For this family trip, our family of five is ready to go to a beautiful place in the countryside. My sister and I have always been close sisters, and we always play together and share the moments of our lives. We chatted happily about the past along the way, and laughed endlessly. Mom and Dad don't talk much, but the smiles on their faces are full of happiness and satisfaction.
When we arrived at the farmhouse in the countryside, we were fascinated by the beautiful scenery there. When I saw this pleasant place, I proposed, "Sister, we can find a place to be quiet and enjoy this beautiful scenery." My sister nodded, and we walked together on the country road, basking in the sun, and our bodies and minds were refreshed.
In the middle of this trip, my sister suddenly said to me, "You know, my mother actually told me before she died that she kept all her savings for you and didn't share them with me. She said it was because you had been taking care of her for the past three years and she was reassuring with you. "I was shocked when I heard this, and my heart was filled with guilt and guilt.
I decided to go home and talk to my sister right away, because I didn't want any conflict at home. When I got home, I confessed my mother's words to my sister straightforwardly. My sister looked at me with deep worry in her eyes and said, "Don't be too burdened, there is a reason why your mother is dependent on you, we are all her heart, and this money is not a big deal for us sisters." ”
However, I insisted on giving the money to my sister, and discussed any expenses together in the future. My sister looked at me and suddenly grabbed my hand, she clenched it and said, "We are a family, no matter what happens, we must tolerate each other and be considerate of each other." "Hearing my sister's words, I feel extremely warm and touched, and I am also very glad that I have such an understanding and tolerant sister.
Since then, my sister and I have become more united, and we have discussed together what to do with the money. At the same time, I also cherish the family relationship between us even more. This trip not only allowed us to enjoy the beautiful scenery, but also made our emotions closer. This journey brought the love and emotions of the family to our hearts.
In the days that followed, the atmosphere at home gradually became a little tense. My sister began to become a little distant, and she no longer shared the bits and pieces of her life with me as she used to. I noticed this change and was very anxious. I don't know if it's because of that money that my sister is estranged from me.
One day, I noticed that my sister suddenly worked a lot of overtime and came home almost late. At first, I thought it was a work thing, but then I realized that it was the norm. My sister and I communicated less and less, and the atmosphere in the house became very dull.
One day, I tentatively asked my sister, "I've been so busy at work lately, is there anything to worry about?" "I know my sister doesn't want to tell me the truth, but I don't want to ask too much. The days went on like this for a long time, and the atmosphere at home was depressing.
Finally, one day, I decided to have a good talk with my sister. I pulled my sister and sat on the sofa and said, "Sister, some things seem to be very stiff between us, can you tell me what the reason is?" My sister was silent for a while, and then said, "Actually, I always felt that you should not share the money with me, and there is a reason why my mother left it for you." I think after you gave me that money, there seems to be a distance between our family relations, and I don't want to be estranged between us because of money. ”
I was shocked to hear this, it turned out that my sister was estranged from me because of the money. I hurriedly comforted my sister and said, "Sister, I really didn't mean to create a barrier, I just felt that the money should have been shared by my sister and me." I've always treated you as the closest person to me, and this money doesn't change the relationship between us. ”
My sister listened to my words, and the expression on her face softened slightly. There seems to be a hint of relief in our relationship. But I know that this is not going to end so easily. The money my mother left me turned out to be a hurdle between us.
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We decided to use the money for a good life for the whole family. However, just as we started discussing the use of the deposit, something happened that everyone did not expect. It turned out that Dad was planning to borrow a sum of money to expand his business and invest in real estate. He believes that this will lead to more wealth and improve our lives. When my dad proposed the plan, my mom and sister were supportive, and only my sister and I had reservations.
For this proposal, I feel that there is a risk in the loan, and we are not short of money, there is no need to take such a risk. I suggested that my mother had left this savings to me in the hope that I would take good care of the family, not so that my father could make an investment. My sister also agreed with me, saying that the health and happiness of the family were more important than taking risks for money.
However, Dad believes that this investment plan will bring a better life to the whole family, and he is confident that he can succeed. Differences began to arise between my dad and me, and the rest of the family began to get into arguments. This makes the family atmosphere tense and awkward.
The conflict after this family trip strained the relationship between me and my dad and plunged the whole family into silence. I began to reflect on my position, whether I was worried about my father's decision, or whether I was selfish and insisted on opposing it. At the same time, my sister also began to take the initiative to talk to me, and she hoped that we could discuss with my father and find a solution that would be good for the whole family.
This conflict gave me the opportunity to re-examine the positions and opinions of each member of the family. Perhaps, we can communicate rationally, tolerate each other's ideas, and finally find a decision that is most beneficial to the family. Now, I need to discuss with my sister to see if we can find a solution to this conflict.
Soon, we were back to our daily routines. Although my sister and I have always maintained a good relationship, there will inevitably be friction in our daily lives. Because since I was a child, I have always been the "little princess" of the family, often cared for and pampered by my family, and my sister has always been an independent and strong person. In many ways, we are conflicted. One day, I offered to go on a trip with the money my mom had left me, and my sister suggested saving it for a rainy day.
On the spur of the moment, I directly accused my sister of not having the right to ask how the money was used, and what my mother left me was, of course, up to me. My sister was silent for a while, and then said quietly, "I know that my mother is dependent on you, and we are all ready to accept this ending. But my mother didn't give you a person, she wanted us sisters to take care of each other, and learn to understand and tolerate each other. "My emotions became agitated, and I kept emphasizing that this was left to me by my mother before she was alive and should be at my own disposal.
After this argument, I felt a little uneasy and guilty. I began to recall the bits and pieces of our past, how my sister took care of my mother during her illness, and how she was dedicated and strong to the family. I, on the other hand, have always behaved more selfishly and willfully. Now, I realize that this selfishness is a sign of immaturity. Sometimes, in the name of love, we hurt the people closest to us because of our selfishness.
After I calmed down, I took the initiative to find my sister, I apologized to her, admitted my fault, and offered to compromise, I was willing to listen to my sister's opinion and turn this money into our common property. My sister hugged me tightly and told me that the money was not important, the important thing was that we could always understand and tolerate each other.
I have learned that family affection is the most beautiful emotion, and we should not be swayed by material things and selfishness. My sister and I had an argument, but our relationship was stronger and stronger. This incident has taught me to understand and respect other people's opinions, and to let go of my own selfishness and narrow-mindedness. The disputes between us are just episodes in life, while our emotions and affection are eternal. Next, I decided to plan the use of the money with my sister, after all, our love, our family affection is the most important thing.