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What are the consequences of inadvertently glancing at each other? The answer is: being slapped by 8 girls in turn for 3 hours.
I thought that "what are you looking at, what are you looking at? try it again, try it" is just a joke, but I didn't expect that when the joke happened in reality, it would be so unbelievable!
At an age when you don't know anything, you can behave so excessively towards the same sex, is there something wrong with the three views? Or is the parent's education wrong?
This is the recent public anger "Kong 12-year-old girl was slapped by 8 people in turn to pierce the eardrums" incident, as the incident continues to ferment, now it has also ushered in the latest results: 8 fairy parents apologized and were rejected, and the police have filed a case.
But there are still 3 questions that need to be addressed:
Question 1: From 8 o'clock to 11 o'clock, why no one found out?
"Mom, please, take me away, I can't live here anymore"
This is the cry that Ms. Wu heard after receiving a call from her daughter, and after hearing her daughter's heart-rending cry, Ms. Wu immediately rushed over, but she didn't expect that Xiaohan was already unrecognizable at this time.
His face was swollen like a hair, and even his eyes were only slit, and his cheeks were red and swollen on both sides.
Seeing her daughter like this, Ms. Wu was distressed, so she immediately took her to the hospital and learned what happened on the way.
On December 6th, Xiaohan's school held a sports day, and on such days, the students were the happiest, and Xiaohan was the same, so he ran to the playground with his classmates.
During this period, she inadvertently touched a girl's shoulder, and glanced at the other party, Xiaohan immediately apologized. However, the other party looked at her viciously, maybe there were many people at the time, maybe the teacher was still nearby, so the other party did not make any further moves.
However, at about 7 o'clock in the evening, Xiaohan was called out of the classroom, and before she could ask the other party's intentions, she was surrounded by 8 girls, who not only hugged her and took her to a remote part of the campus, but also snatched her mobile phone.
"Let's take turns fanning, it's a competition, see who fans the loudest"
After the girl who was hit spoke, they began a three-hour "slap game".
So here's the problem, Xiaohan is 12 years old this year, which is the age of junior high school, and even if he doesn't Xi himself at night, it should be time to sleep.
Could it be that neither the teacher, the life teacher, nor the security guard found that Xiaohan was missing?
If only one student is still negligent, then the other 8 students also "disappeared" for three hours, don't the teachers and the dean of students also know?
If there are several people missing in the classroom or dormitory, no one will find out? But during this period, if a teacher can take responsibility, find out that there is a lack of people, and then go to find it, then maybe this conflict can be stopped, and Xiaohan will not be bullied so badly.
Question 2: Xiaohan's face is swollen into steamed buns, and her lips are swollen into sausages, isn't there a teacher who finds out?
After examination, Xiaohan's eardrum was perforated and his face was swollen, and surgery may be required in the future.
And this is only a superficial scar, for this kind of bullied children, the psychological and spiritual damage is greater, it is very likely that they are emotionally unstable, timid and afraid, and even have a boredom with school.
According to Xiaohan, she was very scared after being beaten, because they threatened her that if she dared to tell her teachers and parents, she would be beaten once in the future.
So she didn't dare to say it at all, so she could only go to class normally with this swollen face, until she was teased by the classmates around her, so she couldn't insist on calling Ms. Wu.
In this way, Xiao Han spent at least one night and one morning with this face.
During this period, there will be life teachers to check the bed, there will also be cafeteria aunts, and teachers with morning reading, is no one discovering during this period?
Especially as Xiaohan's homeroom teacher and life teacher, he should be the most familiar with his students, and he should care for them even more, but the children are beaten like this, but they don't know at all?
Question 3: How much compensation can be paid to the abusive parents to heal the child's injured heart?
We have seen a lot of this kind of school bullying incidents, but most of them are compensated because of the "Juvenile Protection Law", after all, even if it is excessive, they do not meet the criminal standard, even after Ms. Wu called the police, the police also suggested that they reconcile, because in the eyes of the police, it is the most important thing to get enough compensation and treat the children physically and mentally, after all, they have not reached the legal age.
But even though she knew what the consequences would be, Ms. Wu still insisted on calling the police, not for anything else, just to get justice for her daughter, just so that they could get the punishment they deserved.
But even though she had already called the police, the school still didn't take it seriously, and the parents of the 8 little fairies even thought she was making a big fuss, because who hadn't fought since she was a child?
It is precisely because of the indifferent attitude of the school and the other party that Ms. Wu chose to expose it, and seeing that the matter is getting bigger and bigger, the school involved has to reply positively, as follows:
1. Some netizens posted on the Internet, claiming that their children were slapped by classmates at school, and our bureau attaches great importance to them;
2. After a preliminary investigation by the public security department, the party Xiaohan and 8 other classmates had a quarrel over trivial matters, and these 8 classmates slapped Xiaohan successively;
3. Caused Xiaohan's face to be swollen and the eardrum was perforated, which has been properly treated, the face is swollen, and the eardrum is treated conservatively.
4. The parents involved have apologized to Xiaohan's parents and paid the medical expenses in advance;
5. The school arranges a full-time psychology teacher to accompany her in the hospital;
6. The local police station has filed a case, and the relevant situation is still under further investigation.
The school explained the incident and the measures to solve it, but did not mention the school's negligence and responsibility, and it is obvious that both the parents and the school are to blame for this kind of incident!
It is said that children are the first teachers of their parents, just like children on a blank sheet of paper, how parents educate, then what kind of people they will become.
If parents teach their children from an early age to respect others, respect the elderly, love the young, and be friendly to classmates, then even in adolescence, they will not do anything that harms the body and dignity of others.
And if the teachers in the school can find out that the students are missing earlier, then they will not develop to this point.
Therefore, how to prevent school bullying and how to educate children to unite and love is the most important. It's not about how to remedy it after the fact.
I hope this incident will also remind everyone how to educate their own children, how to guide their children to be good, how to grasp the results at the same time, but also how to become a better person as a key focus to grasp, then presumably there will be a lot fewer similar incidents in the future.
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