her. Try to avoid too many intersections as well!
I'm also thinking about whether it's because I refused her invitation and said that I want to go back to accompany the baby, because she is single and stimulates her, so she holds on to this point and keeps going! I wonder too! Or maybe it's because she doesn't have any projects lately, and wants to invite me to dinner and see if she can give her a little support. If so, she could have just told me, and I'd be happy to help me in the office. I do have to go back to spend time with my kids after work.
I don't know if she specially prepared for me tonight's dinner, but she invited me temporarily, and I was helpless! I really can't help it!