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Pioneer Valley
What does the ideal partner look like for a woman?
Will it make money, be responsible, or be loyal and responsible?
As the old saying goes, "drama is amorous".
The current entertainment industry is also proving this sentence all the time.
Actor Yu Rongguang seems to have lived a clear stream.
Forty years after his debut, he had zero scandals and loved his wife alone.
Give all your salary to your wife, so that her life is worry-free.
In the eyes of outsiders, he is an out-and-out "model husband".
But when she was approaching the age of sixties, her wife insisted on divorce.
What's hidden in this?
How did Yu Rongguang live after the divorce?
01
In fact, Yu Rongguang's original dream was not to be an actor.
When he was a child, he never thought that he would become an actor in the future.
Because his family is a veritable opera family.
His father, Yu Mingkui, was a famous Peking Opera master in Beijing.
Studied under Qiu Shengrong and has extraordinary strength.
Therefore, the father naturally wants to put the mantle of opera in the hands of his son.
Yu Rongguang has been sensible since he was three years old, and he began to watch his father's performances.
By the age of five, his father had begun to teach him some paces.
To be honest, his father wanted to train him to become the next generation of opera masters.
Therefore, in the memory of Glory, his father has been very strict with him for as long as he can remember.
While urging him to learn Xi, he will also supervise his practice.
Children are naturally playful and always avoid boring exercises.
When he was a child, Yu Rongguang was no exception, always looking for various reasons to avoid practice.
But almost every time it was debunked by his father.
As he grew older, his personality gradually became rebellious.
For his father's discipline, he became more and more disgusted.
The father and son began to quarrel at every turn.
The mother was afraid of hurting the feelings of the father and son, so she proposed to send her son to a special college to learn Xi opera.
My father thought it was a good idea.
So he sent his 11-year-old son to the Beijing Fenglei Peking Opera Troupe to learn Xi opera.
After arriving at the academy, he really understood that his father's previous strictness was not strict at all.
Because his father will take care of the relationship between father and son, and he will not be too cruel to him.
But in the academy, the role of the teacher is to teach and educate people, so that students can learn skills.
At 5 o'clock in the morning, he appeared in the classroom with the students and supervised the students' practice.
According to Yu Rongguang later, when I practiced in the college, I felt so painful that I wanted to cry every day!
As the saying goes, only when you eat hard can you become a superior person.
Yu Rongguang, who has suffered so much, has also improved by leaps and bounds.
Coupled with his father's gifted blessings, he is at the top of the academy in the entire academy.
However, once a person has made certain achievements in a certain field, he will lose interest in continuing to explore.
Yu Rongguang wanted to try a different path when he was learning.
Almost since he was born, he has been exposed to opera.
He longs for the world and life beyond opera.
Therefore, when he saw Nortel's enrollment, he did not hesitate to sign up.
But due to his inexperience, he was not trained to perform at all before that.
Therefore, it is not surprising that he was not selected.
He could only return to the Academy of Drama and continue to practice Xi opera.
But a twist of fate has crept in.
02
The eighties and nineties were the heyday of Hong Kong action films.
Director Xu Xiaoming is preparing to shoot the movie "Kapok Robe".
I want to find an actor who knows both martial arts and has attainments in Peking Opera.
But such an actor, to be honest, is hard to find.
It is necessary to have both a figure and a tough appearance.
In order to find a suitable actor, the director went to the famous local opera performance center to look for it.
Coincidentally, Yu Rongguang was performing here at that time.
The director took a fancy to him at a glance and followed him all the way back to the backstage.
When he finished removing his makeup, he asked him if he would like to be an actor.
With such a good opportunity in front of him, of course Yu Rongguang will not refuse.
But when he really started acting, he realized that acting is really not an easy task.
A shot is repeated dozens of times before a satisfactory result can be barely achieved.
The first time acting, although it was more difficult, but fortunately, the movie received a good response.
Many directors in Hong Kong have also noticed this new face.
This year, Yu Rongguang was 27 years old.
There has been a little improvement in my career, but my parents are most worried about starting a family.
The parents entrusted a lot of relatives and friends, and finally found a very suitable partner for their son.
The woman's name is Wang Yuling and she works in a state-owned enterprise.
People are good-looking, and they have good jobs.
After Yu Rongguang saw it, he was very satisfied.
But the woman was not very interested in him.
Because considering that the man is an actor, there are too many disturbances in the entertainment industry.
She was afraid that such a man would be too easy to mess with.
So, at first, she refused.
But Yu Rongguang didn't want to miss such a good girl, so he went to her again and again.
often ask her out for dinner and prepare small gifts.
After a few times, Wang Yuling changed his mind.
felt that he would not be the kind of man who messed with flowers, so he gradually let down his guard and began to accept him.
After a period of understanding, the two got married.
After getting married, it was proved that Wang Yuling did not see the wrong person.
The husband is as considerate and loyal as he would expect.
There's never some lace news coming out.
Every time the money earned will be handed over to the wife to manage.
His wife can buy whatever she wants at home, and he will do his best to fulfill all her wishes.
During his wife's pregnancy, as long as he was at home, he took care of the housework.
also hired a nanny for his wife to take care of the children, so as not to make his wife too hard.
For his wife, he gave enough money and enough attention.
But the only thing that was not given was - companionship.
03
After the two got married, Yu Rongguang suddenly felt that the burden on his body was heavier.
He wants a better life for his family.
At that time, he gained a certain popularity with "Kapok Robe".
So he took advantage of the victory to chase and filmed a lot of action scenes.
During this period, I earned more and more money, but I spent less and less time with my family.
At that time, he was mainly filming in Hong Kong, but his family was in Beijing.
At that time, the transportation was not as convenient as it is now, and he was busy filming and did not have much time to go home.
Sometimes I don't go home once or twice a year.
Although his wife did not worry about food and clothing, she was very lonely.
After having a child, although there is spiritual sustenance.
But a person with a child, even with the help of a nanny, seems to be powerless.
Children often ask their mothers, "Where has Daddy gone, and why hasn't Daddy come back?"
Every time he heard his son ask like this, he could only say that his father was busy with work and would be back soon.
But she didn't know when the next time she would see her husband.
After entering the new century, Hong Kong films have gradually declined.
So Yu Rongguang returned to the mainland to develop and became a director himself.
I thought that the family would finally have time and live a good life together.
But the wife still underestimated her husband's love for acting.
After returning, he began to direct his first play, "Ping An Office".
In this play, he is both a director and a starring actor.
was so busy that he lived directly to the crew.
The wife still does not see her husband for months and months.
She is tired of this "widowed" marriage, and she longs for her husband's company.
But looking at the underage child, she is still unwilling to destroy this seemingly happy family.
In 2001, Yu Rongguang obtained a master's degree from Beijing Broadcasting Institute, and his strength has reached a higher level.
The TV series "King of Money" directed by him also won the Golden Eagle Award for Best TV Series.
He gained more and more fame and fortune, but gradually drifted away from his family.
04
In 2003, his father was diagnosed with lung cancer.
It was a resounding slap in the face.
After so many years of running around, he neglected his family.
My father is terminally ill and may soon be dying.
But his next move made everyone even more puzzled.
He took his father home, and he asked him if the test results were not good.
He smiled and said, "Everything is normal, just a little slight inflammation, just take medicine for a few days." ”
The fact that his father has cancer is only known to him, his brother and brother, and the three of them.
They unanimously decided to hide it from their father.
In order to take good care of his father, he took his father to his side.
Originally, the doctor only had a few months left to diagnose the father, but under the careful care of his sons.
The father lived for another seven years.
For his father, Yu Rongguang fulfilled his duty as a son and accompanied his father on the last journey.
But for his wife and children, he is always ashamed.
Because from the time the child was a child, he was not by his side.
So the child is also very unfamiliar with this father.
His wife has always accumulated resentment towards him, so when he is at home, the whole family atmosphere seems very cold.
No way, after his father died of illness, he still chose to return to his career.
I don't know if he doesn't know how to face his wife and children, or if he loves acting too much?
In 2021, his wife, who couldn't bear it, filed for divorce.
is close to the age of sixties, but it has reached the point of divorce.
Presumably my wife is also very well thought out!
The old people often say: "Poor and lowly couples mourn everything".
But for this kind of couples who have solved the money bother.
Is it a bit hypocritical to worry about the issue of companionship again?
Everyone thinks that for a family, a couple,
Which is more important, money or companionship?