When the baby is small, the self-care ability is very weak, so weak that even pooping and peeing need the help of adults, otherwise the child may "defecate everywhere" and get dirty everywhere.
In the matter of helping babies urinate and urinate, different parents have different practices, some parents like to "pee", and some parents like to use "diapers".
Why do children "wet the bed" and "defecate in the open"?
Xiaotong has two children, they are twins, but the two children do not live together, and her mother-in-law is worried that Xiaotong will not be able to take care of the two children alone, so she helps take care of the eldest child, and Xiaotong will support the second child by herself.
Although the two children are raised separately, whether they are the eldest or the second, they are well taken care of, after all, whether it is the mother-in-law or Xiaotong, they are the closest relatives of the children.
Slowly, the child gradually grew up, the pressure of bringing the baby was not so great, and Xiaotong's body recovered well, so he took the eldest care of his mother-in-law back home and took care of it himself.
After all, they are all their own children, and if they are always taken care of by their mother-in-law, it will not only make their mother-in-law too tired, but also may weaken the relationship between mother and child, so it is better to bring it yourself.
However, within a few days, Xiaotong found that something was wrong, because the boss often had "open defecation" and "bedwetting".
Xiaotong was worried about what was wrong with the child, so she asked her mother-in-law if the child was uncomfortable, but her mother-in-law said that the children were all fine and had not been sick.
In the hospital, the doctor inquired in detail about the child's living situation, combined with the examination and diagnosis, and finally gave the reason: the child is often urinated, which leads to the deterioration of the individual's ability to defecate independently.
There is not only one reason for the deterioration of bowel ability, including Xi, stress, abnormal development of lower body muscle groups, joint development, etc., and eventually these reasons lead to the weakening of children's ability to defecate, and can not control feces and urine well, resulting in bedwetting, open defecation, etc.
Maybe at this time, someone will say, since it is not good to pee, then it must be no problem to use diapers for children, right?
In fact, what everyone doesn't know is that when the eldest hasn't taken home yet, the second child has been taken to the hospital by Xiaotong because of the problem of red fart, and the reason for the second red fart is because Xiaotong used diapers.
What are the differences between children who are "peeed" from an early age and children who use "diapers"?
Instead of a two-year gap, these three gaps are obvious
1) The health effects are different
Urinating is not a normal physiological behavior, when the baby is in the state of urinating, the state of the defecation organ is not the state that the baby should be in when he defecates alone.
This may lead to unreasonable muscle stretching of the baby's muscle groups and abnormal compression of bones and joints during defecation.
If you urinate for a long time, it may affect the baby's anus, sphincter, hip joint and other parts, resulting in "bedwetting" and even health problems that cannot control bowel movements.
And babies who use diapers are likely to have skin health problems.
Because the baby's bowel behavior is carried out at any time, if parents ignore the diaper check, so that the baby's skin is polluted by feces and urine for a long time, then there may be problems such as red fart.
2) Xi is different
Children who are often urinated on are often in a passive bowel movement situation, so it is difficult to establish a habit Xi of spontaneous bowel movements.
Although the babies who use diapers have defecation on their own, because when they have a diaper to defecate, the baby is in a state of "doing whatever they want", so naturally they have not developed good bowel Xi.
However, in the later stage of bowel Xi Xi learning process, babies who use diapers will learn the correct bowel Xi habits faster.
This is because babies who use diapers are able to control their bowel movements better. At this point, you can actually find in life that those children who are often urinated often take a long time to master the correct bowel ability, while those who use diapers learn quickly.
3) Physical development is different
The more normal the baby's physiological activities, the better the baby's physical development will definitely be.
When using diapers, the baby's physiological behavior, that is, defecation behavior, will not be affected, and it is a natural physiological behavior, so the baby's physical development state will be better.
However, babies who are often urinated on are in a passive state when they have defecation, which is not a natural state, which may cause the baby's development to be affected.
For example, urinating for too long may lead to prolapse of the baby's anus, fissure, etc., and using urine for a long time to help children defecate may affect the development of the baby's spine and other parts, resulting in a negative impact on the baby's physical development.
So, on the whole, it is much better to use diapers for your baby than to pee.
However, when using diapers for babies, you must make the "right choice" and "correct use", otherwise, you may suffer from skin problems such as "red fart" like Xiaotong's second treasure.
How can parents choose and use diapers correctly?
▶ Key points for choosing diapers:
(1) Pay attention to skin-friendliness, the material can not irritate the baby's skin.
(2) Pay attention to breathability, a stuffy environment may cause skin problems in your baby.
(3) Pay attention to the leak-proof effect, if the leak-proof design is not good, and the feces and urine leach out at will, then the diaper will basically lose its original meaning.
▶ Precautions for using diapers:
(1) Pay attention to frequent checks, if you find that your child has a bowel movement, you need to immediately clean your baby's buttocks and change diapers.
(2) Pay attention to the use of corresponding diapers in suitable scenes, such as using "light and thin" during the day to not hinder the baby's movement, and choosing "large capacity" at night to let the baby sleep peacefully all night.
(3) Pay attention to the preservation of diapers, contaminated diapers, even if they look clean, do not use them for your baby.
Write at the end
The reason why parents used to urinate their babies was because of the restrictions at that time, and urine was the best way to defecate compared to other methods.
But now it's different, all kinds of infant hygiene products are abundant, and our way of bringing babies also needs to keep pace with the times.
Therefore, in terms of baby defecation, it is better to use diapers correctly, which can have a better impact on the child and maintain the baby's health.
(The pictures in this article are all from the Internet, and the infringement will be deleted immediately)