Title: Between Field and Stress: Xiaoyingzi's Parenting Path
Introduction: Hey, you said that this life is sometimes like an endless marathon, especially for rural mothers like Xiaoyingzi. Every day, I was busy from dawn to the top of the tree on the moon, and my heart was full of worries and difficulties. Today, I want to talk to you about Xiaoyingzi's story, maybe you will see the shadow of countless ordinary women in the countryside in her experience.
Text: The fourth brother's family lives in a remote mountain village, and in that kind of place, there is not even a decent supermarket. His wife Xiaoyingzi is only in her early thirties this year and is already a mother of three children. The eldest is already in elementary school, and the youngest is still in infancy. In order for the family to live a better life, the fourth brother worked outside to make money. And Xiaoyingzi stayed at home, taking care of all the housework and taking care of the children.
I remember once when I went back to my hometown to visit relatives, just after five o'clock in the morning, I could meet Xiaoyingzi with three babies on the misty field road. The two older ones ran around and played after her, while she carried the youngest on her back and rushed to the market in the drizzle to sell some of her home-grown vegetables.
You know what? Every time I see her wind-blown hair and muddy trouser corners, my heart tugs. Think about it, we feel overwhelmed with one child in the city, but she has to bring three. Do you remember the time when I took Dabao by myself? I was as tired as a dog - the child was afraid of getting sick when he was a little troubled, he had to be coaxed when he woke up several times at night, and he had to worry about eating, drinking, and Lazar during the day......
When it comes to eating, drinking, and lazing, it takes energy and time to take care of every detail! Especially in the rural environment, it is even more difficult. I think that the old couple of the fourth brother's family are also old, and they can't help much in their hometown, and they are still looking forward to holding a grandson!
Moreover, brothers and sisters, rural women carry the unspeakable burden of responsibility - in addition to cleaning up the house, washing and cooking, taking care of the elderly and children - they also have to take on the role of emotional pillars! Look at the obscurity and strength of Xiaoyingzi, who really sees the confusion and anxiety about the future hidden in the tears of the night?
You may ask, "Why didn't she choose the scientific method to determine the sex of the fetus?," but the question is complex – a combination of social and moral pressures, legal prohibitions, and inner beliefs.
Let's expand the topic a little more and talk about children's health! Some time ago, I heard that Erbao had a fever for a few days! I can only rely on some earthwork to quench my thirst and reduce fever...... It's sad to think about. At least there are many hospitals in our city, and the conditions are good, but they can't even find a clinic there!
In this regard, many netizens have also given suggestions on social platforms - such as hiring a live-in nanny to share the burden. But is the real situation allowing? After all, the question of cost is also a difficult problem.
Summary: Writing here, in fact, I have mixed feelings in my heart. When we talk about parenting in a comfortable environment, please don't forget that there are people like Xiaoyingzi who live hard and hard in the corners of our sight.
We may not be able to change their situation immediately, but we can try to understand and give more attention and support, and we can alleviate their situation through action or policy.
Finally, I want to say: "Come on, Xiaoyingzi!" At the same time, I also sent a message to all women who live as strong and brave as her: May the sunshine always shine into the fields full of hope after your hard work!
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