1. 48-year-old Xu Ruoxuan announced her divorce, but it was difficult to reconcile the differences between the two parties
Recently, 48-year-old Xu Ruoxuan announced in a long post on social media that she had divorced her wealthy businessman husband Li Yunfeng. This news immediately attracted widespread attention in the entertainment industry and business circles, and many netizens expressed their regrets, regrets and blessings in the comment area.
Xu Ruoxuan expressed her helplessness and regret about the divorce in her statement. She said that she and Li Yunfeng have experienced many challenges and difficulties, although she has been trying to maintain this marriage, but the personal and professional differences are increasing day by day, and the contradictions between the two sides are becoming more and more difficult to reconcile, "The differences between us are too big, and I really feel helpless."
Second, married life is full of run-in, and in the end it is still unsustainable
According to Xu Ruoxuan's description, there are differences between her and Li Yunfeng in many aspects such as lifestyles and values. "He is a typical businessman, I am more inclined to literary and artistic style, he likes city life, I like the countryside, he pays attention to reason, I value emotion."
These differences make them often run in in their daily lives. "Sometimes I think he is too rational and not considerate of my feelings, and he often says that I am too emotional and not decisive enough to handle things." For the sake of the child, Xu Ruoxuan had to endure a lot, but these differences and contradictions were getting deeper and deeper.
3. The results of divorce selection are compared from various aspects
"We have had a long discussion and comparison about divorce," Xu Ruoxuan said, adding that the choice was made after careful consideration. Both parties believe that in the face of existing differences, continuing to barely maintain the marriage will not only not make everyone happy, but will consume each other, which is also not good for the growth of children.
So after many discussions, they weighed it again and again and decided that divorce was more suitable for the status quo. This can both free both parties from the pain of a failed marriage, and also give them the opportunity to choose a life and partner that is more suitable for them. Of course, this decision was extremely difficult for both sides.
Fourth, Xu Ruoxuan's personal experience and combination background
Xu Ruoxuan, born in 1975, is a famous film and television actor and singer, whose representative works include "Boys Over Flowers" and "Beijing Love Story". In 2013, she became acquainted with the film "72 Hours" with investor Li Yunfeng. In 2014, the two entered the marriage hall.
Li Yunfeng is the chairman of the board of directors of a listed company and a well-known high-net-worth individual in the industry. Divorced twice before and has two daughters. After marriage, they had another son. Xu Ruoxuan worked hard to get pregnant and received more than 300 injections of treatment to give birth to the child.
Fifth, although the divorce is painful, face it bravely, and believe that each will be better
"I know the pain of divorce, but I also believe it's the best option for us right now," Ms. Xu wrote at the end of the statement. She asked for your understanding that they had made this decision that was not an easy one. At the same time, she also expressed her belief that both parties will live better in the end, and thanked everyone for their continued care and support.
Sixth, the reaction of public opinion is mixed, and there are many regrets and blessings
The news of Xu Ruoxuan's divorce from Li Yunfeng sparked a warm response on the Internet. Many celebrities in the entertainment and business circles have expressed their regrets on Weibo. Some netizens said: "I regret very much that the two finally came to the step of divorce, obviously they are both very good people, it would be better if they could reconcile the differences and continue to walk." ”
Some netizens also said: "As an outsider, it is difficult to comment on whether their choice is correct, but it is indeed a brave decision, it takes courage to face the problem and face the problem directly, and I sincerely wish them a better life in the future." ”
Some netizens said: "No matter what, this pair of former beauties still failed to make it to the end after all." I really hope that they will be well in the future, especially the children need the love of both parties, please be sure to maintain a friendly relationship and not let the children be harmed. ”
Reviews from all walks of life are mixed, but most people regret and regret it. There are also many netizens who expressed their firm support and sent their best wishes. Believe that time will heal all this.
7. The practical reasons for marital life are complex, and mutual understanding is needed to seek help
From the marriage process of Xu Ruoxuan and Li Yunfeng, we can see that a successful marriage is inseparable from the persistence and hard work of both parties. However, in reality, due to differences in life philosophy, family background and many other aspects, many marriages are still unsustainable.
When problems arise, the first thing is to take an attitude of mutual understanding and seeking help. Family conflicts can be resolved through communication, or mediation can be sought through marriage counseling. In the face of difficulties, you can't give up easily, which is not only a respect for marriage, but also a responsibility for the family.
If both parties really can't reconcile their differences, and finally choose to divorce, they also need to remain rational and friendly. It's not just about yourself, it's about your child's growth. Sometimes divorce can also be an opportunity to make a new choice, and I believe that as long as you have the right attitude, there will still be good possibilities in life.
To sum up, the divorce story between Xu Ruoxuan and her ex-husband contains our thoughts on real marriage. In the face of all kinds of difficulties, continuous efforts to maintain the right solution is the right solution. And once you come to the end, you also need to stay rational and friendly, which can ultimately protect your own happiness and that of others.
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