Today, I brushed up on an interview clip of Liu Yuning and a screenshot of a group speech, and I couldn't help but continue the last part of "The Light Boat Has Passed Ten Thousand Mountains - Let's Talk About Guanshan and Liu Yuning", and then say a few words.
In that interview, looking at the clothes, it should be the same period as a certain sweeping building, and the host's original words were: Will everyone's evaluation of Ning Yuanzhou affect your mood, because in fact, your debut has been controversial for many years.
Although in general, there may be slightly more people who interpret this "evaluation" as "impact" and "controversy" as negative than positive, there is no doubt that these words are actually neutral.
In this regard, Liu Yuning first said, "Yes, yes, it will affect." Then he turned his head to the camera and said, "You guys work harder...... maybe he felt that his topic was a little abrupt, he interrupted here for a moment, smiled at the host, but still decided to express this sentence completely, "If you work harder, I will collapse immediately......"
Although the later love for the role of Ning Yuanzhou and the fact that he was not as free and open-minded as he had in his previous performances were successfully expressed, the sentence of the camera-facing collapse was really impressive.
Here he automatically and consciously projects the above neutral words as completely negative, and not only that, but he also directly expresses the aggression under this negative emotion - facing the camera and saying "you work harder" (attack me), I immediately collapse (as you wish). It can be seen that in his cognition, the public's criticism of Ning Yuanzhou is almost all.
But in fact, in my opinion of passers-by, there are many positive voices of recognition of him on major platforms, and there must be positive and negative evaluations in half. What's more, the popularity of the drama is rising, which in itself also represents affirmation and goodness.
But in his eyes, the positive voice is gone, and the negative unifies the world. This kind of traumatic performance and attack makes people feel how difficult it is for the light boat to cross the Ten Thousand Mountains. No matter how much support and success he gets, as long as his heart is still stuck in the early years when he was hit by setbacks, then no amount of support and great success will be in his eyes, even if he travels through time and space, he has to go back to the past, experience that traumatized experience and feeling over and over again, and then continue to be trapped in the self-doubt of "am I worthy" and the left-right struggle between "I am worthy" and "I am not worthy" and cannot extricate himself.
This makes it impossible to face reality in the here and now, and it is impossible to evaluate oneself accurately and objectively. If he can't evaluate himself accurately and objectively, he can't accurately and objectively evaluate the outside world, which is a great obstacle to understanding the character portrayed in the script, and his progress in his career will become difficult.
And such an offensive expression is not a good response for fans who like and support him. His inner trauma will make him choose negative voices to listen to, which is equivalent to having two power converters in his ears, one to suppress positive affirmations and the other to amplify negative criticism. Most of the fans' likes and support are ignored by him, and the slightest voice of black fans will be selectively received by him and then get a violent response. From this point of view, he loves black fans more than fans.
In addition to this interview, there is also a screenshot of Liu Yuning's speech in a certain group, which shows this traumatic mentality and aggressive expression, as well as the current situation of not being able to properly face reality and reasonably evaluate oneself. He said, "...... Everything, good and bad, I will bear it, and this time I will not resist".
This is a sentence that makes people feel sad and uncomfortable.
The reality is that Yinian Guanshan has been broadcast, and some say it is good and some say it is bad, but the broadcast effect is good, and the popularity and discussion are quite high. After working hard for so long, and finally having these results, shouldn't he be happy and secretly happy, but how is it that he is here with a kind of "BLABLA, okay, you can beat me" mentality? It can be seen that he left the here and now again, and traveled back to a certain moment in his growth when he could not resist and could only be injured, and experienced the time when he was attacked and suppressed "you are not worthy" over and over again in that place, and then fell into the self-doubt of "am I worthy" again in the counterattack.
His live broadcast is very funny and funny, but for himself, this is likely to be like performing a charlatan with a broken boulder on his chest in the ice and snow, and the money and people of onlookers may not really warm him to let him see his own strength, but through the self-deprecation-counterattack mode. Through this mode, he unleashed a lot of attacks, was able to maintain his mental balance, and continued to fight for his goals. The significance of live streaming to him is likely to lie more in the latter.
This will lead to the fact that now that he is hot in the traffic circle and his career has taken a big step, he cannot enjoy the joy of success, and needs to continue to use the self-deprecation-counterattack model to maintain psychological balance. So he turned up the power amplifier of the negative voice in his heart again, and used the voice of the outside world to demote himself to a lower position, and at the same time used "this time not to resist" to add an iron hoop to the outside to maintain the anger in his heart and maintain the strength to move forward.
This is indeed not far from collapse.
Are you sure you don't stop to take a break and move forward in a different way?
Of course, under the current trend of all-round and multi-angle three-dimensional promotion of artists and dramas, such interviews and such speeches may also be the effect that entertainment companies and drama promoters deliberately let the audience and fans see, to win attention and attract fans. Fans may feel pity and want to heal his wounds on their own, but for passers-by like me, I am actually very discouraged.
Paying attention to the entertainment industry and artists is an extension of the audience after enjoying the film and television works. Because your product is good, I want to know more about your background and surrounding information, and I hope that this information will also bring me a positive and pleasing feeling. I don't like to see people and things that are so addicted to my traumatic experiences that I passively experience too many aggressions. It feels bad. Of course, this is not his fault, and it is true that his bumpy upbringing and obvious traumatic manifestations also make me feel uncomfortable, so I babbled two articles in a row to express it, otherwise these discomforts will accumulate in my heart.
Literary and artistic works have three realms, one is to show what they are really showing and acting like, the second is social significance, expressing positive values, and the third is to return to the original moving of life. Entertainers, not to mention reaching the height of the screenwriter's creation of works, but also to some extent be able to understand the connotation of this triple meaning. A person who is difficult to heal himself will distort the accurate understanding of the script and the character, after all, not every character will be close to the performer's own personality, there will always be a gap. If you want to expand your acting career, you must also heal yourself for better development in the future.
It was not easy for him along the way, and it was also very inspiring. But if you want to go further, it may be difficult not to be aware of the trauma and not change yourself.
In fact, as long as you have goals and ambitions, it is difficult for everyone to make a career, especially for practitioners in the entertainment industry, the most competitive place. None of them are easy people. Rengui sees that it is not easy for himself, but also sees the difficulty of others, and then looks back and finds the luck and joy in his hands, so as to brush away the wind and frost along the way and find the strength to continue to move forward.
The current suppression of "you are not worthy" is actually just self-doubt about "am I worthy" and self-attack of "I am not worthy" in my heart. You can try to put it down, and don't hold on to these two boulders anymore and refuse to let go.
Not to mention career, love is the same. When you turn your head and see someone looking at you nervously and lovingly, hoping that you will see it and worrying that you can't see it, do you just shout at her, "Am I worthy?" regardless of the emotion in your heart? Or do you clasp your arms and shout, "Say I'm not worthy, it's okay that I won't resist this time"?
What a bad scenery, and I don't understand the style. Tsk, absolutely.
Let's put it down, cross it, and let the light boat really cross the Wanzhong Mountain.
(A few more verbose words, passers-by who have eaten melons for three or four years, this circle is like this, the pink and black war is the norm, which popular traffic star is not hacked?
Unless it's too uncomfortable. But then we need to be more aware of why we feel that we can't persevere even when we are close to success, and whether there is a problem with our source of motivation? What do you want to be free or to fight? Who is your opponent?
Man is a very interesting animal, he will PUA himself, he will abuse himself, he will also set limits on himself, draw the ground as a prison, and imprison himself. Only the wise will break through it, find themselves, and go to freedom.
PS, his team should let him rest properly and talk to a psychologist. Strong aggressive expressions that are detached from reality are more dissuasive and dissuade, making passers-by who don't know about his situation feel tea-talking, and thus give birth to bad feelings. If this method is used to abuse fans or publicity, I personally feel that it is more beneficial than profitable. And if this mentality is not adjusted well, the subsequent development will be limited. For example, continuing emo will dissuade passers-by, and if you work hard to make a high-profile black fan, it is easy to give birth to the impression that the villain is successful, and it will dissuade passers-by. ）
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