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Being a guest is a common social activity and a manifestation of etiquette and culture. When we are guests, we must respect the wishes of the host, abide by the rules of the host, do not talk at will, and do not make some impolite actions, otherwise it will bring trouble to the host and put ourselves in an embarrassing situation.
However, there are times when we may meet some hosts who are not very easy to get along with, and they may deliberately or unintentionally say something that suggests that we should hurry away and stop disturbing their lives. If we don't understand what they mean, or if we pretend we don't understand and stay in their home, it can be annoying and even cause conflict.
So, when you go to someone's house, what words do you hear, you should leave quickly, don't pretend not to understand and annoy people? Next, let's take a look at four common examples, hoping to give you some inspiration.
1. "You're welcome, just eat something"
This sentence sounds polite and welcoming, as if inviting us to indulge in their food and not be inhibited. But, in fact, the real meaning of this sentence is that their family doesn't have enough food, or it's not good enough, or they don't want to share it with us.
So, they want us not to eat too much, or to eat too fast, or to eat too fast, or to eat too picky, otherwise, they will think that we are greedy, rude, and ignorant. So, when we hear this, we should understand that the master is actually rejecting us.
He didn't want us to eat more of their food, and he didn't want us to stay in their house longer. We should behave modestly, be polite, not too excessive, not too long, and leave as soon as we finish eating, so as not to disturb their lives again.
2. "You don't have to send it, I'll just go myself"
This sentence sounds very humble and self-reliant, as if to indicate that they don't need our help, don't want to cause us trouble, and can handle their own affairs. But what this really means is that they don't want to get too close to us, or they don't want us to know where they are, or they don't want us to see their privacy.
So, they want us not to follow them, or to send them, or to ask them, otherwise, they will think that we are very curious, a lot of things, very disrespectful, very impolite. So, when we hear this, we should understand that the master is actually rejecting us.
He didn't want us to be involved in their lives, and he didn't want us to know about their situation. We should show understanding, respect, don't force it, don't ask questions, just let them go on their own, and don't disturb their lives anymore.
3. "You don't have to worry, I have everything at home"
This sentence sounds very arrogant and confident, as if to indicate that their family is very wealthy and well-equipped to meet any of our needs without us having to worry about it. But, in fact, the real meaning of this sentence is that they don't want us to bring anything, or give anything, or say thank you.
They want us not to meddle in our affairs, or to do too much, or to be hypocritical, otherwise, they will think that we are hypocritical, hypocritical, and insincere. So, when we hear this sentence, we should understand that the host is actually rejecting us and does not want us to put any burden on them and does not want us to show them any affection.
We should behave in a low-key and simple way, not too much, not too polite, just exchange courtesies, and stop disturbing their lives.
4. "Don't worry, I still have a lot to do at home"
This sentence sounds very warm and thoughtful, as if to indicate that they are very busy at home, have a career, and can play with us for a long time without us worrying. But, in fact, the real meaning of this sentence is that they don't want us to go, or they don't want us to go home.
So, they want us to chat with them, or help them do things, or listen to them brag, otherwise, they will find us boring, boring, and unfriendly.
So, when we hear this, we should understand that the masters are actually forcing us to keep us and don't want us to leave their lives, nor do they want us to have a life of our own. We should behave resolutely, be polite, not too weak, not too submissive, and leave as soon as we find an excuse and stop disturbing their lives.
epilogue
In short, when you go to someone else's house as a guest, when you hear these four sentences, leave quickly, don't pretend not to understand and annoy people, this is a kind of wisdom and a kind of politeness. When we are guests, we must know how to observe words and feelings, grasp the measure, do not listen to random nonsense, and do not make some impolite actions, otherwise it will bring trouble to the host and put ourselves in an embarrassing situation.