On December 12, the news of Zhou Haimei's death plunged the entire entertainment industry into deep pain, and at this sad moment, Zhou Haimei's ex-husband Lu Liangwei caused a storm because of a message of condolence, and was directly bombarded by netizens on the hot search.
Lu Liangwei called Zhou Haimei "seafood" in his post, expressing his deep nostalgia and sadness for his ex-wife. However, this title caused great dissatisfaction among netizens, who left messages accusing him of being disrespectful, and some people even directly asked him to "get out".
Some netizens made angry voices: "Get out, is this a human thing that my ex-husband said? Her name is Zhou Haimei, you call someone else's seafood, get out!" The comments that followed were even more mean, accusing Lu Liangwei of having a happy family while Zhou Haimei left, and asking him if he really loved her.
However, some netizens pointed out that this was just a misunderstanding, because Zhou Haimei's Cantonese pronunciation is "seafood", and Lu Liangwei did not call the wrong name. But even so, there are still some netizens who are unrelenting and strongly demand that she be called Zhou Haimei on such an occasion instead of using dialects.
In the face of the strong attitude of netizens, Lu Liangwei seems to be under pressure. Some people even questioned whether he had not divorced Zhou Haimei at the beginning, would there have been such an ending as he has now? In 1985, Zhou Haimei and Lu Liangwei fell in love because of the drama and fell in love very quickly, but in 1989, the two chose to separate in Las Vegas, USA. The reason is that the personalities are incompatible, Zhou Haimei is outgoing and fun, and Lu Liangwei has a strong family concept, which caused the two to part ways.
Zhou Haimei once expressed her reluctance and nostalgia for the separation of the two in an interview, with tears in her eyes. Little did she know at the time that the shadow of the disease would loom over her life in the future, and she would suffer from lupus erythematosus, be unable to have children, and eventually die alone.
Now, Zhou Haimei has passed away, and it is said that she was alone in a Beijing villa and was found stiff by her assistant. It was too late to get to the hospital, and she only had two dogs by her side. After the news spread, Lu Liangwei's comment area became the focus of public opinion, netizens questioned his way of addressing, some hoped that he could personally go to Beijing to see Zhou Haimei on his last journey, and some were even jealous of his current family happiness.
But in fact, is Lu Liangwei wrong? He may not have known that this day would happen. If time can be turned back, if the two can be given another chance, will they choose to be together again? Zhou Haimei's biggest regret in life is that she has no children and no daughters, has never been married, and finally left alone, which is indeed sad.
At this moment, perhaps we should be more understanding and tolerant of Lu Liangwei. The way of mourning may be controversial, but we can't ignore their feelings and the reasons for their separation. After Zhou Haimei left, what was left to us was the memories of her life and the nostalgia for her. I hope that she can be at peace in another world, and I also hope that Lu Liangwei can bravely face the pressure of public opinion, because in the face of life and death, all criticism seems insignificant.